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January 27, 2023

19 Best Sex Toys For Valentine’s Day To Amp Up The Heat

Forget chocolates, these toys are way more pleasurable.
Written by
O.team
Published on
January 27, 2023
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Maybe you’re all in on Valentine’s Day. Or, perhaps, the whole chocolate and red roses thing makes you roll your eyes. Whichever camp you fall in, one thing we can all agree on is that great sex (partnered or solo) on V-Day is, well, pretty great. Gifting yourself or a partner a sex toy can enhance pleasure even more, which is why we put together a list of our favorite Valentine’s Day sex toys. Whether you’re solo or with your beau this holiday, enjoy the gift of pleasure on a day of love. 

➡ To learn more about how we pick the best sex toys and why you should trust us, read our methodology.

1. Best Valentine’s Day sex toy for couples

We-Vibe Chorus
4.5
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467
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$
199.00
$
298.95

We-Vibe pioneered the original C-shaped vibrator nearly 20 years ago and have only continued to iterate on one of their most popular products. The We-Vibe Chorus is an upgrade to the We-Vibe Sync that offers a few notable improvements and features, including touch-sensitive receptors, an analogue “squeeze” remote and a smoother body.

Benefits
Powerful & rumbly vibrations
Smooth silicone body
Unique vibration controls
We-Vibe Connect compatibility
Drawbacks
Touch-sensitivity may prove finicky for some
Squeeze remote hit-or-miss
May not fit snug for all
Somewhat short battery life
The nuts and bolts
  • 10 vibration modes
  • Smart toy
  • Squeeze remote
  • Waterproof
  • USB Rechargeable
  • Whisper Quiet
  • Low power alert
  • Body-safe materials: silicone & plastic
  • 4 colors

Why we chose it: We chose the We-Vibe Chorus as our top pick because we think it's the ultimate toy for partnered play. Its wide variety of vibration modes are activated through your smartphone, and its wireless feature allows for long-distance enjoyment. It’s also extremely flexible and easy to maneuver, but once it’s positioned, it stays secure and can be worn hands-free. We also love its ease of control - the squeeze remote allows you to quickly change the vibrations to find the perfect intensity. All of these features make it our top choice for the best toys for Valentine's Day. Whether you're looking to add some excitement to your solo play or want to surprise your partner with a gift, the Chorus is sure to please.

2. Best for setting the mood

Maude Burn Candle no. 1 4oz
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$
30.00
$
30.00

The Maude Burn is a hand-poured candle infused with a blend of amber, cedar leaf, lemongrass, tonka bean, and medjool date for a warm and aromatic experience. Made with skin-softening jojoba and soybean oils, this candle is unscented and features a 100% cotton, lead-free wick and cruelty-free ingredients. When melted and extinguished, the candle can be poured on the skin for a luxurious massage.

Benefits
Can also be used as a massage oil
Super moisturizing and hydrating ingredients
Drawbacks
Not best for people who want fragrance
The nuts and bolts
  • Ingredients: Hydrogenated Soybean Oil, Ricinus Communis (Castor) Seed Oil, Cetearyl Alcohol, [Parfum (Fragrance)], Lauryl Laurate, Olea Europaea (Olive) Fruit Oil, Hydrogenated, Castor Oil, Cera Alba, Copernicia Cerifera (Carnauba) Wax, Euphorbia Cerifera (Candellia) Wax, Jojoba Oil, Benzyl Benzoate, Coumarin, Benzyl Alcohol
  • 2.5 x 2.5 x 2.75 in

Why we chose it: One way to make your Valentine's Day celebration even more special is to create a romantic atmosphere, either by setting the mood with candles or music, or adding extra comfort to the experience with soft blankets or plush pillows. If you’re looking to create a sensual aura for a partner, we recommend this Maude Burn Candle. It helps create an atmosphere that can make you both feel comfortable, relaxed, and in the mood.

3. Best for gifting on Valentine’s Day

Le Wand Mini Pleasures Set
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$
149.99
$
150.00

Designed to be petite and giftable, Le Wand’s Mini Pleasures Set includes a lightweight mini wand and a small version of the Le Wand Hoop — a double-ended pleasure tool built for G-spot and prostate stimulation. The wand offers four vibration intensities and six vibration patterns, allowing for pleasure experimentation and exploration, and it’s ergonomic and flexible. Both toys are easy to clean, discreet, and make for great travel companions.

Benefits
G-spot and prostate stimulation
Comes with a velvety storage pouch
All products are discreet and travel-friendly
Great for gifting
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Splashproof, not waterproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • Body-safe silicone, ABS
  • Mini wand: 5.5 x 4.3 in
  • Mini hoop: 7.8 in

Why we chose it: If you or your giftee enjoys targeted clit and G-spot stimulation, this collection is a must-have. It includes an award-winning wand and a high-quality double-ended tool for G-spot stimulation, ensuring you'll have plenty of options to choose from. We especially love the luxurious packaging, which makes it a perfect gift for your partner or for yourself. Plus, everything in this kit is fun-sized and easy to carry on the go, so you can enjoy intimate moments wherever you are. If this set doesn’t suit your beau, check out our favorite sex toy gifts for more ideas.

4. Best for long distance couples

Lovense Domi 2
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$
119.00
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While Lovense’s Domi 2 might look petite, its durable design and rotating head delivers powerful vibrations. It conveniently offers app control, making it easy to adjust and change the 10 vibration patterns and 13 levels of intensity. Once it’s paired up with your smartphone, you can sync it with music for more rhythmic patterns. The app also allows for long-distance control, enhancing intimacy even if you’re far away from your partner.

Benefits
Strong vibrations + 13 intensity modes
Long battery life
Long-distance capable through app
Drawbacks
Not waterproof, only splashproof
Lovense app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 13 modes
  • Whisper quiet
  • Splashproof
  • USB Rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • 9.2 x 1.7 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: If you can’t physically be in the same place as your partner this Valentine’s Day, it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy some sexy time. There are plenty of smart toys that are app-enabled and can be controlled from a distance. Our favorite to try on Valentine’s Day is the Lovense Domi 2. This wand massager not only offers powerful, targeted vibration wherever you place it (your clit, perineum, or somewhere else), but its patterns can be controlled by your long distance partner via an app. We also love this wand massager because you can sync vibration patterns to music.

5. Best for public play on Valentine’s Day

We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibe
3.7
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428
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No items found.
$
128.00
$
139.00

We-Vibe’s Moxie Panty is a remote control clitoral vibrator. it offers 10 rumbly, but discreet, vibrations modes. Because it comes with a magnet clip, users can stand, dance, or sit while simultaneously experiencing vibration stimulation. It can be paired with We-Vibe’s We-Connect app, allowing users to control vibrations from their phone. Moxie Panty can be a great option for long-distance partners.

Benefits
Equipped with a magnet clip
Long-distance capable through app
Comes with 2-year warranty
Small form
Drawbacks
Pricey
Only available in two colors
We-Connect app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 10 vibration intensities
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials
  • Hands-free

Why we chose it: The panty vibe is perfect for couples who want to take their Valentine’s Day a little public. This vibrator sits comfortably in your panties while your partner can control the vibration patterns via an app. This means you can go to the movies, sit in a restaurant, or do something else playing and feeling vibrations while nobody else is the wiser. Just be sure to play discreetly so as not to let anyone else in on your pleasure!

6. Best for single ladies on Valentine’s Day

Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen
4.3
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2166
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No items found.
$
42.95
$
99.99

Based on Satisfyer’s original suction stimulator, the Pro 2 Next Generation is the next evolution of their best-selling product. Featuring 11 intensities, contactless clitoral stimulation, a quieter motor and improved controls, it proves high-quality suction doesn’t need to break the bank.

Benefits
Strong suction + 11 suction intensities
Ergonomic handle
Easy controls
Low price
Drawbacks
No vibrations or additional features
Suction can’t compete with higher-end models
The nuts and bolts
  • Contactless clitoral stimulation
  • 11 suction intensities
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Magnetic cable
  • Removable nozzle
  • Body-safe materials: silicone & plastic

Why we chose it: Valentine’s Day is all about showing love and appreciation, and who better to show love and appreciation to but yourself? Being single on Valentine’s Day enables you to really explore your pleasure, which is why we love the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen. Don’t be fooled by its low price, because this air suction vibrator is high quality, offering air suction vibrations for amazing clitoral or nipple stimulation. This product is also great for those with more sensitive clits as it doesn’t directly touch your clit. Instead, the nozzle envelops over your clit as it sends waves of air onto it. Don’t forget to try it on your nipples, too!

7. Best for single lads on Valentine’s Day

Satisfyer Men Stroker
3.9
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1031
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$
31.95
$
59.95

The Men Stroker is Satisfyer’s take on a simple, easy-to-use masturbation sleeve which can fit penis sizes up to 10 in. It’s created with a soft skin-like material on the inside to simulate the feeling of penetrative sex with a partner. The inner sleeve has a variety of resistance sensations for you to play with, including an internal pressure regulator providing a strong fit around your member, as well as air-cushion technology which can pump air in or out the sleeve with a touch of a button. The stroker can be used for solo play or with a partner to help you reach that intense climax, and the sleeve is easily removed for post-session cleaning.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Easy to clean sleeve
Soft, skin-like material
Inner sleeve sensations with air-cushion technology and pump feature
15-year warranty
Drawbacks
No vibration or motors
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials: ABS plastic, TPE
  • Waterproof
  • Water-based lube compatible
  • Air-cushion technology
  • Pressure regulator and pump feature
  • Removable sleeve
  • 10 x 3.3 in

Why we chose it: If you’re solo this Valentine’s Day, do yourself a favor and try the Satisfyer Men Stroker. This will take your solo play to the next level, and you don’t have to burn a hole in your pocket to try it. This budget-friendly toy is discreet with a sleek design that barely looks like a sex toy to begin with. It’ll offer new sensations during your Valentine’s Day masturbation sesh that’ll make you want to use it long after the holiday.

8. Best vibrator for beginners

We-Vibe Tango X
4.0
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73
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No items found.
$
78.99
$
80.00

Ten years after the release of their best-selling Tango, We-Vibe is back with the next generation of one of the world’s most powerful bullet vibrators. Offering a variety of upgrades, from a wider range of vibration intensities and modes, to a silicone handle and advanced control system, the Tango X is here to elevate the humble bullet vibe.

Benefits
Powerful & rumbly vibrations
Silicone handle for improved grip
Travel lock
Discreet size & sound
Drawbacks
Hard plastic can be overstimulating
Won’t work with most bullet attachments
Relatively low battery life
Charging connection can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • 7 vibration modes
  • 8 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Magnetic cable
  • Travel lock
  • Whisper quiet
  • Low power alert
  • Body-safe materials: silicone & plastic

Why we chose it: If you or your partner are new to using sex toys, Valentine's Day can be a great opportunity to explore and try something new together. It's normal to feel a bit unsure about where to start, but a beginner-friendly toy like a bullet vibrator can be a great way to dip your toes into the world of sex toys and see what you enjoy. If you want to surprise your partner with a high-quality, beginner-friendly bullet vibrator, the Tango X vibrator will take your Valentine's Day celebrations to a whole other level. We love it for its deep rumbly vibrations. The Tango X is also a major upgrade from its predecessor, offering more vibration settings, increased battery life, and an improved control system.If this product isn’t quite right for you, explore our list of best bullet vibrators for more options.

9. Best for a kinky Valentine’s Day

Sportsheets Sweet Punishment Kit
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$
29.99
$
37.84

Sportsheets’ Sweet Punishment Kit is perfect for anyone wanting to explore S&M play. It comes with one blindfold, a XOXO slapper paddle, and a pair of cuffs equipped with two release keys. The cuffs are covered with ultra comfortable faux fur, and the XOXO Impressions Paddle is made with high-quality leather and a stitched handle. You can also try on the silky blindfold to heighten senses and add a new element to teasing. This kit offers a safe, comfortable way to explore power play, no matter your experience level.

Benefits
Accessible to beginners
Cuffs have an emergency release feature
Affordable
Comes with 5-year warranty
Drawbacks
Cuffs might not be sturdy enough for more experienced users
Blindfold does not offer complete coverage
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials: Polyester, nickel free metal hardware, vinyl fabric, RBS-E glass batten, nylon cord
  • 3.5’’ x 2’’ x 3.5’’

Why we chose it: We love this BDSM starter kit because it includes all the key items for optimal BDSM play and comes in a stylish and sexy design. The "XOXO" Paddle is a standout item in the kit, as it's sturdy but flexible, making it easy to use for beginners. The cut-out stitching on the paddle leaves a playful "XOXO" mark when spanked with the right amount of force, adding an extra element of fun to your BDSM play.

10. Best prostate massager for couples

Lovense Edge 2
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$
99.00
$

The Edge 2 by Lovesense is a revamped version of the Edge. It has an even larger bulb just above the neck for more stability and stronger prostate orgasms. Its adjustable arm also allows for more precise, targeted p-spot stimulation. Use the app to control the toy from your phone or computer, and even connect it to your gaming and cam platforms as the toy is bluetooth-enabled. Control the toy’s 3 vibration levels and 10 patterns from the app, a remote control for a hands-free option, or with buttons on the toy. The Edge 2 has two motors for dual stimulation — one in the arm for a prostate massage and the other on the external arm meant to stimulate the perineum.

Benefits
Adjustable and flexible
Compatible gaming and cam platforms
Larger bulb at the neck for targeted prostate stimulation
Hands-free remote control option
Drawbacks
Not girthy enough for some
May not fit all body types
The nuts and bolts
  • 13 vibration modes
  • Whisper quiet
  • Smart toy + bluetooth-enabled
  • USB rechargeable
  • Remote control
  • Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • Waterproof
  • Includes storage bag and USB charging cable
  • One year warranty
  • 4.9 x 1.4 in

Why we chose it: If you and your partner are looking to add some excitement and variety to your intimacy, the Edge 2 prostate massager is a great choice. Because of its Bluetooth and Wi-Fi connectivity, you and your partner can play with each other whether you're in the same room or on opposite sides of the world. The app also has a video calling/camming feature, which allows you to see and hear your partner during play, adding an extra element of intimacy to the experience. And if this one isn’t quite right for you, rest assured that there are many other amazing prostate massagers out there.

11. Best sex toy for fingering yourself or your beau

Dame Fin
3.7
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185
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No items found.
$
85.00
$
89.99

Dame’s Fin is a small, versatile vibrator worn between the fingers. Its design feels unobtrusive to use – whether for foreplay, solo play, or partnered sex — and its soft silicone body comfortably fits most finger sizes. You can also experiment with different sensations with its three speeds and detachable tether. Fin is a great option for those who want a sleek, travel-friendly vibrator.

Benefits
Small and travel-friendly
Comes with 3-year warranty
Sleek and travel-friendly
Drawbacks
Limited intensity levels
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 3 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • Batteries
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 4.5’’ x 2.3 x 3.5 in

Why we chose it: We love the Fin because it's a fun and versatile gadget that can enhance foreplay and add an exciting element to your intimate experiences. Once placed on your fingers, it can be used in a variety of positions by you and your partner. We also love how compact and travel-friendly it is, making it easy to take with you wherever you go. Despite its small size, the Fin packs a punch thanks to its powerful motor, which provides intense vibrations.

12. Best for anal play explorers

B-Vibe Petite Rimming Plug
4.5
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126
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No items found.
$
109.99
$
160.00

B-Vibe’s Petite Rimming Ring is a perfect introduction to anal play. The anal plug simulates the experience of rimming (getting your butt licked) through its rotating beads located at the base of the toy. The beads offer seven rotation patterns, and the toy itself features six modes of intensity — all of which can be operated with or without the one-touch, wireless remote control.

Benefits
Anal stimulation + 6 intensity levels
Wireless remote control perfect for solo and partner play
Comes with a carrying case
Built in travel lock
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe silicone and plastic material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: We love this butt plug because it offers a variety of vibration and bead rotation patterns to explore, providing a versatile and exciting experience. One of its standout features is its deep vibrations in both the tip and base, which amplifies the rimming sensation. It's also whisper-quiet, making it a discreet and convenient choice for use in any setting. If you're looking for a fun and exciting toy to explore on Valentine's Day or any other day, this plug is a great choice.

13. Best for getting wet and messy on Valentine’s Day

Liberator Fascinator Throw
4.6
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351
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No items found.
$
99.00
$
155.00

Designed to absorb lubes and other liquids, Liberator’s Fascinator Throw Moisture-Proof Blanket ensures your bedding stays clean — no matter what’s happening on the sheets. While one side of the blanket is made of ultra soft microfiber, the other side is silky satin, making for a luxurious and comfortable feel. You can toss the blanket on top of sheets, or on top of any piece of furniture that you want to keep clean. It’s easily machine washable, and it makes for a great travel-companion.

Benefits
Soaks up liquids and fluids
Machine washable
Discreet and travel-friendly
Drawbacks
Pricey, but high-end quality
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • Polyester material
  • Machine washable
  • 72" x 54"

Why we chose it: We love this moisture-proof blanket because it keeps our bed dry during BDSM play and is easy to pack for travel. It has a soft, velvety surface and a waterproof liner, allowing you to enjoy wet or messy play without worrying about damaging bedding. It is also stylish and discreet, making it easy to blend in with current bedding. It is a little pricey but worth the splurge for its practicality and ultra-soft feel.

14. Best cock ring for making Valentine’s night last even longer

Hot Octopuss Atom Plus
3.1
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88
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No items found.
$
99.00
$
99.99

Designed with dual integrated motors, Hot Octopuss’ Atom Plus is a vibrating cock ring that delivers deep perineum stimulation. Its two rumbly motors offer powerful vibrations, and its innovative, ergonomic design makes it comfortable to use. Plus it’s 100% waterproof, and it can be enjoyed in the bath and shower.

Benefits
Powerful dual-motors for deep rumbly vibrations
Ergonomically designed
Hands-free option
Drawbacks
Can take some time to get on
Can get loud
The nuts and bolts
  • 5 vibration modes
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: ABS plastic and silicone
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • One year warranty
  • 4.7 x 2.4 x 1.8 in

Why we chose it: The Atom Plus is a standout sex toy because its deep, penetrating vibrations offer a full-body pleasure experience. It's great for solo play on Valentine’s Day, but its compact size also makes it convenient for partnered sex. It can also be used even if the penis is flaccid, which makes it accessible for a wide range of users, including people with erectile dysfunction. We also love the handy remote control that allows you to easily customize the deep vibrations.

15. Best for trying new sex positions

Liberator Wedge
4.6
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749
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No items found.
$
89.00
$
125.00

Filled with high-density foam, Liberator Wedge adds support and comfort to all types of play — from bondage to oral sex to anal sex, and everything in between. Its super-soft material and slope-like design makes it easy to experiment with new positions, as well as deepen angles of penetration. While its considered sex furniture, it can also be used as a supportive pillow to ease general discomfort.

Benefits
Soft but sturdy
Comes in 3 sizes: short, regular, and tall
Removable and washable covers
Comes in six colors
Drawbacks
Pricey
Takes up quite a bit of space, not travel-friendly
The nuts and bolts
  • Machine washable
  • Short: 32″ x 24″ x 10″
  • Regular: 34″ x 24″ x 12″
  • Tall – 36″ x 24″ x 14″

Why we chose it: If you want to surprise your partner with a thoughtful and practical Valentine's Day gift, we highly recommend the Liberator Wedge. This innovative sex accessory not only adds comfort and support during intimate moments, but it also offers flexibility in positioning. Plus, its luxurious and versatile design sets it apart from other options – the Wedge is filled with high-density foam that cushions the body, and it comes in a protective cover that allows for wet play, making it perfect for all kinds of play.

16. Best Valentine’s Day gift for him

Fun Factory Manta
4.2
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354
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No items found.
$
129.99
$
144.99

The Manta is a unique vibrating stroker with curved wings. The claw-like shape of the Manta may look intimidating, but this penis vibrator is a multi-faceted toy that can fulfill a lot of pleasure needs thanks to its unique shape and powerful motor. It offers six speeds and six patterns, controlled by three easy-to-use buttons on the device. For solo play, let the device send vibrations down your shaft. For partnered play, set the device between you and your partner so you can both experience the vibrations. You can also place it at the base of the penis during oral sex. The Manta is made of soft silicone and is compatible with water-based lube, helping the stroker easily glide.

Benefits
Unique, multifunctional design
Travel-size
Strong rumble
Quiet
Drawbacks
May require some practice for partner use
The nuts and bolts
  • 12 speeds and patterns
  • USB rechargeable with 2 hour runtime on full charge
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials, non-porous and hypoallergenic
  • 2 year warranty
  • 7.1 x 2.1 x 2.1 in

Why we chose it: We love this toy for its deep, gradually intense vibrations that allow for a customizable and pleasurable experience. The toy's powerful yet quiet motor makes it stand out from other similar products, and it's a great addition to partnered play as a replacement for your hand. Its great warranty is an added bonus – if you or your partner aren't satisfied with its performance, you can get a replacement within a year.

17. Best nipple clamps to enhance play

Fetish Fantasy Alligator Nipple Clamps
4.4
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146
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  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
11.25
$
52.99

These nipple clamps from Pipedream’s Fetish Fantasy Series offer hands-free, beginner-friendly nipple stimulation. They feature complete tension adjustment, allowing users to explore a range of sensations, including teasingly gentle pinches to intense, firm grips. And because they’re covered in smooth rubber, these clamps provide a comfortable softness — although the rubber tips can be removed for more vigorous play.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Clamps coated in rubber for comfortable grip
Hands-free and adjustable
Affordable
Drawbacks
Does not offer added vibration
Chain might feel distracting for some
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe cubic metal and rubber
  • 2.2 ounces (approx. weight of a large egg)
  • 1 x 1 x 1 in

Why we chose it: If you're into more intense nipple play, these hands-free clamps might be just what you're looking for. Designed to fit nipples of all sizes, these clamps feature adjustable rubber tips for added comfort. The clamps also have a slider that allows you to adjust the pressure to your liking, giving you full control over your experience. These clamps are a great option for those who enjoy a bit of extra sensation during play.

18. Best for pegging or strap-on play

Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit
4.0
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186
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No items found.
$
80.98
$
90.00

Designed for strap-on newbies, the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit includes an adjustable harness, a small dildo, a medium-sized dildo, a bullet vibrator, and an O-ring. The flare-based dildos are harness-compatible, and the harness fits up to 60” hips. It also features a small pocket, which can easily fit the single-speed vibe. Because of its array of approachable toys, this kit is especially versatile and beginner-friendly.

Benefits
Accessible to beginners and experts alike
Offers two different dildo sizes
Comes with a vibrator
Drawbacks
Vibe only has one speed and mode
Not best for users who want very large dildos
The nuts and bolts
  • Single-speed vibrator
  • Dishwasher safe
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Battery-powered
  • 13 oz (approx. weight of an unopened soda can)
  • 5.3 x 1 in

Why we chose it: This strap-on kit is perfect for those new to the world of strap-on play, pegging, or for those looking for an approachable and accommodating option for a range of bodies. We love how the included materials provide a solid foundation for users to learn the ropes, but still offer deep stimulation. The dildo included in the kit is sturdy and ultra-smooth, making it comfortable to use and an excellent toy for beginners. This kit is a great introduction to strap-on play and would make a thoughtful gift for a partner who is interested in exploring this type of play.

19. Best for steamy massages

Maude Massage Oil 4oz
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The Maude Massage Oil is a luxurious blend of organic oils, including jojoba, coconut, argan, and castor oil. It is formulated to nourish the skin and absorb quickly, making it a great choice for use in massages. When applied to the skin, the oils in this blend can help to moisturize and soften the skin, providing a relaxing and enjoyable experience for both the giver and the receiver of the massage. Keep in mind to be mindful of any allergies or sensitivities when using this product and to follow the recommended usage instructions on the label.

Benefits
Versatile use
All organic and natural ingredients
Super moisturizing and hydrating for the skin
Drawbacks
Not best for people who want fragrance
The nuts and bolts
  • Organic Clear Jojoba Oil, Organic MCT Oil, Organic Argan Oil, Organic Castor Oil
  • 4 oz
  • 2.25 x 2.25 x 2 in

Why we chose it: If you're a fan of massages with your partner(s), the Maude Massage Oil is a great choice. We love that it is made with a simple, yet effective blend of organic oils and is free from excess ingredients and fragrances. The oils in this blend are ultra-hydrating and multi-purpose, making them perfect to use for massages. This oil can also be used in baths to add a luxurious touch to your soak. After using this product, both you and your partner will be left with silky soft skin and a more intimate experience.

How to choose a Valentine’s Day sex toy 

When choosing a Valentine’s Day sex toy, there are few ways to narrow the options. After considering what price range you’re aiming for, try these tips to figure out what’s right for you. 

1. Are you solo or partnered? 

Most any sex toy can be enjoyed solo or with a partner. However, some products are geared more toward a solo or couples play experience. Knowing this, you can already narrow down your options by searching for toys that are either designed for couples play or not. 

2. What are your pleasure goals?  

If you are solo this Valentine’s Day, consider the ways you’d like to pleasure yourself and how you’d like to make the day very special. If you’re partnered, consider your relationship pleasure goals. Are you aiming to try something new together or enhance an experience you already enjoy? For example, if you and your partner have been stuck in a routine, but want to try some light BDSM, you might narrow your options to kinky toys

3. Discuss it with your partner  

When it comes to celebrating Valentine's Day with your partner, introducing sex toys can be a fun and exciting way to enhance intimacy and try something new. However, as with any new experience, it's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your boundaries and desires. Take the time to discuss what you're both comfortable with and make sure you're on the same page. This will help you build  trust and ensure you both have a positive and enjoyable experience with your new sex toys. Remember, good communication is key to any successful and satisfying partnered play, especially on Valentine's Day.

4. Consider your preferred type of stimulation

When it comes to selecting sex toys to enhance your intimacy on Valentine's Day, it's important to consider your own preferences and communicate with your partner to choose toys that will provide enjoyable stimulation for both of you. Take the time to think about which body parts you would like to stimulate and whether you prefer internal or external stimulation.  

5. Decide if you’d like shared control 

Shared remote control of a sex toy can be a fun and exciting way to incorporate technology into your Valentine's Day celebrations. If this is important to you, you can narrow your options down to smart toys that can be controlled remotely using a smartphone app. A smart toy with shared control is ideal for long distance couples, couples who enjoy public pay, or those who like to play with power dynamics, or couples who simply think it's fun or want to try something new. 

The bottom line 

From nipple clamps to vibrators to butt plugs, and everything in between, there are endless options for sex toys that can help you celebrate Valentine's Day with pleasure. These toys can add excitement and variety to your intimate experiences, whether you're celebrating with a partner or enjoying solo play. If you're still on the hunt for the perfect toy for Valentine’s Day, be sure to browse the best sex toys for couples from our extensive catalog of pleasure products.

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