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July 23, 2021

Why Do People Cheat? Experts Weigh In

Cheating is never the answer if your relationship is experiencing issues, yet it can still happen. It can be helpful to understand why.

By

Rose Lowe

July 16, 2021

When To Break Up: 11 Signs It Might Be Time

Is this relationship actually serving you, your needs, and your future?

By

Kelly Gonsalves

July 9, 2021

9 Tips For Breaking Up With Someone In The Kindest Way Possible

Approach this conversation compassionately while still being clear and definitive.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

July 9, 2021

How To Get Over A Breakup When You Still Love The Person

There’s no one-size-fits-all way to get over a relationship, but these seven tips might help your recovery process.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

July 23, 2021

Safer Sexting

If you want to sext, it’s essential to check in with the other person to make sure that they’re ok with it. Keep in mind that you can withdraw consent at any time, for any activity, for any reason—this includes sending and receiving sexts.

By

Emily A. Klein

June 18, 2021

The Best ‘Netflix and Chill’ Movies To Stream In June 2021

Staying in with someone tonight? Here are 12 movies streaming on Netflix right now that’ll get you in the mood.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

June 14, 2021

6 Ways The Pandemic Impacted Our Sex Lives — And How We Can Bounce Back

COVID may have affected our sex lives in more ways than you think.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

June 25, 2021

5 Relationship Deal-Breakers To Watch Out For

What might be a relationship deal-breaker for one person, may not be for another. While red flags are subjective, it’s important to consider if the issue means it’s time to call it quits or if you and your partner are willing and able to work through it.

By

O.team

June 18, 2021

How To Avoid Getting Scammed On Dating Apps

Just knowing what to look out for can keep you protected on the apps.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

June 8, 2021

20 Non-Sexual Things Men Do That Are Actually Sexy

From rolling up their sleeves to doing the dishes to playing with puppies, there are plenty of non-sexy things men do that are actually so hot.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

Sex and Intimacy: What’s the Difference and How to Get More (or Less) of Each

Many people assume that sex and intimacy are the same. In fact, you can have one without the other! Here’s how.

By

Emily A. Klein

June 8, 2021

How COVID-19 Has Reprogrammed Men Around Sex And Touch

Before the pandemic, we didn’t really need to think too much about our physical interactions on a date. But clearly, social distancing has radically altered the expectation of touch.

By

Mischa Byruck

June 8, 2021

4 Types Of Intimacy To Get Close To A Partner

Physical intimacy is only one of four types: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Here’s how to really go deeper in your relationship on every level.

By

Sarah Prager

June 25, 2021

Best Inspirational Relationship Quotes To Keep In Your Back Pocket

In need of some inspiration when it comes to your love life? These quotes will make you think about love in a whole new way.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

Here Are The Best Cute Relationship Quotes To Make Your Heart Flutter

These quotes perfectly define how you might feel when you’re swept up in the feeling of love, lust, or entering into a brand new romance.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

Best Relationship Books To Strengthen Your Love Life

Relationship books can be great for advice on your love life, or for just having a great read.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

June 25, 2021

What Makes Men Feel Wanted In Relationships, According To Reddit

The men of Reddit weigh in on what makes them feel good and appreciated in relationships.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

June 25, 2021

30 Funny Relationship Quotes That Sum Up The Hilarity Of Being In Love

A couple who laughs together stays together.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

48 Best Quotes To Help People In Toxic Relationships

Quotes from others who’ve been through a toxic relationship can help show you’re not alone.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

June 25, 2021

50 Best Relationship Quotes You And Your Partner Will Love

Sending your partner a loving quote might just make their day.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

June 25, 2021

40 Best Quotes for People in New Relationships

“Do what you did in the beginning of the relationship and there won’t be an end.”

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

June 25, 2021

The Best Unique Date Ideas You Haven’t Thought Of

It’s time to bust out of the dating scene box.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

Best Date Ideas In Cities Around America

From New York To Los Angeles, there’s romance across the country.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

Does Our Financial Situation Affect Our Sex Life?

Your financial situation may affect your sex life in more ways than you thought.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

How To Have Phone Sex Without Feeling Weird About It

Phone sex can be a bit awkward at first. But with a little practice, you’ll be a pro in a no time.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

How To Make The Most Of An Extended Cuffing Season

Shelter-in-place might have you cuffing longer than expected.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

Getting Divorced a Year After Marriage Sucks — A Lot

I’ve grown so much since this experience.

By

Afiya Augustine

June 8, 2021

How To Date During Coronavirus

There are still ways to date safely and responsibly.

By

Jamie LeClaire

June 25, 2021

Threesomes Helped Me Believe In Love Again

I didn’t think relationships were for me, until I tried non-monogamy.

By

Cherith Fuller

June 25, 2021

10 Date Ideas That Don’t Require Leaving Home

Romance and safety don’t have to be mutually exclusive.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

Why My Partner and I Do All Our Fighting Over Text

Having a digital paper trail can make all the difference.

By

Kitty Stryker

June 8, 2021

I Still Fantasize About My Exes

Fantasizing about my exes doesn't threaten my current relationship.

By

Sally Connors

June 8, 2021

Wives Submit to Their Husbands

This piece of scripture can be interpreted many ways.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

June 25, 2021

What's a Throuple?

Three is just more to love.

By

Sarah Prager

June 25, 2021

Is My Girlfriend A Slut?

First, ask yourself why you’re even wondering.

By

Emily A. Klein

June 8, 2021

How Writing Love Letters To My Live-In Partner Improves Our Relationship

“Maybe we should just not talk anymore; maybe we should write all our problems down.”

By

Angie Ebba

June 8, 2021

Things to Do With Your S.O. if Coronavirus Has You Stuck Inside

It’s understandable if you want to stay home to be on the safe side. If you get to stay in with your partner, even better!

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

When Should I Reveal My Invisible Disability To My Partner?

If I don’t treat the topic gently and seriously myself, then I can’t expect my partner to.

By

Giselle DaMier

June 8, 2021

HGTV’s “House Hunters” Helped a Throuple Find a Home, and the Internet Is Cheering

The episode may help people understand this type of relationship can be an option for them.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

Why My First Poly Valentine’s Day Might Be My Best One Yet

Cupid must be keen on me this year.

By

Shelby Sells

June 8, 2021

Valentine's Day Doesn't Have To Mean Sex

By merely living in the Western world and consuming media, I understood Valentine’s Day was for lovers, and lovers had sex.

By

Lauren Crain

June 8, 2021

30 Creative Valentine's Day 2020 Instagram Captions and Quote Ideas

It’s hard posting Valentine’s Day #content to Instagram without seeming cheesy. Here’s some inspo that will make you feel original!

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

I Hate Valentine's Day: Reasons Why 6 Real People Stopped Celebrating

Hate Valentine’s Day? You’re not the only one.

By

Danielle Campoamor

June 8, 2021

32 Unique Happy Valentine's Day 2020 Messages to Send Your Partner

Want to send your S.O. a Valentine’s Day message that’s not so cliche? It can be hard! Which is why we’ve compiled 32 unique messages you can send your love without seeming TOO cheesy.

By

Anna Gragert

June 8, 2021

Safe Word Ideas

Need some safe word inspo? We’ve got you covered — just say the word.

By

Emily A. Klein

June 8, 2021

Signs Your Partner Wants More Intimacy From You

Intimacy has a lot of definitions. This is what it looks like for me.

By

Tabitha Britt

June 8, 2021

I'm In A Poly Relationship. This Is What STI Testing Is Like For Me

“Can you tell me about your other partners?” It was a question no gynecologist had ever attempted asking me before.

By

Jacqueline Gualtieri

June 8, 2021

After 17 Years Together, My Husband and I Are Finally Talking Boundaries in the New Year

Let’s all practice better communication with our partners in 2020.

By

Samantha Chavarria

June 8, 2021

Cardi B Says She Felt Judged For Staying With An S.O. Who Cheated On Her

“If you get back with them, it’s like, ‘How could you? You let all of us down.’”

By

Caitlin Mohney

June 8, 2021

Living In Different Bedrooms Makes My Relationship So Much Better

We love alone time almost as much as we love each other.

By

Christina Wolfgram

June 8, 2021

I Should've Broken Up With My Ex When He Didn't Get Me A Christmas Present — Here's Why

I’d tried to ignore that my needs always came second in our relationship.

By

Gabi Conti

June 8, 2021

32 Other Ways To Sext “I’m So Horny” Without Using Those Three Words

Need some inspo? We’re here to help you with all your horniness expression needs!

By

Jamie LeClaire

June 8, 2021

Justin Timberlake’s “Cheating” Story Is A Good Lesson in Boundaries For Us All

Every partnership sets its own boundaries for what constitutes cheating.

By

Gabi Conti

June 8, 2021

Being A New Mom with Crohn's *And* A Wife Isn't Easy. Here's How I Navigate My Relationship

My partner was there for me when Crohn’s left me hospitalized and bedridden. Now he’s supporting me in our journey as parents.

By

Annalise Mabe

June 25, 2021

How To Be More Vulnerable: 8 Methods That Really Help

Vulnerability is hard! But we have some tips for you on how to work on your vulnerability, and ways to make that easier.

By

Cassandra Corrado

June 25, 2021

Cómo Ser Más Vulnerable: 8 Métodos Que Realmente Ayudan

¡La vulnerabilidad es difícil! Pero tenemos algunos consejos para ti sobre cómo trabajar en tu vulnerabilidad y las formas de como hacerlo más fácil.

By

Cassandra Corrado

June 8, 2021

“Turkey Drop” Is A Festive Dating Term Many People Dread

Is the “Turkey Drop” a real thing?

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

Don’t Feel Bad For Changing Your Last Name After You Get Married

For me, it felt liberating.

By

Tabitha Britt

June 8, 2021

No Te Sientas Mal Por Cambiar Tu Apellido Después De Casarte

Para mí, se sintió liberadora.

By

Tabitha Britt

June 8, 2021

Impotence Was Never A Dealbreaker For Me — But My Partner Wouldn’t Believe It

Our sex life was extraordinary. It was more than enough. For me.

By

Emily Kerr

June 8, 2021

I Was In a Relationship When All My Friends Were Single. Now I'm the "Single Friend"

Here’s what happened when I found myself 25 and single for the first time in my adult life.

By

Charlotte Dow

June 8, 2021

Emma Watson Has A More Empowering Word For "Single"

“It took me a long time, but I’m very happy [being single].”

By

Kelly Gonsalves

June 8, 2021

Jenna Dewan and Channing Tatum's Divorce Shows Us It's OK To End A Marriage

“I’d come to realize the dynamic I was in wasn’t serving me nor was it serving my daughter.”

By

Kelly Gonsalves

June 25, 2021

What Exactly Is “Micro-Cheating”?

Here’s what you need to know about the new-ish relationship term.

By

June 8, 2021

There's a Dating Trend Called "Zombie-ing" — And It's Not About Halloween

It’s like ghosting’s undead sister.

By

Deanna DeBara

June 8, 2021

6 Reasons It’s Okay To Be Old-Fashioned In Your Relationship

If you’ve always been “old-fashioned” about relationships, you’re not alone.

By

Gina Vaynshteyn

June 8, 2021

6 Razones Por Las Cuales Está Bien Ser Anticuado En Tu Relación

Si siempre has sido “anticuado” sobre las relaciones, no estás solo.

By

Gina Vaynshteyn

June 8, 2021

Is Having Dinner Every Night With Your Partner Necessary? Yes and No.

Experts say the secret to a healthy relationship is having dinner together. But is that really the case in 2019?

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

¿Es Necesario Cenar Todas Las Noches Con Su Pareja? Sí y No.

Los expertos dicen que el secreto de una relación saludable es cenar juntos. Pero, ¿ese es realmente el caso in 2019?

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

Why Willow Smith Thinks We Should Be Open-Minded About Polyamory

Willow Smith shares her thoughts on polyamory and why it gets such a bad rap.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

What’s Your Attachment Style? A Beginner’s Guide to Attachment Theory

Why do we behave the way that we do in relationships? It probably relates to the attachment style we learned as kids.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

June 8, 2021

Are You An Echoist In Your Relationship?

Don’t like being the center of attention? Are you a great listener? Don’t mind your S.O. being the center of attention *all* the time? You may be an echoist.

By

Rebecca Koon

June 8, 2021

¿Eres Un Ecoista En Tu Relación?

¿No te gusta ser el centro de atención? ¿Eres un gran oyente? No te preocupes por tu pareja ser el centro de atención *todo* el tiempo? Puedes ser un ecoista.

By

Rebecca Koon

June 25, 2021

54 Sexting Ideas You Wouldn't Have Thought Of

Feeling uninspired with your sexts? Here are some out-of-the-box ideas you can use to get you and your partner in the mood.

By

Krystal Jagoo

June 8, 2021

How To Talk Dirty

Does the idea of talking dirty in bed make you want to curl up into the fetal position? There’s no need! Here are some basics to get you started.

By

Louise Bourchier, MPH

June 8, 2021

This New Study Says People Want To Date Someone Who Makes Them The Center Of Their Universe/World

Are you more likely to date a consequentialist or deontologist?

By

Rebecca Koon

June 8, 2021

How To Deal With Rejection

Getting turned down is never easy, but we all get a “No” sometime in our lives. Here are some strategies to weather the storm of rejection.

By

Megan Healy

June 8, 2021

Your Dating App Dictionary: Abbreviations, Slang, And Emojis Explained

“Breadcrumbing”? Eggplant emojis? DTF? If you’re feeling lost in online dating slang, make this your go-to guide.

By

Emily A. Klein

June 8, 2021

5 Steps To Smart, Safe and Sexy Hookups

Hookups should be fun, hot, and safe. So, what are the basic building blocks of great hookups? This is your guide to satisfying dating and casual sex.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

How To Build Your Tinder Profile

Creating a Tinder profile can be stressful. But with these suggestions, it gets a little easier.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

How To Keep The Romance Alive With Your Long-Term Partner

It’s easy to lose that spark when you’ve been together for a long time—happily there are ways to get that lovin’ feeling back.

By

Kim Cavill

June 8, 2021

The Basics Of Tinder Messaging

How should you start a conversation with your new match on Tinder? And what if the conversation slows down? Fear not! Answers to all your Tinder messaging questions are here.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

9 Questions to Ask Your Partner Before Getting It On

Whether you've just met someone, or known them for a while, if you're thinking that sooner or later you want to have sex, then here are some things you're going to want to know.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 8, 2021

Tips For Negotiating Condom Use

How to talk about using a condom. What to say when you want to use protection. Ways to maximize pleasure when practicing safer sex.

By

Suzannah Weiss

June 8, 2021

Best Dating Apps For Women And Gender Diverse Folks

With a ton of dating apps to choose from, which are the most enjoyable to use? And which will get you the best matches? Explore the top apps for women and gender diverse users.

By

Ghia Vitale

June 8, 2021

How To Define The Relationship You Want

Learn how to figure out what you want and advocate for your relationship needs with these DTR pro-tips.

By

Anna Laird-Barto

June 8, 2021

What To Know About Queer Online Dating

From Tinder to Thurst, there’s a whole universe of queer online dating to explore. Here are our top tips for cruising the interwebs.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

The Basics Of Using Dating Apps

New to Tinder? Trying dating apps for the first time? Explore the basics of swiping, messaging, and meeting up.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

The Dos And Don’ts Of Bi-curious Online Dating

So you think you might be Bi! Welcome fam, check out these tips for navigating your maiden voyage into the queer Tinder-sphere.

By

Camille Beredjick

June 8, 2021

Is It A Date Or A Friend Hangout?

Have you ever wondered: are we on a date? Did they just invite me on a date? Or are we just hanging out as friends? It’s not always clear, read on for tips to figure out where things are at.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

Why Do People Sext? It’s Complicated

87 percent of adults have sexted, as have one in every seven teens.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

June 8, 2021

I Want Sex! How To Get The Pleasure You Desire

So you’re interested in having sex, but aren’t sure how to communicate what you want? These pro-tips will help.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

How To Flirt

Get better at flirting with these five steps.

By

Louise Bourchier, MPH

June 8, 2021

How To Talk To Your Partner About Watching Porn Together

So you like porn. You are not alone. Watching porn with your partner can be hot and a great way to explore a fantasy together, but are they into it? Here’s how to start the conversation.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

How To Find Your Threesome Online

Arranging your first threesome can be confusing and stressful—but less so with these strategies! Learn how to channel the power of the internet into bedroom fun.

By

O.team

June 8, 2021

How To Tinder In A Gender-Diverse World

So you matched with a trans cutie on Tinder—awesome! Here’s everything you need to know about gender identity and how to engage with them respectfully.

By

June 8, 2021

How To Respectfully Take A Dick Pic

As long as it’s consensual, there’s no wrong way to send a dick pic but there are ways to enhance it. ;)

By

Suzannah Weiss

June 8, 2021

Could Living Apart from Your Spouse Be Healthier for Your Relationship?

Is living separately from your spouse the new “conscious uncoupling”? We asked the experts.

By

Olivia Harvey

June 25, 2021

Por Qué Willow Smith Piensa Que Deberíamos Tener Una Mentalidad Abierta Sobre La Poliamor

Willow Smith comparte sus pensamientos sobre el poliamor y por qué tiene tan mala reputación.

By

Olivia Harvey

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