Sensuality & Arousal

February 2, 2022

Desire Giving Sexual Pleasure But Not Receiving? You May Be A Placiosexual

For some, this label can be a helpful tool to communicate wants and needs to partner(s).

By

Angie Ebba

January 17, 2022

How Spicy Are You? O.school's Spice Meter Can Help You Decide

O.school’s Spice Meter scale is a simple way to discuss kinks, boundaries, and more.

By

Emily A. Klein

May 16, 2022

‘Vanilla Sex’ Isn’t Boring: 11 Ideas for Sexual Exploration if Kink Isn’t For You

You don’t have to identify as kinky to have an exciting and experimental sex life.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

December 17, 2021

Ready To Expand Your Sexual Horizons? Start Here

Trying new things can help keep your sex life interesting, vibrant, and fun.

By

Emily A. Klein

April 13, 2022

How Grief Can Impact Your Sex Life And 6 Tips For Navigating It

Grief can impact your sex life in a number of ways. While there’s no right or wrong way to go about it, these tips for navigating sex while grieving may help.

By

Emily A. Klein

September 17, 2021

6 Tips For Giving A Partner Feedback In Bed Without Criticizing Them

There are so many ways to gently tell a partner what you want and need.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

August 2, 2021

8 Tips For Having A Safe And Sexy One-Night Stand

So, you’re interested in having a one-night stand? Hooking up can be a blast, so long as you do it safely. Here’s what you need to know to have a responsible (and sexy) one-night stand.

By

Amanda Scherker

August 2, 2021

Sex After 50: How To Keep The Spark Aglow

While aging can occasionally pose new physical or emotional challenges when it comes to having sex, there are some amazing perks to having sex later in life.

By

Camille Beredjick

August 2, 2021

Kama Sutra Positions To Make Sex A Mindful Practice

‍Exploring these sex positions can help you broaden your horizons and help you connect with a partner.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

How The Menstrual Cycle Affects Libido

Many factors can influence libido, and we are continually learning more and more about the connection between libido and hormones throughout the whole menstrual cycle!

By

Liv Cassano

August 2, 2021

Intro To Rough Sex If You've Been Too Nervous To Try Before

If you’ve been wanting to try rough sex, there are plenty of ways to ease into it. Experimenting is more than half the fun.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

13 Best TV Sex Scenes To Stream For Steam

Now you don’t have to sift through millions of episodes to find the ones that’ll get you going.

By

Jessica Tholmer

August 2, 2021

14 Best Movie Sex Scenes You Can Stream Right Now

The best movie sex scenes are just a click away.

By

Jessica Tholmer

August 2, 2021

8 Myths About Sex And Disability, Debunked

There is so much misinformation about sex and disability. We’re here to set the record straight.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

10 Things Women After 50 Should Know About Sex

Our bodies and minds change as we get older, but sex can remain great.

By

Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith

August 2, 2021

The Best Sex Positions To Try If Sex Is Painful

If sex is painful for you, try these positions for some relief.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

30 Of The Best Sex Songs For Getting Down And Dirty

Find a song that matches you and your partner’s rhythm best.

By

Caroline Colvin

August 2, 2021

Best Cuddling Positions To Try — And What They Mean

There are so many different ways to snuggle up.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

April 12, 2022

Tips To Have Your First Orgasm After Years Of Trying

You’re probably tired of being told to “just relax.”

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Mismatched Libidos? Here’s What You Can Do About It

If your sex drive is higher or lower than your partner’s, there are things you can do to still have a satisfying sex life.

By

Caroline Colvin

August 2, 2021

Boring Sex? What To Do If You've Fallen Into A Routine

If sex is a snooze, try these tips to reignite your spark.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

How To Keep Sex Interesting If You Live Apart

Here are a few tips to keep things hot and fresh if you’re away from your boo.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

6 People On Reaching Their Sexual Peak After 50

The best sex of your life can happen at any stage.

By

Jessica Tholmer

August 2, 2021

Am I Having Bad Sex?

Here’s why you might be having bad sex and 9 tips how to make bad sex better.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Why Your Libido May Have Decreased - And How To Get It Back

If you’ve noticed your sex drive has declined, here are a few tips to get it back on track.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Finding Your Sexuality Again After Losing A Loved One

O.school asked three people to share their journeys of finding sexuality again after being widowed.

By

Micki Allen

August 2, 2021

What Is Spooning And How Exactly Is It Done?

You’ve heard the term, but do you know what “spooning” actually is? Let’s break it down.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

7 Unexpected Facts About Kissing That'll Make You Say ‘Mwah!’

Who knew locking lips was so interesting?

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

12 Sex Games That Just Require A Little Bit Of Creativity

These games can help build intimacy in unexpected ways.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

What Do Meditation and Prayer Have To Do With Sex?

These practices can make sex all the more sensual.

By

Micki Allen

April 13, 2022

How to Make a Vulva Owner Wet

Knowing that your partner is dripping with arousal can be a major turn-on! So how do you make your partner wet? Read on for some tips!

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Why Am I Always Horny?! The Reasons You're Turned On All the Time

Can’t stop thinking about getting off? Let’s talk about that!

By

O.team

April 13, 2022

I Never Get Horny Enough! The Reasons Why You Might Not Be Feeling Turned On

If you feel like you rarely have the urge to get off, there are several reasons why. But just know there’s an ebb and flow to desire.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

High Sex Drive: What’s Normal?

TLDR; There’s no such thing as a “normal” sex drive — but there are ways to deal with perhaps a mismatched sex drive with your partner(s).

By

Cassandra Corrado

August 2, 2021

Are My Sex Noises Normal? The Short Answer? Yes!

We’re here to give you affirmation: yes, the noises you make during sex are totally normal! If you want to learn how to be more confident about being vocal, read on.

By

Stella Harris

August 2, 2021

How To Play With Bigger Breasts

Want to give as well as receive the most pleasure possible when playing with larger breasts? Here are some dos and don’ts to get you started.

By

Micki Allen

April 13, 2022

Why Does Nipple Sucking Feel Good? Plus 6 Tips To Make It Feel Even Better

By trying new techniques and adding toys, here are some ways you can make nipple-sucking feel even more amazing.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

The Sexiest Erotica You Can Find on the Internet, For Free

Want to get in the mood with some erotica? Here’s a list of the best websites and apps for you to get it on.

By

Krystal Jagoo

April 13, 2022

11 Ways To Get Horny, Fast

Brain in the mood, but body isn’t there yet? Here are some tips to get those gears goin’.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

How to Give a Hickey: Unique and Fun Ways

Thought you left hickies in high school? They’re not just for teens! Next time you’re making out, give your partner a (consensual) love bite.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Nipple Pleasure And Nipple Orgasms

Free the nipple for sure, but don’t neglect it! Nipples can be chock-full of sexy feels—here’s how to get started.

By

O.team

August 2, 2021

How To Give An Erotic Massage

Do you want to wind down and get in the mood for sexy times? How about a sensual massage to calm the mind and arouse the body.

By

Micki Allen

August 2, 2021

Sensual Sex: How To Use All Your Senses In The Bedroom

Bring more sensuality into your bedroom. Explore ways to engage all your senses in sex and erotic play.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Beyond Pussy: 5 Erogenous Zones You Didn’t Know About

It’s time to think outside the box! Explore these erogenous zones the next time you’re having some sweet sexy times.

By

Stella Harris

August 2, 2021

How To Make Out

How to up your kissing game, and leave your partner wanting more!

By

Maya Peers-Nitzberg

August 2, 2021

The Best Lessons You Can Learn About Kissing from Reddit, for International Kissing Day

Need smooching pointers? Want to read a funny first-kiss story? These Reddit confessions have it all.

By

Gina Vaynshteyn

August 2, 2021

How to Use Chocolate During Sex for World Chocolate Day

Happy World Chocolate Day! Here are some tasty tips for a delicious time with your partner.

By

Micki Allen

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