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April 20, 2022

She Couldn’t Find Enough Feminist Porn — So She Decided To Create It Herself

We spoke with Angie Rowntree, founder of Sssh.com, to learn what makes porn ethical, the difference between performance and reality, and more.

By

Emily A. Klein

March 25, 2022

I Might Have A Seizure When I Orgasm

My disabled body has as much right to enjoy sex as any other, and I’m going to embrace it — tremors and all.

By

Angie Ebba

March 4, 2022

Make A BDSM Contract Using O.school’s Original Template

Use this contract template whether you’re just starting to explore BDSM or looking to formalize a power exchange dynamic.

By

Emily A. Klein

March 4, 2022

Exhibitionism: What It is And How To Try It Safely

Do you get turned on by the idea of being seen?

By

Kaye Smith

February 11, 2022

What Is Voyeurism? How To Try It Consensually And Safely

So long as everyone involved is enthusiastically consenting, voyeurism can be hot.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

February 11, 2022

Interested In Trying Pegging? Here's What You Need To Know

Follow these tips to try pegging and have a fun, safe, and sexy experience.

By

Kaye Smith

February 11, 2022

COVID Lockdowns Didn’t Impact Masturbation Habits As Much As You Thought

Our study also found people used sex toys less. What's that about?

By

Emily A. Klein

January 31, 2022

7 People Reveal What Rope Bondage Is Like For Them

There’s a wide range of experiences: Some love it, some hate it, others feel in between.

By

O.team

February 2, 2022

Desire Giving Sexual Pleasure But Not Receiving? You May Be A Placiosexual

For some, this label can be a helpful tool to communicate wants and needs to partner(s).

By

Angie Ebba

March 7, 2022

Power Exchange: 3 Types Of BDSM Dynamics Explained

Learning about the different types of power exchange can help you determine if you’d like to try this type of play.

By

Kaye Smith

January 26, 2022

How To Enhance Pleasure With Temperature Play

Applying cold or heat to the body can help heighten a sexual experience in new ways.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

January 17, 2022

Your Guide To Impact Play And How To Do It Safely

If you’ve ever had your ass slapped, you’ve tried impact play. But this type of play can go far beyond ass-slapping, too.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

January 17, 2022

How Spicy Are You? O.school's Spice Meter Can Help You Decide

O.school’s Spice Meter scale is a simple way to discuss kinks, boundaries, and more.

By

Emily A. Klein

January 17, 2022

In 2021, I Lost My Virginity For The Second Time

Pegging wasn’t a kink thing for me. It was gender-affirming, though I don’t identify as trans.

By

Ally

January 8, 2022

How to Safely Combine Food and Sex for Some Sensual, Messy Fun

Finally, a setting where it’s actually acceptable to play with your food.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

January 8, 2022

9 Resources for People Interested in Learning About Kink and BDSM

Check out our favorite resources for the kink-curious.

By

O.team

May 16, 2022

‘Vanilla Sex’ Isn’t Boring: 11 Ideas for Sexual Exploration if Kink Isn’t For You

You don’t have to identify as kinky to have an exciting and experimental sex life.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

January 8, 2022

BDSM Aftercare: What It Is, Plus Some Aftercare Ideas To Try

Winding down after a scene for some TLC can be an important part of play.

By

Kaye Smith

December 17, 2021

9 Ways To Spice Up Solo Sex When You're Stuck In A Routine

It’s never too late to get creative with your masturbation routine, even if you’ve been doing it the same way for a long time.

By

Kaye Smith

December 17, 2021

How To Make A First-Time Kinky Experience Safe, Fun, And Hot

Experimenting can be exciting, but it’s important to know what you’re doing first.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

April 13, 2022

How Grief Can Impact Your Sex Life And 6 Tips For Navigating It

Grief can impact your sex life in a number of ways. While there’s no right or wrong way to go about it, these tips for navigating sex while grieving may help.

By

Emily A. Klein

September 17, 2021

6 Tips For Giving A Partner Feedback In Bed Without Criticizing Them

There are so many ways to gently tell a partner what you want and need.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

March 30, 2022

Where to Find Feminist Porn for Free

OnlyFans isn’t your only option.

By

Tabitha Britt

August 6, 2021

Sex After Menopause: What To Expect

It’s normal to feel like menopause is affecting your sex life, but there are plenty of things you can do about it.

By

Emily A. Klein

April 13, 2022

How Can I Support A Partner Whose Kink I Don't Share?

If you want to try to accommodate your partner’s fetish, it’s important to set boundaries beforehand. Know, and communicate, what you are and aren’t willing to try.

By

Emily A. Klein

April 13, 2022

How Can I Tell My Partner About My Fetish

If you feel shame around your fetish or fear rejection, you might be hesitant to talk about it with your partner. Open communication and honesty, however, can help you feel closer to your partner and enhance the overall health of your relationship.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Sexual Performance Anxiety: What Is It And How To Overcome It

Pressure to perform in bed can stop you from having a good time, but there are ways to work through the fear.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

August 2, 2021

8 Tips For Having A Safe And Sexy One-Night Stand

So, you’re interested in having a one-night stand? Hooking up can be a blast, so long as you do it safely. Here’s what you need to know to have a responsible (and sexy) one-night stand.

By

Amanda Scherker

April 13, 2022

Is Period Sex Safe?

In most cases, it is perfectly safe to have sex when you’re on your period.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

My First Time: Trying Lorals

I always get more turned on when I’m on my period... But there’s one course I’ve never felt comfortable charting during that time of the month: receiving oral sex.

By

Amy Collins

August 2, 2021

How To Have A Threesome

Follow these ten tips to have a sexy, drama-free threesome experience.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

Sex After 50: How To Keep The Spark Aglow

While aging can occasionally pose new physical or emotional challenges when it comes to having sex, there are some amazing perks to having sex later in life.

By

Camille Beredjick

August 2, 2021

Kama Sutra Positions To Make Sex A Mindful Practice

‍Exploring these sex positions can help you broaden your horizons and help you connect with a partner.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

How To Do Wet And Messy Play

If lots of lube, squirting, and other kinds of messy sex gets you going, here’s the tea on this fetish.

By

Caroline Colvin

August 2, 2021

How Can You Be A Feminist As A Submissive?

If you are a feminist interested in playing a submissive role, you might wonder if this will conflict with your ideals. We’re here to tell you — it doesn’t have to.

By

Holly Pigache

August 2, 2021

How The Menstrual Cycle Affects Libido

Many factors can influence libido, and we are continually learning more and more about the connection between libido and hormones throughout the whole menstrual cycle!

By

Liv Cassano

August 2, 2021

Intro To Rough Sex If You've Been Too Nervous To Try Before

If you’ve been wanting to try rough sex, there are plenty of ways to ease into it. Experimenting is more than half the fun.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

11 Tips To Orgasm From Penetration Alone

A hands-free orgasm from penetration alone may feel elusive. But there are ways to do it.

By

Louise Bourchier, MPH

August 2, 2021

13 Best TV Sex Scenes To Stream For Steam

Now you don’t have to sift through millions of episodes to find the ones that’ll get you going.

By

Jessica Tholmer

August 2, 2021

14 Best Movie Sex Scenes You Can Stream Right Now

The best movie sex scenes are just a click away.

By

Jessica Tholmer

August 2, 2021

8 Myths About Sex And Disability, Debunked

There is so much misinformation about sex and disability. We’re here to set the record straight.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

10 Things Women After 50 Should Know About Sex

Our bodies and minds change as we get older, but sex can remain great.

By

Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith

August 2, 2021

Rope Play: What Is It And How To Do It Safely

Spice up your sex life with something a little “knotty.”

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

The Best Sex Positions To Try If Sex Is Painful

If sex is painful for you, try these positions for some relief.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

30 Of The Best Sex Songs For Getting Down And Dirty

Find a song that matches you and your partner’s rhythm best.

By

Caroline Colvin

August 2, 2021

Best Cuddling Positions To Try — And What They Mean

There are so many different ways to snuggle up.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

April 12, 2022

Tips To Have Your First Orgasm After Years Of Trying

You’re probably tired of being told to “just relax.”

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Mismatched Libidos? Here’s What You Can Do About It

If your sex drive is higher or lower than your partner’s, there are things you can do to still have a satisfying sex life.

By

Caroline Colvin

August 2, 2021

Boring Sex? What To Do If You've Fallen Into A Routine

If sex is a snooze, try these tips to reignite your spark.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

How To Keep Sex Interesting If You Live Apart

Here are a few tips to keep things hot and fresh if you’re away from your boo.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

6 People On Reaching Their Sexual Peak After 50

The best sex of your life can happen at any stage.

By

Jessica Tholmer

August 2, 2021

Am I Having Bad Sex?

Here’s why you might be having bad sex and 9 tips how to make bad sex better.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Why Your Libido May Have Decreased - And How To Get It Back

If you’ve noticed your sex drive has declined, here are a few tips to get it back on track.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Finding Your Sexuality Again After Losing A Loved One

O.school asked three people to share their journeys of finding sexuality again after being widowed.

By

Micki Allen

August 2, 2021

7 Blowjob Tips For Those Giving Head Later In Life

Blowjobs can be amazing at any stage of life.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

What Is Spooning And How Exactly Is It Done?

You’ve heard the term, but do you know what “spooning” actually is? Let’s break it down.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

How To Give A Footjob

These tips can help you give a hot fj.

By

Caroline Colvin

August 2, 2021

7 Unexpected Facts About Kissing That'll Make You Say ‘Mwah!’

Who knew locking lips was so interesting?

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Role Play Ideas That Aren't Just Teacher-Student Scenarios

Creating sexy scenarios can be a great way to explore different fantasies with your partner.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

How Do You Kiss Someone For The First Time?

There are a few things you can do to prepare for your first smooch.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

12 Sex Games That Just Require A Little Bit Of Creativity

These games can help build intimacy in unexpected ways.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

How Vintage Pornography Made Me Finally Feel Sexy

If you’re not into the porn you see online, there are alternatives to explore.

By

Giselle DaMier

August 2, 2021

What Are BDSM Punishments?

BDSM punishments can be as fun or as serious as you want them to be.

By

Ali Mercieca

August 2, 2021

How To Anal Douche

Learning how to douche safely can make butt play more fun.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

Is Oral Sex A Sin?

The short answer is no. Here’s why.

By

Bethany Heitman

August 2, 2021

What Do Meditation and Prayer Have To Do With Sex?

These practices can make sex all the more sensual.

By

Micki Allen

August 2, 2021

4 Face-sitting Positions To Make Bedroom Time Even More Intimate

Try these sexy, fun positions.

By

S. Nicole Lane

August 2, 2021

Best Threesome Stories Worth Reading

Five people share their experiences.

By

Bethany Heitman

August 2, 2021

Is Masturbation A Sin?

You don’t have to compromise your religious beliefs to know masturbation is not a sin.

By

S. Nicole Lane

August 2, 2021

How To Be Dominant

Learning to be dominant in bed can take some practice.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

How to Finger Ass

Buttplay beginner? Ass-fingering feels awesome, and here are some tips to make it even better!

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Is Masturbation Normal?

If you find yourself wondering if masturbation is “okay” or “normal,” read up on all the reasons why it totally is — and why it’s also healthy for you, too!

By

Megan Healy

April 13, 2022

How to Make a Vulva Owner Wet

Knowing that your partner is dripping with arousal can be a major turn-on! So how do you make your partner wet? Read on for some tips!

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Best Sex Positions For When You're Pregnant AF

Especially if you’re super pregnant, it might feel impossible to get the position just right!

By

Dr. Sarah Toler

August 2, 2021

How to Safely Pull Hair During Sex

Want to experiment with some hair tugging? Here’s how to try it out without hurting your partner.

By

Danielle Campoamor

August 2, 2021

Why I Tried BDSM for the First Time on Valentine’s Day

I breathed in a new sense of confidence in myself and my sexuality.

By

Alexandra Applegate

April 13, 2022

How to Swallow Cum — If That’s Your Thing

To spit or to swallow? That is the question. Let’s talk about tips and techniques if swallowing is the way you wanna go!

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Can It Actually Be Harder to Orgasm from Missionary?

If you’re having trouble reaching orgasm in the missionary position, you’re not alone.

By

Rebecca Koon

August 2, 2021

Anal Sex Positions You’ll Want to Try For Yourself

Bored with your go-to anal positions? Give these fun (and pleasurable) positions a shot!

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

How To Have Multiple Orgasms

Two can sometimes be better than one. Here are the tools you need to achieve multiple orgasms!

By

Anna Gragert

August 2, 2021

What Does an Orgasm Feel Like?

Curious about what orgasm *really* feels like? Here are some IRL responses!

By

Louise Bourchier, MPH

August 2, 2021

13 People Share “Taboo” Sex Acts They Love

While there’s no such thing as “taboo” sex (as long as it’s legal and consensual), we asked real-life folks what sex act(s) they love but that society might see as “taboo.” (FYI — all of their responses are perfectly normal.)

By

Anna Gragert

August 2, 2021

Creative Alternatives to Missionary Sex

Getting stuck in a rut? Try these five sex positions to mix it up and bring more pleasure into your bedroom.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Best Positions For Eating Pussy

Try these four popular pussy eating positions for maximum oral pleasure. Have you tried “The Ride”? Why not add a vibrator? What’s your favourite way to go down?

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

What Is An Anal Orgasm?

Do butt orgasms exist? Do you want to have one? Tips, techniques, and toys for anal pleasure and orgasm.

By

Stella Harris

August 2, 2021

Why Am I Always Horny?! The Reasons You're Turned On All the Time

Can’t stop thinking about getting off? Let’s talk about that!

By

O.team

April 13, 2022

I Never Get Horny Enough! The Reasons Why You Might Not Be Feeling Turned On

If you feel like you rarely have the urge to get off, there are several reasons why. But just know there’s an ebb and flow to desire.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

9 Tips For Awesome Missionary Anal Sex

There’s so much more than doggy-style when it comes to anal sex!

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

Car Sex Positions That Are Actually Comfortable (And Feel Awesome)

Car sex gets a bad rap. Here are some ways to make it way more comfortable and enjoyable — for anyone and everyone.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

Ashley Graham Opens Up About Getting It On While Pregnant

Is it ok to have sex during pregnancy? We checked the research and chatted with a doula about prenatal practices, sex tips, and important risk factors.

By

Ashley Simpo

August 2, 2021

What's a Ruined Orgasm?

Learn the difference between an intentional vs. unintentional ruined orgasm and what it all means.

By

Anna Gragert

August 2, 2021

Cervical Orgasms: 12 Tips on How to Have an Amazing Cervical Orgasm

Everything you need to know about cervical orgasms and how to achieve them!

By

Anna Gragert

August 2, 2021

High Sex Drive: What’s Normal?

TLDR; There’s no such thing as a “normal” sex drive — but there are ways to deal with perhaps a mismatched sex drive with your partner(s).

By

Cassandra Corrado

August 2, 2021

Are My Sex Noises Normal? The Short Answer? Yes!

We’re here to give you affirmation: yes, the noises you make during sex are totally normal! If you want to learn how to be more confident about being vocal, read on.

By

Stella Harris

August 2, 2021

What Analingus & Rimming Really Feels Like — Plus 5 New Ways to Try It

Want to try rimming? Here’s how people say it feels like — and why they love it.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

How To Try Edging (Or Orgasm Control) During Sex

Edging is an awesome way to make your orgasm last longer and feel more intense. Here are a few different ways to try it!

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

Can You Make Someone Squirt With Anal Sex?

TLDR; yes, you can squirt from having anal sex. Here’s how to do it!

By

Stella Harris

August 2, 2021

Opening Up To Pleasure After Becoming A Paraplegic

After thirteen years of sexual abstinence, I am ready for orgasms.

By

Camile Flosi Araujo

August 2, 2021

Ball Sucking 101: How to Pleasure Balls With Your Mouth

Here’s a way to play with balls that involved your mouth — and it can be a ball!

By

Kelly Burch

August 2, 2021

How To Deep Throat: 5 Important Tips and Techniques to Keep Things Fun

When it comes to deep-throating, practice makes perfect.

By

Ghia Vitale

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