How to Give the Best Blowjob Ever!

A blowjob is oral sex performed on a person with a penis. There’s no one way to give a blowjob, but there are a few tips that can be useful, depending on the needs and desires of the giver and receiver.

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A blowjob is oral sex performed on a person with a penis. There’s no one way to give a blowjob, but there are a few tips that can be useful, depending on the needs and desires of the giver and receiver.

Before you give or receive a blowjob, it’s important to discuss consent and STI prevention. Then, you can more fully enjoy the main event. When putting your mouth on a penis, try not to let your teeth clamp down and tear the delicate skin on the shaft (unless, of course, you’re asked to do that!) As the penis becomes more and more erect, try playing with rhythm and sucking intensity and speed. Does the receiver like it when you move their penis in and out of your mouth quickly or slowly? Do they like it when you maneuver your hands around the shaft while their penis is in your mouth? Does the receiver like it when you gently grip their testicles with your hand while you suck on the penis, or do they like their testicles to be left alone? These are all important questions to ask ahead of time, but they can also be a part of a learning experience in the moment if the penis owner isn’t sure what they like.

Blowjobs often end in ejaculation. When the person performing oral sex finishes off the person receiving it, where should the semen go? Some people prefer to swallow the semen, while others prefer the ejaculate to go on their face or into a towel. These are all things that should be discussed before the blowjob to maximize enjoyment and to be considerate of the boundaries of both the giver and receiver.

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