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May 16, 2022

Are You The Victim Of Breadcrumbing? Here’s How To Tell

If your partner is dropping small morsels of interest with no real commitment, you might be dating a breadcrumber.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

May 6, 2022

How To Tell If A Girl Likes You

These 8 signs may indicate your crush is flirting with you.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

May 6, 2022

Scheduling Sex? 4 Experts Explain How To Make A Plan

It might feel awkward at first, but sometimes you have to be a little unsexy to get sexy.

By

Emily A. Klein

May 6, 2022

Are You Aromantic? Here’s How To Know

If the idea of a romantic relationship doesn’t sound appealing to you, you might be aromantic.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

May 6, 2022

5 Money Talks You Should Be Having Early In Your Relationship

We’re often taught not to discuss finances, but it’s so important to do — especially with a partner.

By

Emily A. Klein

May 7, 2022

15 Breakup Movies, Books, Podcasts And More To Survive Even The Most Painful Split

Use this breakup survival kit to soothe your heartache and move forward.

By

Luisa Garbowit

April 19, 2022

How To Reject Someone Nicely

Follow these 10 tips on how to reject someone to keep things cordial and respectful.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

April 13, 2022

What To Do When Boundaries Are Crossed In A Relationship

So your partner crossed a line. Here’s how to approach the situation.

By

Luisa Garbowit

April 4, 2022

12 Conflict Resolution Strategies For Fighting Fair In Your Relationship

Sometimes, the first step is taking a deep breath.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

April 1, 2022

How To Set Boundaries In A Relationship

Communicating your boundaries will help create a strong foundation for your relationship.

By

Luisa Garbowit

March 25, 2022

23 People Reveal Why They Want To Get Married — Or Why They Don’t

With marriage rates at an all time low in the US, we asked O.school readers how they feel about tying the knot.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

March 11, 2022

How To Talk To Your Partner About Their Substance Abuse

Voicing concerns can be daunting, but having the conversation shows care for them and yourself.

By

Emily A. Klein

March 7, 2022

How To Get Back Together With Your Ex (In A Healthy Way)

There are healthy ways to rekindle an old flame so you don’t end up in the same toxic cycles.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

March 4, 2022

What To Do If You’re Feeling Lonely In Your Relationship

Being lonely isn’t reserved for single people. Here’s how you can work through feelings of emotional isolation, even in a committed relationship.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

March 4, 2022

How To Take A Break From Your Relationship Successfully

Taking a relationship break doesn’t have to mean a breakup.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

February 11, 2022

6 Ways To Give Yourself Love, Care, And Gratitude On Singles Awareness Day

You can celebrate this holiday the day after Valentine’s Day — and every other day of the year, too.

By

Luisa Garbowit

February 11, 2022

Almost Half The Population Claims COVID Didn’t Impact Their Sex Lives Much

If you had thought people were having more sex during lockdowns, you’d be wrong.

By

Emily A. Klein

February 23, 2022

The 5 Apology Languages: Determine Which Type Is Best For You And Partner(s)

Knowing your apology language can be the key to happier conflict resolution.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

February 11, 2022

Dating While Disabled: The Importance of Access Intimacy

When a partner accommodates my disability, “I feel seen and understood.”

By

Angie Ebba

February 11, 2022

14 Unique Ideas To Nourish Your Long Distance Relationship

It’s important to find creative ways to keep communication lines open in an LDR.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

January 31, 2022

Sex Club Etiquitte: Do’s And Don’ts

Sex clubs are a great way to explore your sexuality but they aren’t a free for all.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

January 31, 2022

18 People On When They Said ‘I Love You’

If you’re wrestling with how or when to deploy the “L” word, these 18 stories might help.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

January 26, 2022

11 Places To Try Public Sex, Ranked From Most Risky To Least

For some, the idea of getting caught is their biggest turn on.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

April 13, 2022

What Are Pheromones And Do They Impact Sexual Desire?

Sometimes, we’re attracted to people for a reason we can’t put our finger on. Perhaps, it’s the way they smell.

By

Emily A. Klein

December 9, 2021

6 Ways Sexual Exploration Can Strengthen Your Relationship

Creativity in the bedroom doesn’t just feel good — it can also bring you closer to your partner.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

November 15, 2021

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You: 5 Signs To Look For

Research shows which clues and signals could indicate he’s interested in something more.

By

Katherine Peach

November 9, 2021

When To Walk Away From A Sexless Marriage

While no one can make this decision for you, here are some things to consider to help give you clarity.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

November 9, 2021

In A Sexless Marriage? 10 Things To Try To Get The Spark Back

Feel like your spouse has become more of a roommate than a romantic partner?

By

Ella Dorval Hall

October 1, 2021

How To Initiate Sex With A New Partner: 8 Ways To Ask For Sex

Asking for sex can feel awkward and even scary at times. There are many ways to broach the topic, however. Here are just a few suggestions.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

October 1, 2021

Conscious Uncoupling: What It Is And How To Do It

This approach can help partners reframe ending a relationship as a healthy, intentional choice — not a failure.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

September 24, 2021

What Does GGG Mean And Does It Work?

We could all do with being a little more GGG. Here’s why.

By

Katherine Peach

September 20, 2021

What To Expect From Couples Therapy, At Every Stage In Your Relationship

We spoke to a couples therapist about why any couple can benefit from counseling, not just long-term partners.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

September 17, 2021

10 Physical Effects Of Falling In (And Out) Of Love

New love, or loss of it, can send us into an emotional spiral. But what about the more physical impacts of falling in and out of love?

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

September 24, 2021

6 Ways To Break The Silence In Bed If Communicating Feels Scary

Speaking up during sexy time can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

September 10, 2021

12 Relationship Types That Aren't All About Monogamy

If you thought monogamy was your only option, it’s time to reconsider everything.

By

Amanda Scherker

April 13, 2022

Monogamy: Why So Many People Choose It And If It's Even Natural

At first glance, the definition of “monogamy” seems obvious but the truth is a lot more complicated than you might think.

By

Amanda Scherker

September 3, 2021

How To Date And Have Amazing Sex If You Have A Small Penis

You can have great sex, no matter what your penis size is.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 30, 2021

Monogamish: What It Means And How It Works

“It’s mostly monogamy, with a little squish around the edges.”

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

September 10, 2021

Cuckolding: What It Is And Why Some People Love It

Here’s what you need to know about cuckolding before you try it.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

August 20, 2021

Relationship Anarchy: What Is It And 7 Ways To Practice It

Relationship anarchy (RA) may sound novel or intimidating, but there’s so much good to be said about this style of structuring relationships.

By

Amanda Scherker

August 20, 2021

Is Your Partner Cheating? Here Are Predictors And Signs To Look Out For

Before accusing your partner of cheating, be sure to have all the information you need.

By

Rose Low

August 6, 2021

What Is Polyamory? How It Works And Common Misconceptions

There are so many myths about polyamory. We’re here to set the record straight.

By

Amanda Scherker

April 13, 2022

What Is An Open Relationship?

A monogamous relationship isn’t right for everyone, and that’s okay.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

April 13, 2022

How To Catch A Cheater: What To Do And Not Do

While it may be tempting to try to catch your partner in the act, there are healthier ways to approach the situation.

By

Rose Low

August 2, 2021

The Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need To Know

Here’s what experts have to say about the lifestyle.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

August 2, 2021

How To Forgive A Cheater: 5 Tips For Healing The Relationship

Making amends with a partner after they cheated may feel impossible, but it isn’t. We’ve broken down ways to move forward.

By

Rose Low

August 3, 2021

Why Do People Cheat? Experts Weigh In

Cheating is never the answer if your relationship is experiencing issues, yet it can still happen. It can be helpful to understand why.

By

Rose Low

August 2, 2021

When To Break Up: 11 Signs It Might Be Time

Is this relationship actually serving you, your needs, and your future?

By

Kelly Gonsalves

August 2, 2021

9 Tips For Breaking Up With Someone In The Kindest Way Possible

Approach this conversation compassionately while still being clear and definitive.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

August 2, 2021

How To Get Over A Breakup When You Still Love The Person

There’s no one-size-fits-all way to get over a relationship, but these seven tips might help your recovery process.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

April 13, 2022

Safer Sexting

If you want to sext, it’s essential to check in with the other person to make sure that they’re ok with it. Keep in mind that you can withdraw consent at any time, for any activity, for any reason—this includes sending and receiving sexts.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

The Best ‘Netflix and Chill’ Movies To Stream In June 2021

Staying in with someone tonight? Here are 12 movies streaming on Netflix right now that’ll get you in the mood.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

August 2, 2021

6 Ways The Pandemic Impacted Our Sex Lives — And How We Can Bounce Back

COVID may have affected our sex lives in more ways than you think.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

August 3, 2021

5 Relationship Deal-Breakers To Watch Out For

What might be a relationship deal-breaker for one person, may not be for another. While red flags are subjective, it’s important to consider if the issue means it’s time to call it quits or if you and your partner are willing and able to work through it.

By

Rose Low

August 2, 2021

How To Avoid Getting Scammed On Dating Apps

Just knowing what to look out for can keep you protected on the apps.

By

Ella Dorval Hall

August 25, 2021

20 Non-Sexual Things Men Do That Are Actually Sexy

From rolling up their sleeves to doing the dishes to playing with puppies, there are plenty of non-sexual things men do that are actually so hot.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Sex and Intimacy: What’s the Difference and How to Get More (or Less) of Each

Many people assume that sex and intimacy are the same. In fact, you can have one without the other! Here’s how.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

How COVID-19 Has Reprogrammed Men Around Sex And Touch

Before the pandemic, we didn’t really need to think too much about our physical interactions on a date. But clearly, social distancing has radically altered the expectation of touch.

By

Mischa Byruck

August 2, 2021

4 Types Of Intimacy To Get Close To A Partner

Physical intimacy is only one of four types: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Here’s how to really go deeper in your relationship on every level.

By

Sarah Prager

August 2, 2021

Best Inspirational Relationship Quotes To Keep In Your Back Pocket

In need of some inspiration when it comes to your love life? These quotes will make you think about love in a whole new way.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Here Are The Best Cute Relationship Quotes To Make Your Heart Flutter

These quotes perfectly define how you might feel when you’re swept up in the feeling of love, lust, or entering into a brand new romance.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Best Relationship Books To Strengthen Your Love Life

Relationship books can be great for advice on your love life, or for just having a great read.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

August 2, 2021

What Makes Men Feel Wanted In Relationships, According To Reddit

The men of Reddit weigh in on what makes them feel good and appreciated in relationships.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

August 2, 2021

30 Funny Relationship Quotes That Sum Up The Hilarity Of Being In Love

A couple who laughs together stays together.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

48 Best Quotes To Help People In Toxic Relationships

Quotes from others who’ve been through a toxic relationship can help show you’re not alone.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

August 2, 2021

50 Best Relationship Quotes You And Your Partner Will Love

Sending your partner a loving quote might just make their day.

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

August 2, 2021

40 Best Quotes for People in New Relationships

“Do what you did in the beginning of the relationship and there won’t be an end.”

By

Elizabeth Kirkhorn

August 2, 2021

The Best Unique Date Ideas You Haven’t Thought Of

It’s time to bust out of the dating scene box.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Best Date Ideas In Cities Around America

From New York To Los Angeles, there’s romance across the country.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Does Our Financial Situation Affect Our Sex Life?

Your financial situation may affect your sex life in more ways than you thought.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

How To Have Phone Sex Without Feeling Weird About It

Phone sex can be a bit awkward at first. But with a little practice, you’ll be a pro in a no time.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

How To Make The Most Of An Extended Cuffing Season

Shelter-in-place might have you cuffing longer than expected.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Getting Divorced a Year After Marriage Sucks — A Lot

I’ve grown so much since this experience.

By

Afiya Augustine

August 2, 2021

How To Date During Coronavirus

There are still ways to date safely and responsibly.

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

Threesomes Helped Me Believe In Love Again

I didn’t think relationships were for me, until I tried non-monogamy.

By

Cherith Fuller

August 2, 2021

10 Date Ideas That Don’t Require Leaving Home

Romance and safety don’t have to be mutually exclusive.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Why My Partner and I Do All Our Fighting Over Text

Having a digital paper trail can make all the difference.

By

Kitty Stryker

August 2, 2021

I Still Fantasize About My Exes

Fantasizing about my exes doesn't threaten my current relationship.

By

Sally Connors

August 2, 2021

Wives Submit to Their Husbands

This piece of scripture can be interpreted many ways.

By

Kelly Gonsalves

August 2, 2021

What's a Throuple?

Three is just more to love.

By

Sarah Prager

August 2, 2021

Is My Girlfriend A Slut?

First, ask yourself why you’re even wondering.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

How Writing Love Letters To My Live-In Partner Improves Our Relationship

“Maybe we should just not talk anymore; maybe we should write all our problems down.”

By

Angie Ebba

August 2, 2021

Things to Do With Your S.O. if Coronavirus Has You Stuck Inside

It’s understandable if you want to stay home to be on the safe side. If you get to stay in with your partner, even better!

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

When Should I Reveal My Invisible Disability To My Partner?

If I don’t treat the topic gently and seriously myself, then I can’t expect my partner to.

By

Giselle DaMier

August 2, 2021

HGTV’s “House Hunters” Helped a Throuple Find a Home, and the Internet Is Cheering

The episode may help people understand this type of relationship can be an option for them.

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

Why My First Poly Valentine’s Day Might Be My Best One Yet

Cupid must be keen on me this year.

By

Shelby Sells

August 2, 2021

Valentine's Day Doesn't Have To Mean Sex

By merely living in the Western world and consuming media, I understood Valentine’s Day was for lovers, and lovers had sex.

By

Lauren Crain

August 2, 2021

30 Creative Valentine's Day 2020 Instagram Captions and Quote Ideas

It’s hard posting Valentine’s Day #content to Instagram without seeming cheesy. Here’s some inspo that will make you feel original!

By

Olivia Harvey

August 2, 2021

I Hate Valentine's Day: Reasons Why 6 Real People Stopped Celebrating

Hate Valentine’s Day? You’re not the only one.

By

Danielle Campoamor

August 2, 2021

32 Unique Happy Valentine's Day 2020 Messages to Send Your Partner

Want to send your S.O. a Valentine’s Day message that’s not so cliche? It can be hard! Which is why we’ve compiled 32 unique messages you can send your love without seeming TOO cheesy.

By

Anna Gragert

August 2, 2021

Safe Word Ideas

Need some safe word inspo? We’ve got you covered — just say the word.

By

Emily A. Klein

August 2, 2021

Signs Your Partner Wants More Intimacy From You

Intimacy has a lot of definitions. This is what it looks like for me.

By

Tabitha Britt

August 2, 2021

I'm In A Poly Relationship. This Is What STI Testing Is Like For Me

“Can you tell me about your other partners?” It was a question no gynecologist had ever attempted asking me before.

By

Jacqueline Gualtieri

August 2, 2021

Cardi B Says She Felt Judged For Staying With An S.O. Who Cheated On Her

“If you get back with them, it’s like, ‘How could you? You let all of us down.’”

By

Caitlin Mohney

August 2, 2021

After 17 Years Together, My Husband and I Are Finally Talking Boundaries in the New Year

Let’s all practice better communication with our partners in 2020.

By

Samantha Chavarria

August 2, 2021

Living In Different Bedrooms Makes My Relationship So Much Better

We love alone time almost as much as we love each other.

By

Christina Wolfgram

August 2, 2021

I Should've Broken Up With My Ex When He Didn't Get Me A Christmas Present — Here's Why

I’d tried to ignore that my needs always came second in our relationship.

By

Gabi Conti

August 2, 2021

32 Other Ways To Sext “I’m So Horny” Without Using Those Three Words

Need some inspo? We’re here to help you with all your horniness expression needs!

By

Jamie LeClaire

August 2, 2021

Justin Timberlake’s “Cheating” Story Is A Good Lesson in Boundaries For Us All

Every partnership sets its own boundaries for what constitutes cheating.

By

Gabi Conti

August 2, 2021

Being A New Mom with Crohn's *And* A Wife Isn't Easy. Here's How I Navigate My Relationship

My partner was there for me when Crohn’s left me hospitalized and bedridden. Now he’s supporting me in our journey as parents.

By

Annalise Mabe

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