If you want to sext, it’s essential to check in with the other person to make sure that they’re ok with it. Keep in mind that you can withdraw consent at any time, for any activity, for any reason—this includes sending and receiving sexts.

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August 2, 2021

6 Ways The Pandemic Impacted Our Sex Lives — And How We Can Bounce Back

COVID may have affected our sex lives in more ways than you think.

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5 Relationship Deal-Breakers To Watch Out For

What might be a relationship deal-breaker for one person, may not be for another. While red flags are subjective, it’s important to consider if the issue means it’s time to call it quits or if you and your partner are willing and able to work through it.

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August 2, 2021

How To Avoid Getting Scammed On Dating Apps

Just knowing what to look out for can keep you protected on the apps.

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20 Non-Sexual Things Men Do That Are Actually Sexy

From rolling up their sleeves to doing the dishes to playing with puppies, there are plenty of non-sexual things men do that are actually so hot.

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August 2, 2021

Sex and Intimacy: What’s the Difference and How to Get More (or Less) of Each

Many people assume that sex and intimacy are the same. In fact, you can have one without the other! Here’s how.

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How COVID-19 Has Reprogrammed Men Around Sex And Touch

Before the pandemic, we didn’t really need to think too much about our physical interactions on a date. But clearly, social distancing has radically altered the expectation of touch.

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4 Types Of Intimacy To Get Close To A Partner

Physical intimacy is only one of four types: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Here’s how to really go deeper in your relationship on every level.

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August 2, 2021

Best Inspirational Relationship Quotes To Keep In Your Back Pocket

In need of some inspiration when it comes to your love life? These quotes will make you think about love in a whole new way.

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August 2, 2021

Here Are The Best Cute Relationship Quotes To Make Your Heart Flutter

These quotes perfectly define how you might feel when you’re swept up in the feeling of love, lust, or entering into a brand new romance.

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August 2, 2021

Best Relationship Books To Strengthen Your Love Life

Relationship books can be great for advice on your love life, or for just having a great read.

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August 2, 2021

What Makes Men Feel Wanted In Relationships, According To Reddit

The men of Reddit weigh in on what makes them feel good and appreciated in relationships.

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August 2, 2021

30 Funny Relationship Quotes That Sum Up The Hilarity Of Being In Love

A couple who laughs together stays together.

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August 2, 2021

48 Best Quotes To Help People In Toxic Relationships

Quotes from others who’ve been through a toxic relationship can help show you’re not alone.

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August 2, 2021

50 Best Relationship Quotes You And Your Partner Will Love

Sending your partner a loving quote might just make their day.

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August 2, 2021

40 Best Quotes for People in New Relationships

“Do what you did in the beginning of the relationship and there won’t be an end.”

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August 2, 2021

The Best Unique Date Ideas You Haven’t Thought Of

It’s time to bust out of the dating scene box.

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August 2, 2021

Best Date Ideas In Cities Around America

From New York To Los Angeles, there’s romance across the country.

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August 2, 2021

Does Our Financial Situation Affect Our Sex Life?

Your financial situation may affect your sex life in more ways than you thought.

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August 2, 2021

How To Have Phone Sex Without Feeling Weird About It

Phone sex can be a bit awkward at first. But with a little practice, you’ll be a pro in a no time.

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August 2, 2021

How To Make The Most Of An Extended Cuffing Season

Shelter-in-place might have you cuffing longer than expected.

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August 2, 2021

Getting Divorced a Year After Marriage Sucks — A Lot

I’ve grown so much since this experience.

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August 2, 2021

How To Date During Coronavirus

There are still ways to date safely and responsibly.

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August 2, 2021

Threesomes Helped Me Believe In Love Again

I didn’t think relationships were for me, until I tried non-monogamy.

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August 2, 2021

10 Date Ideas That Don’t Require Leaving Home

Romance and safety don’t have to be mutually exclusive.

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August 2, 2021

Why My Partner and I Do All Our Fighting Over Text

Having a digital paper trail can make all the difference.

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August 2, 2021

I Still Fantasize About My Exes

Fantasizing about my exes doesn't threaten my current relationship.

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August 2, 2021

Wives Submit to Their Husbands

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August 2, 2021

What's a Throuple?

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August 2, 2021

Is My Girlfriend A Slut?

First, ask yourself why you’re even wondering.

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August 2, 2021

How Writing Love Letters To My Live-In Partner Improves Our Relationship

“Maybe we should just not talk anymore; maybe we should write all our problems down.”

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August 2, 2021

Things to Do With Your S.O. if Coronavirus Has You Stuck Inside

It’s understandable if you want to stay home to be on the safe side. If you get to stay in with your partner, even better!

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August 2, 2021

When Should I Reveal My Invisible Disability To My Partner?

If I don’t treat the topic gently and seriously myself, then I can’t expect my partner to.

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August 2, 2021

HGTV’s “House Hunters” Helped a Throuple Find a Home, and the Internet Is Cheering

The episode may help people understand this type of relationship can be an option for them.

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August 2, 2021

Why My First Poly Valentine’s Day Might Be My Best One Yet

Cupid must be keen on me this year.

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August 2, 2021

Valentine's Day Doesn't Have To Mean Sex

By merely living in the Western world and consuming media, I understood Valentine’s Day was for lovers, and lovers had sex.

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August 2, 2021

30 Creative Valentine's Day 2020 Instagram Captions and Quote Ideas

It’s hard posting Valentine’s Day #content to Instagram without seeming cheesy. Here’s some inspo that will make you feel original!

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August 2, 2021

I Hate Valentine's Day: Reasons Why 6 Real People Stopped Celebrating

Hate Valentine’s Day? You’re not the only one.

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August 2, 2021

32 Unique Happy Valentine's Day 2020 Messages to Send Your Partner

Want to send your S.O. a Valentine’s Day message that’s not so cliche? It can be hard! Which is why we’ve compiled 32 unique messages you can send your love without seeming TOO cheesy.

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Safe Word Ideas

Need some safe word inspo? We’ve got you covered — just say the word.

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August 2, 2021

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Intimacy has a lot of definitions. This is what it looks like for me.

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August 2, 2021

I'm In A Poly Relationship. This Is What STI Testing Is Like For Me

“Can you tell me about your other partners?” It was a question no gynecologist had ever attempted asking me before.

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August 2, 2021

After 17 Years Together, My Husband and I Are Finally Talking Boundaries in the New Year

Let’s all practice better communication with our partners in 2020.

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August 2, 2021

Cardi B Says She Felt Judged For Staying With An S.O. Who Cheated On Her

“If you get back with them, it’s like, ‘How could you? You let all of us down.’”

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August 2, 2021

Living In Different Bedrooms Makes My Relationship So Much Better

We love alone time almost as much as we love each other.

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August 2, 2021

I Should've Broken Up With My Ex When He Didn't Get Me A Christmas Present — Here's Why

I’d tried to ignore that my needs always came second in our relationship.

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August 2, 2021

32 Other Ways To Sext “I’m So Horny” Without Using Those Three Words

Need some inspo? We’re here to help you with all your horniness expression needs!

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Every partnership sets its own boundaries for what constitutes cheating.

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Being A New Mom with Crohn's And A Wife Isn't Easy. Here's How I Navigate My Relationship

My partner was there for me when Crohn’s left me hospitalized and bedridden. Now he’s supporting me in our journey as parents.

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How To Be More Vulnerable: 8 Methods That Really Help

Vulnerability is hard! But we have some tips for you on how to work on your vulnerability, and ways to make that easier.

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Cómo Ser Más Vulnerable: 8 Métodos Que Realmente Ayudan

¡La vulnerabilidad es difícil! Pero tenemos algunos consejos para ti sobre cómo trabajar en tu vulnerabilidad y las formas de como hacerlo más fácil.

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“Turkey Drop” Is A Festive Dating Term Many People Dread

Is the “Turkey Drop” a real thing?

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August 2, 2021

Don’t Feel Bad For Changing Your Last Name After You Get Married

For me, it felt liberating.

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August 2, 2021

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Para mí, se sintió liberadora.

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August 2, 2021

Impotence Was Never A Dealbreaker For Me — But My Partner Wouldn’t Believe It

Our sex life was extraordinary. It was more than enough. For me.

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August 2, 2021

I Was In a Relationship When All My Friends Were Single. Now I'm the "Single Friend"

Here’s what happened when I found myself 25 and single for the first time in my adult life.

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August 2, 2021

Emma Watson Has A More Empowering Word For "Single"

“It took me a long time, but I’m very happy [being single].”

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August 2, 2021

Jenna Dewan and Channing Tatum's Divorce Shows Us It's OK To End A Marriage

“I’d come to realize the dynamic I was in wasn’t serving me nor was it serving my daughter.”

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August 2, 2021

What Exactly Is “Micro-Cheating”?

Here’s what you need to know about the new-ish relationship term.

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August 2, 2021

There's a Dating Trend Called "Zombie-ing" — And It's Not About Halloween

It’s like ghosting’s undead sister.

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August 2, 2021

6 Reasons It’s Okay To Be Old-Fashioned In Your Relationship

If you’ve always been “old-fashioned” about relationships, you’re not alone.

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August 2, 2021

6 Razones Por Las Cuales Está Bien Ser Anticuado En Tu Relación

Si siempre has sido “anticuado” sobre las relaciones, no estás solo.

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August 2, 2021

Is Having Dinner Every Night With Your Partner Necessary? Yes and No.

Experts say the secret to a healthy relationship is having dinner together. But is that really the case in 2019?

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August 2, 2021

¿Es Necesario Cenar Todas Las Noches Con Su Pareja? Sí y No.

Los expertos dicen que el secreto de una relación saludable es cenar juntos. Pero, ¿ese es realmente el caso in 2019?

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August 2, 2021

Why Willow Smith Thinks We Should Be Open-Minded About Polyamory

Willow Smith shares her thoughts on polyamory and why it gets such a bad rap.

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August 2, 2021

What’s Your Attachment Style? A Beginner’s Guide to Attachment Theory

Why do we behave the way that we do in relationships? It probably relates to the attachment style we learned as kids.

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August 2, 2021

Are You An Echoist In Your Relationship?

Don’t like being the center of attention? Are you a great listener? Don’t mind your S.O. being the center of attention *all* the time? You may be an echoist.

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Rebecca Koon

August 2, 2021

¿Eres Un Ecoista En Tu Relación?

¿No te gusta ser el centro de atención? ¿Eres un gran oyente? No te preocupes por tu pareja ser el centro de atención *todo* el tiempo? Puedes ser un ecoista.

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54 Sexting Ideas You Wouldn't Have Thought Of

Feeling uninspired with your sexts? Here are some out-of-the-box ideas you can use to get you and your partner in the mood.

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How To Talk Dirty

Does the idea of talking dirty in bed make you want to curl up into the fetal position? There’s no need! Here are some basics to get you started.

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August 2, 2021

This New Study Says People Want To Date Someone Who Makes Them The Center Of Their Universe/World

Are you more likely to date a consequentialist or deontologist?

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August 2, 2021

How To Deal With Rejection

Getting turned down is never easy, but we all get a “No” sometime in our lives. Here are some strategies to weather the storm of rejection.

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August 2, 2021

Your Dating App Dictionary: Abbreviations, Slang, And Emojis Explained

“Breadcrumbing”? Eggplant emojis? DTF? If you’re feeling lost in online dating slang, make this your go-to guide.

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August 2, 2021

5 Steps To Smart, Safe and Sexy Hookups

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How To Build Your Tinder Profile

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How To Keep The Romance Alive With Your Long-Term Partner

It’s easy to lose that spark when you’ve been together for a long time—happily there are ways to get that lovin’ feeling back.

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The Basics Of Tinder Messaging

How should you start a conversation with your new match on Tinder? And what if the conversation slows down? Fear not! Answers to all your Tinder messaging questions are here.

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