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How to kiss, how to have an orgasm, how to eat pussy, how to buy a vibrator, and more. All your sex how-to guides here.

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How To Give The Best Blowjob Ever!

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Approaching Sex After Birth

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All You Need To Know About Contraceptives

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The Sex Talk Your Mother Never Gave You: Using your Voice

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Get More Out Of Jerking Off

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Sex Ed For Parents

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Gags With Mistress Mona

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Sex Toy Shopping 101

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Dating For Introverts

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Did I Cum?

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All About G Spots

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Fingering 101

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Going Down: What Not To Do

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5 Tips For Overcoming Shyness In Bed

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10 Tips For Hotter Handjobs

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Masturbating A Prostate

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What the Hell is This Poly I Keep Hearing About!?

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Mapping Your G-Spot Pleasure

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Become A Dirty Talk Master!

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Making a Pleasure Playdate

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Dating While Disabled

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How-To Facts: Did You Know?

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How to use lube: put a little on your hand, apply to genitals or toys, reapply as much as you like for slippery fun.

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How to clean a sex toy: soap and water is usually fine, or buy a toy cleaner. You can even boil solid silicone toys.

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How to do Kegel exercises: clench pelvic floor muscles, hold for a moment, release and relax muscles. Repeat.

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How to eat pussy: Smile, start slow, focus on the clit, maintain constant rhythm and pressure when nearing climax.

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How to use a vibrator: turn on a low setting, place against your sexy bits, turn up and move around as desired.

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How to use a cockring: put on when semi-erect, position at the base of the penis, remove after 10 min.

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Mapping Your G-Spot Pleasure

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Fingering 101

Finesse your fingering skills in this live stream! Good finger sex is super hot. Get the facts on vulva anatomy and how to explore the sweet spots with your fingers and guide your partners there. You'll get tips on technique, communication and safety.

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The Queer Sex Ed You Never Got In School

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What the Hell is This Poly I Keep Hearing About!?

In this intro to Consensual Non-Monogamy, Dr. Yoni will tell you about the types of alternative relationships out there, share some concepts of how they work, and will give you some tips to take into your monogamy that would enhance your relationship.

Become A Dirty Talk Master!
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Become A Dirty Talk Master!

Helping you find the words to maximise hot and minimise awkward. O.school’s resident cunninglinguists Kate and Louise will show you how to master your dirty talk game.

All About G Spots
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All About G Spots

Do I have one? Where is it? Why can’t my partner find it? Am I supposed to squirt? This AMA on G-spots will help you discover your orgasm diversity and offer tips for exploring your G-spot with toys, fingers and partners.

Masturbating A Prostate
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Masturbating A Prostate

On this stream we dive into prostate play and tools to help you self-stimulate for an incredible orgasm!

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Did I Cum?

Not all sex has to focus on orgasms as the end goal, but lots of us aren't sure what an orgasm feels like. Join this livestream to learn what your body does during orgasm, signs of orgasm and the different ways your to build bigger, better orgasms.

10 Tips For Hotter Handjobs
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10 Tips For Hotter Handjobs

Stroke it to woke it! Handjobs can be heavenly for both the giver and receiver with fun techniques, sexy communication and lots of lube. Tune in for 10 tips to giving hotter handjobs!

Are You Giving Friends The Best Sex & Dating Advice?
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Are You Giving Friends The Best Sex & Dating Advice?

Get wise before you advise! LexxieLex has some critical ideas on how to be the most thoughtful, sex-positive and validating friend. We'll respond to audience submitted questions and take yours live from our anonymous chat space.

Impact Play With Mistress Mona
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Impact Play With Mistress Mona

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about impact play! Spanking, cropping, flogging and much more!

Gags With Mistress Mona
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Gags With Mistress Mona

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about gags! How to use safe words when you can’t talk, which gags work best in different situations, WHY would I want to try a gag?

We're In Love, But Our Sex Life Sucks
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We're In Love, But Our Sex Life Sucks

You love your partner but the sex isn't the best. Do you leave them? Talk to them? Masturbate more? Join this stream to learn about the different ways to explore chemistry and desire, increase communication and how to build better sex with your boo.

Sex Ed For Parents
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Sex Ed For Parents

If we want to raise children into adults who respect their bodies and others' we need to start talking early. BUT HOW? What do you say? When do you start?

Dating While Disabled
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Dating While Disabled

Dating is tough. If you identify as outside of mainstream beauty and romance standards then you might have a unique perspective on the dating world. Tune in with Matchmaker Claire AH to ask her anything and get tips for dating while disabled.

Dating For Introverts
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Dating For Introverts

So, you're single, ready to mingle and introverted. How do you put yourself out there when you're single and introverted? Q will share tips with you around connecting and letting someone know you’re interested in them.

Get More Out Of Jerking Off
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Get More Out Of Jerking Off

What's more embarrassing about taking a class on jerking off? Denying yourself the opportunity to have better orgasms. Learn how to get that hot rod HOTTER!

5 Tips For Overcoming Shyness In Bed
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5 Tips For Overcoming Shyness In Bed

Body shy? Worried about performance? Insecure about your experience level? Sex is a skill and we’re always learning. Tune in for tips on building body confidence, finding your own version of sexy and communicating your desires.

Intro To Temperature Play
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Intro To Temperature Play

Join Micki for some Hot Tips for Cool Orgasms and other ways to chill with your lover using temperature play!

Prostate Play With Mistress Mona
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Prostate Play With Mistress Mona

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about the physical AND emotional side of prostate play!

Sex Toy Shopping 101
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Sex Toy Shopping 101

Is the thought of buying sex toys overwhelming? SO MANY decisions to make! Online or in store. Vibrating or not. Insertable or not. Batteries or Rechargeable. Lube? Cleaning? The Vibrator Whisperer is here to make shopping for toys easy-peasy!

The Sex Talk Your Mother Never Gave You: Using your Voice
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The Sex Talk Your Mother Never Gave You: Using your Voice

An O.school fan said they wished their mother taught them how to use their voice and stand up for themself with problematic partners.

Be A Better Kisser
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Be A Better Kisser

Kissing is the best. And it can get even better. Join Dr. Yoni and his kissing coach partner as they talk all about smooching.

Buttstravaganza
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Buttstravaganza

All about that booty. Get tips on seducing the butt, hygiene, choosing anal play toys and how to talk about anal sex with your partners!

Three Secrets To An Incredible Blowjob
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Three Secrets To An Incredible Blowjob

The secrets have nothing to do with oral technique!

Masturbation As Self Care
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Masturbation As Self Care

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How To Put On A Masturbation Show
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As amazing as your partner might be at sexually satisfying you, no one knows your body like you do. Often, masturbating is something we do in private, but this act of pleasuring yourself can be an intimate experience to share.

All You Need To Know About Contraceptives
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All You Need To Know About Contraceptives

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Building Sexual Confidence

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Approaching Sex After Birth

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How To Give The Best Blowjob Ever!
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How To Give The Best Blowjob Ever!

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Going Down: What Not To Do
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Going Down: What Not To Do

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F*ck Lube Shame! Why You Need It
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F*ck Lube Shame! Why You Need It

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Approaching Sex With A Trans Person

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Vibrator Shopping 101

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Afrosexology

Founders, Afrosexology

Dalychia and Rafaella are the women to be reckoned with behind the name “Afrosexology”, a sex and pleasure education provider that seeks to help brown and black people lead their most pleasurable lives. At O.school, Afrosexology focuses on helping students unlearn shame while simultaneously reclaiming their bodies and their sexual power.

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Andrea Barrica

O.school Founder / CEO

Andrea Barrica envisions a world in which everyone has autonomy over their own body and pleasure. That’s why she started O.school, where she streams as a Pleasure Professional in addition to being the CEO. Previously, Andrea co-founded YC-backed accounting and tax platform, inDinero.com, where she led sales and operations. She also served as a venture partner and entrepreneur-in-residence at 500 Startups

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Colby Marie Z

Sexologist

Colby Marie Z is a sex & relationship coach, educator, speaker and blogger based out of Providence, RI. She is a doctoral candidate in human sexuality, an avid (slash obnoxious) football fan, and has been proudly talking about sexual pleasure, confidence, and satisfaction for 10+ years. She is the founder of Sex, Love & All the Feels, where she strives to provide accurate, honest and factual sex and relationship info …with a dash of sass.

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Dr. Uchenna Ossai

Pelvic Health Physical Therapist & Sexuality Counselor

Sex-positive pelvic health physical therapist Dr. Uchenna Ossai is available on O.school to talk pelvic floor, bladder and bowel health, sexual dysfunction and chronic pain. As one of three licensed physical therapists in the world with an AASECT certification in sexuality counseling, Dr. UC is uniquely qualified to answer all your pelvic health-related questions.

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Dr. Yoni Alkan

Doctor of Human Sexuality

Dr. Yoni, DHS, seeks to do his part to improve our dating landscape as well as to share his knowledge of consent culture and alternative relationships through O.school live streams and beyond. Yoni facilitates individual cuddling sessions as well as cuddle parties in San Francisco. He speaks about human sexuality around the world and has been writing about sex and relationships since 2011.

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Jess Melendez

Sex Educator

Pleasure Pro Jess teaches, among other topics, LGBTQ sex and pleasure education at O.school. Her time at an adult toy store has taught her how to facilitate shame-free conversations about pleasure, and today, working with folks to unlearn shame is Jess's aim in all her education work. She also teaches comprehensive sex education to youth.

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Lucia Pavone

Sensuality Instructor

Lucia Pavone is an international speaker, sex educator, and instructor of the art of sensual pleasure. She has spent years researching communication, intentional living and sensuality, and has experienced over 6,000 hours of Deliberate Embodied Orgasm (full-bodied, extended orgasm). On O.school Lucia supports women and couples to connect to their sensuality, love the body they are in and have a sex life worth bragging about.

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Luna Matatas

Pleasure Pro

A vibrant pleasure educator and aspiring burlesque performer, Luna embraces the weird, wild and wonderful kaleidoscope of sexuality. Luna seeks to help students of all experience levels deconstruct their inner walls and approach their desires with playfulness, an open mind, and an empathetic spirit. Her O.school workshops on body love, pleasure, and play are refreshingly funny, warm and inviting.

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Lydia M. Bowers

Family and Sexuality Coach

With over 15 years of Early Childhood Education experience under her belt, Lydia M. Bowers now focuses on educating families to better understand childhood and adolescent sexual development. Additionally, Lydia's personal experience with pelvic pain has motivated her work with individuals dealing with pain, as well as trauma and/or shame, to reclaim pleasure.

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Mona Darling

Sex Coach

Sex Coach Mona Darling works with women and couples who are curious about the feelings that Fifty Shades of Grey may have stirred in them! Mona works with clients, both IRL and via live stream, to uncover, communicate and enjoy their desires.

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Q Wilson

Pleasure Pro

Queer, gender-nonconforming and non-monogamous, Q is a certified sex educator and trainer, and social justice activist of 20 years. At O.school, Q streams on a wealth of topics, including building sexual confidence, consent, boundary-setting, pleasure, online dating  and communication.

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Reba the Diva

CEO of Sexpert Consultants LLC

Reba is an entertainer, sexuality educator and entrepreneur. She is the CEO and Founder of Sexpert Consultants LLC, a company that offers educational entertainment services with a focus on sexual health. Reba is an ambassador for the American Sexual Health Association (ASHA) and through her work is committed to promoting sexual health awareness among adults of all ages.

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Sharin' Peter

Community Sexual Health Resource

Pleasure Pro Sharin’ Peter has years of experience offering sex and pleasure education classes, adult product demos, staff training and advice for the beginner and advanced alike. Trained by the Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, Sharin' is a certified Community Sexual Health Resource. She believes pleasure-oriented, intersectional sex education can change the world!

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