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December 1, 2022

10 Best Sex Toys For Couples Of 2022

Our experts curate the best toys for you and your partner.
Written by
O.team
Published on
December 1, 2022

The best sex toys for couples allow partners to participate and experience additional or different pleasure. And while pleasure is subjective, we strive to judge pleasure products against a stringent set of criteria to find you the very best. We curated this list of best sex toys for couples by first considering some of the most common categories available for partnered play. Then we looked at some of the top products in those categories, judging material, battery life, portability, flexibility, and more. We chose the products that scored highest on these metrics. 

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1. Editor’s pick

We-Vibe Chorus
4.3
(
386
)
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
159.20
$
199.99

We-Vibe pioneered the original C-shaped vibrator nearly 20 years ago and have only continued to iterate on one of their most popular products. The We-Vibe Chorus is an upgrade to the We-Vibe Sync that offers a few notable improvements and features, including touch-sensitive receptors, an analogue “squeeze” remote and a smoother body.

Benefits
Powerful & rumbly vibrations
Smooth silicone body
Unique vibration controls
We-Vibe Connect compatibility
Drawbacks
Touch-sensitivity may prove finicky for some
Squeeze remote hit-or-miss
May not fit snug for all
Somewhat short battery life
The nuts and bolts
  • 10 vibration modes
  • Smart toy
  • Squeeze remote
  • Waterproof
  • USB Rechargeable
  • Whisper Quiet
  • Low power alert
  • Body-safe materials: silicone & plastic
  • 4 colors

Why we chose it: The We-Vibe Chorus is our pick for overall best sex toy for couples because of its clever design, small form, excellent build, and smart toy capabilities. This vibrator offers a little something for each partner. The Chorus is an upgrade over We-Vibe’s previous long-distance offerings and allows each partner to experiment with varying vibration modes and intensities, play together, or play long distance, with one partner “controlling” pleasure for the other through the We-Connect app. While this toy is a bit on the pricier side, it’s a great one to splurge on if you’re trying to enhance play with your partner.

2. Best for traveling couples on the go

Lelo Lily 2
4.6
(
328
)
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
111.80
$
149.99

This small, but powerful, vibrator has a discreet and sleek design, making it travel-friendly and easy to throw in a bag on the go. It’s infused with a signature scent to engage the senses, setting it apart from the competition. It’s also designed for both solo and partnered play, as it can nestle comfortably between partners as they experiment with its eight stimulation patterns.

Benefits
Small and discreet, travel-friendly design
Infused with signature fragrance
Great for solo or partnered play
Drawbacks
No travel lock feature
Not a smart toy (cannot connect to an app)
The nuts and bolts
  • 8 stimulation patterns
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
  • Body-safe ABS materials
  • 1-year warranty
  • 2.9 x 1.4 x 1 in

Why we chose it: This small vibrator is easy to place in a suitcase, or throw in a purse or bag for some last minute fun on-the-go. Even if someone were to see the Lelo Lily 2 peeking through your purse, it’s not easily identifiable as a sex toy thanks to its discreet and sleek design. While this vibrator doesn’t come with a travel lock — a feature many travel-friendly sex toys tout — we picked the Lelo Lily for its small, sleek design, eight stimulation patterns, and because it’s great for partnered play. It is meant to nestle comfortably between partners during play and penetrative sex. It is also infused with a signature fragrance meant to help partners stay present and engage their senses.

3. Best vibrator for partnered play

We-Vibe Unite 2
3.5
(
16
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
79.20
$
99.99

The We-Vibe Unite 2 is a vibrator designed for couples. Its flexible and compact design means the user can wear it comfortably while a partner also pleasures them. This vibrator has a single-button remote to control its nine intensity modes, allowing for hands-free clitoral stimulation and a customized pleasure experience. The whisper quiet feature also makes this vibrator discreet and easy to use, even if you have roommates or others home.

Benefits
Great vibrator for couples
Hands-free clitoral stimulation
Comfortable, flexible, and compact design
Varying intensity modes allow for experimentation
Drawbacks
Not a smart toy, no app-enabled capabilities
Not great for long distance play
The nuts and bolts
  • 9 intensity modes
  • Body-safe silicone materials
  • Splashproof
  • Whisper quiet mode
  • Rechargeable
  • 2-year warranty
  • 2.9 x 1.8 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: This vibrator is designed for couples as it can provide hands-free clitoral stimulation during penetrative sex or other forms of play. It’s slim, flexible, and compact, making it comfy to wear and easy to control. It has a single-button remote so you don’t have fumble with reaching down to the device, which can sometimes interrupt the pace and flow of sexy time with your partner. Its nine intensity modes and whisper quiet feature also make it a great vibrator for couples wanting to discreetly experiment with different sensations.

4. Best strap-on

Sportsheets Entry Level Harness
4.5
(
110
)
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
24.76
$
39.95

Well-suited for beginners and experts alike, the Entry Level Strap On Harness by Sportsheets fits flared based dildos up to 1.5 inches wide. It is designed with four-way adjustable straps, interchangeable O-rings, and waterproof fabric, making it easily customizable to your body shape. Once secured, this harness can be a great option for enhancing penetration and role-reversal fantasies.

Benefits
Easily adjustable
Comes with O.rings of different sizes
Affordable
Comes with 5-year warranty
Drawbacks
Only comes in one color
The nuts and bolts
  • Fits waists up to 60"
  • 1.5" rubber O-ring
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: Polypropylene webbing, velboa fabric, polyvinyl, polyester fabric
  • 10 x 5 x 2 in

Why we chose it: Sportsheets has a reputation for well-made harnesses, and that’s true of its entry-level model, too. This product is great for cishet couples who are just starting to explore power play, gender role reversal, or want to try pegging. It can be great for queer couples who want a gender-affirming aid to hold a realistic dildo, or for lesbian couples looking for a comfortable harness to better experience penetrative sex. Besides the comfort benefits, the adjustable nature of the harness also ensures it can last longer than a harness that might stretch out over time.

5. Best wand massager

Lovense Domi 2
(
)
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
119.00
$

While Lovense’s Domi 2 might look petite, its durable design and rotating head delivers powerful vibrations. It conveniently offers app control, making it easy to adjust and change the 10 vibration patterns and 13 levels of intensity. Once it’s paired up with your smartphone, you can sync it with music for more rhythmic patterns. The app also allows for long-distance control, enhancing intimacy even if you’re far away from your partner.

Benefits
Strong vibrations + 13 intensity modes
Long battery life
Long-distance capable through app
Drawbacks
Not waterproof, only splashproof
Lovense app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 13 modes
  • Whisper quiet
  • Splashproof
  • USB Rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: Silicone, ABS Plastic
  • 9.2 x 1.7 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: Despite its smaller size compared to the competition, the Domi 2 packs a surprising amount of power in its vibrations. We love this wand massager for couples because of its ability to sync vibration patterns to music, making for a fun (and perhaps silly) experience for couples wanting to try something different while grooving to a beat. Its long distance capabilities mean couples can also play together while not being in the same room, with one person using the app to set vibration patterns for their partner.

6. Best for long-distance play

We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibe
3.7
(
430
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
103.20
$
129.99

We-Vibe’s Moxie Panty is a remote control clitoral vibrator. it offers 10 rumbly, but discreet, vibrations modes. Because it comes with a magnet clip, users can stand, dance, or sit while simultaneously experiencing vibration stimulation. It can be paired with We-Vibe’s We-Connect app, allowing users to control vibrations from their phone. Moxie Panty can be a great option for long-distance partners.

Benefits
Equipped with a magnet clip
Long-distance capable through app
Comes with 2-year warranty
Small form
Drawbacks
Pricey
Only available in two colors
We-Connect app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 10 vibration intensities
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials
  • Hands-free

Why we chose it: Couples interested in a smart sex toy meant for long distance play may find that the We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibe fits the bill. Not only is it app-enabled so one partner can control the vibration patterns for the wearer from a distance, but it comes with a magnet clip so it can be worn inside panties or underwear. Couples who want to explore some public but discreet play can wear this vibrator out and about while feeling vibrations controlled by their partner.

7. Best for kinky couples

Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System
4.7
(
2
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
45.00
$
99.95

Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System can transform any bed into the optimal setting for bondage play. It comes with one connector strap, four restraint straps, and four cuffs equipped with velcro quick-release. It's quick to assemble, and the comfortable cuffs and nylon straps allow for easy adjustment. This system offers an accessible and safe way to experiment with restraint, and its discreet design makes it a great travel companion.

Benefits
Packable and travel-friendly
Leaves room for some movement
Quick to set up
Comes with 5-year warranty
Better for kink beginners
Drawbacks
Not the best size for king-size beds
May not give enough restraint for advanced users
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials: Nylon webbing, skin-safe plastic, and nickel-free metal hardware
  • 10 x 7 x 15.5 inches

Why we chose it: For couples who are interested in exploring their kinkier side, but want something easy-to-use, and meant for beginners, the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraints is a great choice. Its excellent material and build quality, along with Velcro quick-releases, make this a simple, well-made bondage kit for newbies. It allows partners to explore power play dynamics, without too much intensity. That’s because the kit still leaves room for movement by the bondaged partner. While this kit is beginner-friendly, it’s also great for kinksters at all levels.

8. Best for keeping things quiet

Dame Zee Lapis
3.2
(
7
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
30.00
$
38.00

Made with ABS plastic, Dame’s Zee is a bullet vibrator with three levels of intensity and one vibration pattern. It is designed with maximum versatility, and its small size makes it easily portable and travel-friendly. Along with its compact design, Zee comes with a travel-lock, which prevents users from accidentally turning it on. You’ll also find it’s USB-rechargeable with a sleek simple-to-clean body.

Benefits
Small and travel-friendly
Comes with 3-year warranty
Drawbacks
Limited intensity levels
Only one vibration pattern
The nuts and bolts
  • 3 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Whisper quiet
  • Body-safe ABS plastic
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 3.94 x 2.76 x 1.77 in

Why we chose it: Small, affordable and incredibly quiet, the Dame Zee Lapis is a fun-sized vibrator that’s easy to hide away in your purse, pocket, or other travel bag. The low-noise level won’t give up the game when you and your partner are trying to keep things under wraps from neighbors, or other people you might live with, like roommates or family. It’s also great for parents trying to sneak in some quiet sexy time while the kids are asleep. Plus it’s waterproof, USB rechargeable, and can slot into most harnesses. This makes the Dame Zee a swiss army knife of discrete, pocketable pleasure. The lower rating may be attributed to the fact that this little vibe isn’t the most powerful, and it has a simplistic design, with only three intensity levels. But when it comes to enhancing partnered play in a quiet and discreet way, it gets the job done nicely.

9. Best for butt play beginners

B-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set
4.9
(
22
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
144.01
$
172.00

Designed for beginners, b-Vibe’s Anal Training & Education Set explores the various pleasures of anal play. It comes with three different sized butt plugs, a lubricant applicator, an anal enema, and a zipper travel bag that makes it easily portable. The set also includes comprehensive how-to guides, allowing for beginners to learn everything they need to know about anal play before diving in. It’s the ultimate introduction into the world of anal pleasure.

Benefits
Good for beginners
Comes with informational guides
Comes with a storage bag
Drawbacks
Might not be strong enough for more experienced users
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • 6 patterns
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • 9.5 x 6.9 x 3.9 in

Why we chose it: When trying butt play for the first time, don’t go from zero to hero. This anal training kit comes with butt plugs of varying sizes so you can start small and work your way up to larger sizes as you get more comfortable. As you work up your anal training, you may even graduate from this kit and try anal beads, and more.

10. Best dildo for couples wanting a sexy, DIY activity

Clone-A-Willy Kit
4.0
(
20
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
37.97
$
79.95

Clone-A-Willy is a penis cloning kit that includes everything you need to make your very own vibrating dildo. It consists of a bullet vibrator and a casting mold powder made from high-grade alginate and medical-grade platinum cure silicone. This kit offers a fun way to make a personalized DIY penis casting in the comfort of your own home.

Benefits
Comes with a bullet vibrator
Affordable
Creative DIY project
Drawbacks
Lack of flexibility
It takes a long time to make
It can be messy
The nuts and bolts
  • Batteries
  • Body-safe silicone material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: This dildo kit allows partners to mold a custom dildo together. It really is a two-person job, and partners can laugh and have some sexy-time fun while one person puts the mold on their partner’s penis, making a dildo that looks and feels familiar. The dildo comes with a bullet vibrator, and can be great to use if one partner goes on vacation or out of town. Reviewers note that it can be hot to think about their girlfriend using a dildo molded after their dick, especially when they’re not there.

How to pick a sex toy that’s right for you and your partner

Choosing a sex toy with your partner can be a form of foreplay in and of itself. Scrolling through catalogs, discussing what excites you both, can help build anticipation. But given the breadth of products available, it can also be tricky to find one that meets both your needs. Here are a few considerations to keep in mind when choosing a sex toy for couples. 

  • Discuss wants, needs, desires. Before introducing a sex toy into the bedroom, communicate what each of you hopes to get out of the experience. What sensations are you seeking? For example, are you looking for a vibrating device to incorporate into play, or something you can operate from a distance? Do you want something to enhance kink or power play? This can help narrow your options.
  • Check product materials. Make sure the toy isn’t made of a material that might cause irritation or an allergic reaction for you or your partner. You’ll also want to see if the product is waterproof if you plan on taking it into the bath or shower.
  • Consider any privacy needs. If there are others in your household and you want to keep things discreet, look for a toy that doesn’t produce much noise. And if you plan to travel with the toy, a smaller form might prove more suitable.
  • Mind your budget. Prices can range dramatically for pleasure products. Those that are especially well made or that come with advanced features can easily run well over a hundred dollars. That said, there are plenty of great options for under $100. 

Should you get a sex toy for couples?

That depends on your pleasure goals as well as the pleasure goals of your partner. And since every couple’s preference and goals are different, there is no simple answer to this question. Here are some general guidelines on who might consider one.

Who it’s best for: Couples who want to explore new avenues of pleasure, or couples who want to have fun, even when far apart.

Who it’s not best for: Those who primarily have fun solo, or couples who do not agree on bringing a pleasure product into the bedroom. 

3 ways to enhnace playing with sex toys for couples

The beauty of sex toys designed for couples is they lend themselves well to exploration and adlibbing. Beyond adding your favorite lube (water-based lubricants are usually a safe bet as they are compatible with most sex toy materials), you can try adding a few other elements or pleasure products to further enhance your play.

1. Condoms for safer sex. If you plan on sharing pleasure products with a partner, it’s always important to clean sex toys between uses for safer sex. For an added layer of protection when using penetrative toys, like a dildo, or when practicing penetrative sex with a penis, use a condom. We recommend a Lelo Hex condom because of its unique hexagonal design that offers impressive durability while maintaining a secure grip on the penis or toy. This lets couples play as soft as hard as they like without worrying about breakage or other accidents. 

2. Sex furniture for versatility and comfort. A few additions to your play space can open a range of new possibilities. Consider a sex pillow like the Liberator Wedge, which can help you try and maintain new sex positions comfortably while using another sex toy for couples, like a harness and strap on for pegging. The Liberator offers a strong firmness without sacrificing portability and comfort.

3. Massage oils for sensual play. Massage oil is a simple and sensuous addition to your play space. An oil made with essential oils, like Kama Sutra’s Aromatic Serenity, can help further relax and moisturize you or your partner.

The bottom line

Sex toys for couples come in all shapes and sizes, and there’s something out there for everyone. If the products on this page aren’t what you’re looking for though, check out our catalog to browse more options.

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