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January 20, 2023

18 Best Dildos Of 2023

From vibrating dildos to realistic dildos, dildos for pegging, and more — there’s something for everyone.
Written by
Tabitha Britt
Published on
January 20, 2023
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Next to vibrators, dildos are among the top-selling sex toys on the market. Even so, finding the perfect one can be a challenge. Thanks to modern tech and new innovative designs, dildos now come in a wide variety of materials, shapes, sizes (length and girth), and textures. Whether you’re shopping for your first dildo or your 100th, we’ve narrowed down the best dildos on the market.  

How we pick the best dildos 

To decipher which dildos were the best, our team of experts considered several factors, such as price, functionality, size, special features, premium features like app controls, aesthetics, and more. The dildos that checked the most boxes won a spot on our list. 

To learn more about why you should trust us, read our methodology.

1. Editor’s pick

Blush Ruse Jammy
4.9
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8
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$
37.45
$
50.00

Made with platinum silicone, Blush’s Ruse Juicy is a semi-firm, hyper-realistic dildo with 5.5” of insertable length. It features life-like textures, including subtle veins and ridges, and its curved angle targets the G-spot and prostate. It also offers strong suction at its base, making it strap-on compatible. Ruse Juicy is well-suited for anyone who wants to experience life-like penetration.

Benefits
Realistic and textured shaft
Affordable
Harness compatible, well-suited for strap-on play
Drawbacks
Not best for beginners
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • 9.13 ounces (approx. weight of a full soda can)
  • 5.5” insertable length
  • 7 x 1.8 in

Why we chose it: It’s hard picking just one favorite, but we chose the Blush Ruse Jammy as the overall best dildo due to its functionality, affordability, girth (two inches), and realistic, curved shaft. The Blush Ruse Jammy is perfect for G-spot, p-spot, or anal stimulation, making it a go-to toy for many. It also features a suction cup base, which can be attached to your headboard, shower wall (or floor), or anywhere else that offers a sturdy surface. You can also strap it into a harness for hands-free partnered play.

2. Best dildo for under $50

Sportsheets Femme Rubber 6.5"
3.8
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7
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No items found.
$
32.99
$
34.99

The Sportsheets Femme Rubber 6.5’’ is a dildo that’s perfect for solo or partnered play. Its curve and hardy head are designed to pinpoint pleasure points for either male or female users, making it a versatile choice for targeted G-spot or p-spot stimulation. Made from non-toxic and phthalate-free materials, the Femme is a high-quality toy that is durable and easy to clean. You can use it with a harness or enjoy it hands-on.

Benefits
Fits most Sportsheets Strap-On harnesses
Compatible with water-based and silicone lubricants
5-year warranty
Drawbacks
No added texture
Comes in one color: Pink
The nuts and bolts
  • Body safe material: PVC (polyvinyl chloride)
  • Phthalate-free and non-toxic
  • Measurements: 6.5" (16.5 cm) in length, 1.25" (3.2 cm) in diameter

Why we chose it: The Femme Rubber 6.5” dildo by Sportsheets is affordable and multi-functional — use it for vaginal insertion, anal, and partnered play (with or without a harness), or a solo sesh. Despite its low price point, this dildo is durable and can withstand plenty of playtime without wearing away.

3. Best stainless steel dildo

Le Wand Hoop
3.4
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3
)
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
116.00
$
159.99

The Le Wand Hoop is a stainless steel wand that is perfect for solo or partnered play. Its curvature and length allow for pressure and weight to your pleasure zones. The Hoop features a beginner-friendly small bulb and a larger, textured teardrop end that are excellent for G-spot and p-spot play. Made from stainless steel, the Hoop is prized for its hardness, weight, and hygiene, and is safe to use with all types of lubricant. You can also try temperature play by cooling or warming it up with water before use. To clean the Hoop, simply use soap and water, or sterilize it by boiling it in water for 1-3 minutes. The Hoop is completely waterproof and can be stored in the included storage pouch after it has been allowed to air dry.

Benefits
G-spot and p-spot stimulation
Weighted and curved
Smaller bulbous end is beginner-friendly, while the larger textured teardrop end can be enjoyed by more advanced users
Stainless steel is easy to clean and good for temperature play
Drawbacks
No flared base, so be cautious when using for anal play
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Comes with a storage pouch
  • Size: 26.1 cm / 10.3 in
  • Smallest Dia.: 2.5 cm / 1 in
  • Biggest Dia.: 3.7 cm / 1.44 in
  • Weight: 1.39 lbs / 630.5 g

Why we chose it: Thanks to its stainless steel construction, the dual-ended Le Wand Hoop provides the right amount of weighted pressure to your pleasure points. Warm it up or cool it down for temperature play, take it into the shower or bath, or douse it in lube for a slippery good time — with stainless steel, the possibilities are endless. Plus, it’s easy to clean. Use soap and water, pop it in the dishwasher, or boil it for three-to-four minutes to thoroughly disinfect.

4. Best strap-on dildo

Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Kit
4.3
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206
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
80.98
$
109.95

Tantus’ Intermediate Kit comes with two long dildos, two O-rings, a durable harness, and a small bullet vibrator. The dildos are made of 100% premium silicone, and the harness offers a soft frontal pad and pocket to hold the vibe. The harness’ fastening, adjustable straps range from 28 to 60 inches in circumference, which accommodates a wide variety of sizes, and it’s conveniently machine machinable. This kit is designed for beginners who want to take the next step towards more advanced strap-on-play.

Benefits
Adjustable straps to fit a wide range of sizes
Harness is machine washable
Comes with a one-touch bullet vibe
Drawbacks
Dildos might not feel sturdy enough for some users
The nuts and bolts
  • 11 vibration modes
  • Harness fits up to 60” hips
  • Two O.ring sizes (1.25" and 1.5")
  • Body-safe silicone
  • 7 x 1.5 in

Why we chose it: If you’re looking for a new strap-on, the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Kit has everything you need to take your skills to the next level. This pleasure kit includes two long and thick silicone dildos, two o-rings, and a soft but strong harness. The harness is adjustable to fit various body types (between 28 and 60 inches in circumference), and it is equipped with a soft pad, popper fastening straps, and a secret pocket to hold the included vibrating bullet.

5. Best dildo for anal play

Fun Factory Bouncer
4.2
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197
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
99.00
$
104.99

The Bouncer Dildo is notable for its sleek design and gently curved shape, designed to caress the G-spot and prostate. But it’s what’s on the inside that makes this pleasure product truly unique: Three rotating balls inside react when shaken, rolling with every movement and creating a thrilling sensation with every ridge. As a bonus, the Bouncer fits well in a harness and adheres to smooth surfaces for safer use.

Benefits
Innovative internal design provides deeper, more dynamic stimulation than other dildos
Suitable for harness play or mounted use
Sleek design
Drawbacks
Requires a heavier touch to get the most of the internal ball stimulation. If you have joint problems, consider traditional a dildo.
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials; hypoallergenic silicone
  • Waterproof
  • Discreet shipping
  • 7.3 x 1.4 x 1.4 in

Why we chose it: The Fun Factory Bouncer features a flared base, making it ideal for anal play and p-spot stimulation. But don’t let its traditional design fool you — this seemingly simplistic dildo hides a special surprise inside. When picked up, the three weighted rotating balls bounce around (hence the name) as it moves. Bonus: The base of this dildo is suitable for harnesses so you and your partner can enjoy hands-free anal play. If you’re in the mood for a solo session, just attach the base to a smooth surface — the floor, metal or wood chair, or a window will do.

6. Best dildo for couples

Fun Factory ShareVibe
4.0
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184
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
129.99
$
134.99

The Fun Factory ShareVibe is a wearable double dildo suitable for various types of penetrative play. It’s especially suited for lesbian partners, or partners with vulvas. The unique shape and powerful vibrations make the ShareVibe especially pleasurable for clitoral and G-spot stimulation. The bulb is meant to be penetrated vaginally while the ridged base massages the clit. While wearing the toy, use the longer shaft to penetrate your partner vaginally or anally.

Benefits
Strong, intense vibrations
Perfect shape for couples play, especially lesbian couples
Removable vibrator
Harness compatible
Drawbacks
Unique shape may require practice for use
Harness may be necessary for some play
The nuts and bolts
  • 2 speeds and 3 patterns
  • Waterproof
  • Medical grade body-safe non-porous hypoallergenic silicone
  • Rechargeable
  • 2 year warranty
  • 8.6 x 1.5 in

Why we chose it: The Fun Factory ShareVibe is designed with couples in mind. This vibrating wearable features a short bulb for G-spot stimulation, giving a feeling of deep fullness while the ridge (located at the base) rests against the clit. The longer, curved shaft makes G-spot or p-spot play easy, so you and your partner can enjoy the vibrations together. Thanks to its tapered tip, you can use this dildo for anal play or in a harness — even if you’re a beginner.

7. Best realistic dildo

NS Novelties Colours Pleasures Dual Density 8"
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No items found.
$
67.00
$
68.99

NS Novelties Colours Pleasures Dual Density 8" is a dildo with 7.5 inches of insertable length. It has a realistic look and feel and a textured shaft. These toys are made with a solid inner core for firmness and a soft exterior for a more life-like touch. They also have a large suction cup base that can hold a strong seal on most flat surfaces so they can be enjoyed hands-free. It’s made with easy-to-clean dual-density silicone that will warm to your body temperature and even transmit vibrations through the shaft.

Benefits
Textured shaft
Flexible
Strong suction cup base
Realistic look and feel
Drawbacks
Not be beginner-friendly due to its large size
Surface of dual-density silicone may feel a bit "tacky," but this can be reduced with lube. Dusting it with cornstarch after washing is recommended to restore smoothness
The nuts and bolts
  • Body safe dual-density silicone material
  • Waterproof
  • Warranty: 1 Year
  • Length: 9.5 inches
  • Insertable Length: 7.5 inches
  • Diameter: 1.75 inches

Why we chose it: If you’re in the mood for a more realistic experience than your colorful toys can give, then consider the NS Novelties Colours Pleasures Dual Density 8” dildo. The Colours Dual Density features a soft, life-like exterior. This toy is compatible with most lubricants (Note: avoid using silicone lubes with silicone toys) and warms up with use.

8. Best squirting dildo

Evolved Big Shot Vibrating & Squirting
5.0
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3
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No items found.
$
119.95
$
21036.59

Designed with firm silicone, Evolved Novelties' Big Shot is a realistic dildo that offers ten modes of vibration. Its detailed design, from its smooth head to its veiny shaft, provides gentle stimulation to the G-spot and prostate. It is harness-compatible and features a suction cup base for hands-free use, as well as a reservoir and release button for the squirting feature. Big Shot is a versatile and satisfying option for solo or partnered play.

Benefits
Powerful internal stimulation + variety of vibration patterns
Textured design offers a lifelike feel
Realistic squirting feature
Drawbacks
Can get noisy
Not very flexible
Not best for beginners
The nuts and bolts
  • 10 vibration patterns
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic
  • 1.26 pounds (approx. weight of a peanut butter jar)
  • 8 x 1.6 in

Why we chose it: Want to take your fantasy one step further? Consider taking a wild ride with the Big Shot Ejaculating Squirting 8" Dildo by Evolved Novelties. Similar to the NS Novelties Dual Density Colours line (mentioned above), the Big Shot features a realistic body-safe silicone exterior. Unlike the NS Novelties dildo, however, this toy offers 10 modes of vibration and the ability to cum on command. That’s right — it squirts liquid at the touch of a button.

9. Best glass dildo

Glass Spiral Staircase
4.0
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8
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No items found.
$
22.25
$
22.25

This glass dildo has a versatile design with a bulbous head for deep stimulation, a nubby end for G-spot massage, and a spiral, textured shaft for added stimulation. The hypoallergenic glass is nonporous, body safe, easy to clean, and great for temperature play as you can heat it up or cool it down before use. To clean this product, simply use an antibacterial toy cleaner and warm water, or throw it in the dishwasher.

Benefits
Ideal for temperature play
G-spot stimulation
Spiral ridges add extra stimulation
Easy to clean
Drawbacks
Not ideal for beginners
Not a traditional dildo
The nuts and bolts
  • Body safe, hypoallergenic and nonporous material: Borosilicate glass
  • Waterproof
  • Dimensions:7.3 x 4.3 in

Why we chose it: The Glass Spiral Staircase Full Tip Dildo by Gläs is a work of art. It’s handblown and made of 100% borosilicate glass. Like stainless steel, glass is ideal for temperature play. To heat things up, run the wand under warm water. For a chillier sensation, place it in cold water. This toy is also compatible with all lubricants and super easy to clean.

10. Best dildo for beginners

Fun Factory Limba Flex Small
4.2
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197
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No items found.
$
59.99
$
64.99

The Fun Factory Limba Flex Small is a dildo that will “bend to your will.” It lives up to its name by offering a flexible, slim shaft, allowing for a wide range of angles and positions. This allows you to bend the toy to target the p-spot, G-spot, or other erogenous areas with just a little adjustment. Its flattened tip makes for even more precision when stimulating specific regions. This toy is great for grinding, riding, harness play or solo use. Thanks to its suction base, you can stick it to most surfaces and ride it as you please.

Benefits
Flexible, posable shaft
Suction cup base
Multiple sizes
Can be used for vaginal or anal penetration.
Drawbacks
May lose angle with strenuous use
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Medical grade body-safe non-porous hypoallergenic silicone
  • 4.7 x 3.9 x 2.8 in (small size)

Why we chose it: If you’re purchasing your first dildo, we recommend the Limba Flex Small. This un-intimidating toy is on the smaller side (making it ideal for riding, grinding, and shallow penetration) and offers flexibility, unlike any other dildo on the market. You can bend it to any angle you want, and it’ll stay there. This toy is easy to clean and features a suction base to enjoy hands-free play.

11. Best suction cup dildo

NS Novelties Colours Pleasures 8"
5.0
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2
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
54.50
$
63.00

The Colours Pleasures 8 Inch Purple Silicone Dildo is made from body-safe, medical-grade silicone that is hypoallergenic and non-porous for easy cleaning. This toy is soft to the touch, yet firm for effortless penetration. Enjoy its size and slight curvature, as well as its heavily veined texture for added stimulation. This dildo has a strong suction cup base that allows for hands-free exploration.

Benefits
Suction cup base for hands-free play
Veined texture for added stimulation
Non-porous for easy cleaning
Drawbacks
May be too large for some users
Does not come in skin tone colors
The nuts and bolts
  • Body safe materials: Superior grade silicone
  • Waterproof
  • Suction cup base
  • Dimensions: 9.4 x 3.2 x 3.6 in

Why we chose it: There’s nothing worse than getting close only to be (literally) thrown off when your suction cup loses its grip. If you’re on the hunt for a dildo with a strong suction cup, we recommend the NS Novelties Colours Pleasures eight-inch dildo. This baby sticks and stays. It also features a velvety soft exterior for firm effortless penetration, so you can drop it low or back it up as vigorously or as slowly as you please.

12. Best dildo for pegging

Sportsheets Anal Explorer Kit
4.4
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8
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
76.78
$
89.99

The Anal Explorer strap-on kit is great for those looking to ease into anal play. It comes with everything you need to explore your intimate desires with your partner, including a small dildo for beginners and a larger one for more experienced users. The adjustable harness allows for a secure fit, and the included O-rings give you the option to switch out the dildos for others in a variety of sizes and shapes. Just make sure to use plenty of water-based lube!

Benefits
Harness can accommodate a wide range of flared-base dildos in other sizes
Harness is adjustable to fit a range of body types (up to 60″ hips.)
5-year warranty
Drawbacks
Dildos are not compatible with silicone lubricants
Included dildos do not have realistic look and feel
The nuts and bolts
  • Body safe materials: Silicone, polypropylene, polyester, polyvinyl, nickel-free metal, ABS plastic, nitrile O-Rings
  • Measurements: fits up to 60″ hips. Interchangeable rubber O-rings: 1.5" (3.8cm) and 1.75" (4.45cm) in diameter.
  • Small dildo: 5.5" (12.7 cm) in length, 0.87" (2.2 cm) in diameter
  • Large dildo: 6.5”(16.5 cm) in length, 1.25" (3.18cm) in diameter

Why we chose it: Pegging, or penetrating your partner’s anus via a strap-on dildo, can be an exciting new adventure for you and your partner. It’s a powerful form of role-playing that allows you to embrace your Big D energy, let loose, and become even more intimate with one another. If you’re new to pegging, the Sportsheets Anal Explorer Kit has everything you need to get started. It includes two dildos (one small, and one larger), o-rings, and an adjustable harness.

13. Best dildo for prostate stimulation

Le Wand Swerve
4.5
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2
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
108.00
$
149.99

Made with body-safe stainless steel, Le Wand’s Swerve offers G-spot, prostate, and anal stimulation. Its tapered anal beads curve to create firm sensations, and its double bulbous end directly targets the prostate. Because Swerve can easily warm up or cool down with water or lube, it allows for experimentation with temperature play. The stainless steel also makes the toy durable, elegant, and simple to clean.

Benefits
Internal and external stimulation
Great for temperature play
Comes with a storage bag
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Not much flexibility
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe stainless steel
  • Waterproof and dishwasher safe
  • Compatible with most lube types
  • 8.5 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: The Le Wand Swerve is dual-ended for double the pleasure. Thanks to its stainless steel construction, you can feel a sensation of fullness and weighted satisfaction in all the right spots. The bulbous head is perfect for toe-curling prostate stimulation, while the ripped beads can be used for a sensual anal sphincter massage.

14. Best G-spot dildo

Le Wand Crystal G Wand
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No items found.
$
250.00
$
250.00

The Le Wand Crystal G Wand is a beautifully crafted crystal pleasure product designed for G-spot stimulation. Its curved, bulbous tip is carefully angled to reach the G-spot with precision, while the lengthy shaft offers a satisfying feeling of fullness. The wand is made from rose quartz crystal and comes with a textured silicone sleeve for added external pleasure. In addition to the wand, the set includes a 94-page hardcover guide on getting started with crystal pleasure tools.

Benefits
Curved for targeted G-spot stimulation
Comes with a 94-page hardcover guide on getting started with crystal pleasure tools
Comes with silicone sleeve for added external pleasure
Drawbacks
Not best for beginners
Pricey, but high quality
Not suitable for people who prefer softer, more flexible toys
No motor as it relies on manual stimulation
The nuts and bolts
  • Rose Quartz / Black Obsidian
  • 1-year warranty
  • Size: 78 (H) x 34.09 (D1) x 33.41 (D2) x 25.12 (D3) mm
  • Weight: Approx. 334 g

Why we chose it: The Le Wand Crystal G Wand is designed to take you on a spiritual journey toward sexual nirvana. With a lengthy shaft and 34 mm curved end, this wand is ideal for G-spot stimulation. Plus, its crystal construction offers a smooth sensation for easy penetration — just be careful not to drop it! (Don’t worry: The crystal meets California's Prop 65 standards. If you’re using it with a partner or you’re nervous about using a toy that has closed porosity, use a condom.)

15. Best a-spot dildo

Blush Avant D1 Hot N Cool
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No items found.
$
52.00
$
94.00

Avant Hot n Cool is a non-phallic dildo designed for strap-on play and pegging. It has 6” of insertable length and offers G-spot and prostate stimulation. It's well-suited for anyone who wants broad stimulation. Because of its strong suction cup, Hot n Cool easily adheres to any firm, smooth surface. It’s also very flexible with a slight upwards curve, allowing for gentle and comfortable insertion. Plus it’s harness-compatible.

Benefits
Harness compatible, well-suited for strap-on play
Broad G-spot and prostate stimulation
Suction base can adhere to most surfaces
Super soft and gentle, well-suited for beginners
Drawbacks
Does not come in solid colors
Not best for people wanting a lot of texture
Not best for people wanting a bigger-size dildo
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Suction cup base
  • 8 ounces (approx. weight of a glass of water)
  • 6” insertable length
  • 7.5 x 1.5 in

Why we chose it: The a-spot is located about two inches higher than the G-spot — it’s often referred to as the “female prostate” because it’s in the same location as the p-spot in people who were assigned male at birth. To reach the a-spot with a toy, you’ll need something that’s lengthy and curved. That’s why we chose the Blush Avant D1 Hot N Cool as our top pick for A-spot stimulation. This non-phallic dildo offers a softer touch, a slight curve, and 7.5 insertable inches, perfect for a-spot pleasure.

16. Best dildo for women

Fun Factory Lady Bi
4.2
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1022
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
157.70
$
159.99

The Lady Bi is special since it’s a rabbit that will also fill you up with pleasure. With 4.75 insertable inches, it’s larger than your average rabbit, but features a flexible design for versatile use. The internal arm will stimulate your G-spot while the broad and long clitoral stimulator makes strong contact with your hot spots. Explore six levels of vibration and six unique patterns. Plus, enjoy the ease of the ergonomic handle and the raised, simple-to-learn button system.

Benefits
Notably user-friendly
Dual motors for powerful function
Pleasurable at all of your erogenous zones
Longer arm for prime G-spot stimulation
Drawbacks
Shorter battery life
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity modes
  • Body-safe materials; non-porous hypoallergenic silicone
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
  • Discreet shipping
  • 8.7 x 1.8 in

Why we chose it: The Fun Factory Lady Bi isn’t your typical dildo. With its rabbit vibrator shape, it’s geared toward women or those with a clitoris and G-spot. This rabbit is built to fill you with pleasure. With 4.75 insertable inches, a 5.6-inch girth, and two rumbling motors, the Lady Bi can stimulate your A-spot and clitoris simultaneously. Plus, it has an easy-to-hold loop handle for comfortable control.

17. Best large dildo

Fun Factory Big Boss G5
4.2
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1022
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
135.00
$
233.00

The Big Boss G5 lives up to its namesake. It’s 9.3 inches and turbocharged. With a shaft that features realistic shape and textures and an ergonomic loop handle for easy maneuvering, the Big Boss can cycle through six patterns and intensity levels. Fun Factory’s Click-n-Charge magnetic charging system makes it easy to power up quickly, while the travel lock and low battery indicators make for intuitive, innovative use.

Benefits
Large size makes this good for advanced users
Special features include: travel lock, magnetic charging system, and low battery indicator
Loop handle for maneuverability
Intuitive to use
Waterproof
Drawbacks
Not beginner-friendly
Not a smart toy
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Body-safe materials; Medical grade body-safe non-porous
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
  • 9.3 x 1.8 in

Why we chose it: The Big Boss G5 lives up to its name. At 9 inches long and two inches thick, this vibrating dildo is meant for the size lover. (Note: The Big Boss is not intended for anal play.) Built with FlexiFUN Technology, this toy is designed to move with you when you switch positions. It also features a travel lock so you can enjoy super-sized sensations even when you’re on vacation.

18. Best small dildo

Blush Avant D15 Vision Of Love
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$
32.00
$

Blush Avant D15 Vision Of Love is a slim, petite dildo with five inches of insertable length and 1.25 inches of girth. This dildo is hand-sculpted and made with Puria™ platinum-cured silicone, which is ultra smooth and non-porous for easy cleaning. The Avant D15 toy is particularly suitable for beginners or anal play. The goal of the company is to create toys that are as visually appealing as they are enjoyable to use.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Slim, petite, and comfortable to use
Visually appealing with colorful design
Suitable for vaginal or anal play
Non-porous, easy-to-clean material
Drawbacks
Not ideal for advanced users
Incompatible with silicone-based lube
May not be large enough for some users
The nuts and bolts
  • Body safe materials: Puria™ Platinum-Cured Silicone
  • 5.5 inch length (5 inch insertable) X 1.25 inch width

Why we chose it: The Blush Avant D15 Vision of Love is slim and petite. With 5 insertable inches and a 1.25-inch girth, this fun-sized toy is perfect for those who prefer shallow penetration, or those who are newer to penetration in general.

How to choose a dildo that’s right for you 

With so many dildos out there, choosing the one for you can seem daunting. Considering the following factors may help you narrow the choices if you're unsure what to look for. 

  • Size. Bigger isn’t always better. If you’re trying to figure out how girthy or long you’d like your toy to be, think back to times when penetration was especially pleasurable for you — think of the object (e.g., fingers, penis, etc.), its size, and what you liked specifically and what felt comfortable for you. 
  • Material. Dildos come in a variety of materials. Silicone, metal, glass, and hard plastics are non-porous and body-safe, and easy to clean. Jelly rubber is not. We’d advise staying away from any sex toy that’s made of jelly-like material because it’s easier for bacteria to stay on that material. 
  • Price. Just like anything else, dildos range in price. You can purchase one of these phallic-shaped toys for anywhere between $20 and $300. Consider how much you’re willing to invest in your pleasure. This might depend on how beginner or advanced you are with pleasure products in general. 
  • Function. When purchasing a new dildo, it’s important to consider how you’ll use it. Will you be using it with a partner (if so, you may want a double-ended dildo or a dildo that can fit into a harness), or will you be using it exclusively alone (if so, one with a suction cup base may work best)?  
  • Other features. Nowadays, dildos come in a variety of styles and have multiple features. For example, realistic dildos may feature testicles, harness compatibility, Cyberskin, or a squirting mechanism, whereas unrealistic dildos may vibrate, rotate, or thrust. 

5 ways to enhance play with a dildo 

Whether alone or with a partner, here are a few tips to enhance your sexual experience using a dildo. 

  1. Use lube. While you may skip out on using lube with other toys, you should be cautious about using a dildo sans lube. Dildos tend to cause a bit of friction which could make for an uncomfortable experience. Just be careful not to use a silicone-based lube with a silicone toy; opt for a water-based lube instead. 
  1. Don’t forget to warm up. Even if you’re raring and ready to go, it’s a good idea to warm yourself up beforehand. This could mean teasing yourself with your fingers or starting with a bullet vibe and easing yourself toward penetration.  
  1. Find the perfect position. There are so, so many different sexual positions out there. Before you get hot and heavy, take a second to think about which positions might work best for you and your toy. Maybe you’d be more comfortable using a pillow, or if you have a suction toy, you may prefer to play on a chair (in private or in front of a window if you’re feeling naughty). Other positions include lying down on your back with your knees pulled tightly against your chest for G-spot stimulation (you can place a pillow underneath your butt for easier access), lying face down so you can thrust your dildo from behind (if you have a suction cup, you can slap it on the headboard and back onto it), and lying on your side with your legs pressed together — the possibilities are endless.   
  1. Mix up your technique. If you’re in it for the long haul, consider switching it up a bit. (If you’re trying to get in and out, that’s okay too — all orgasms count!) Alternate between deep thrusting, short and shallow penetration, and rotating your dildo as long as the shape allows you to do so. The best type of dildo for this motion is a “juicer.”  
  1. Try dual stimulation. If you enjoy direct clitoral stimulation, then you may want to combine your dildo play with a wand massager or try a bullet vibrator. You can also use your hands! Or, if you’re playing with a partner, you could also take it one step further and try double penetration (e.g., two dildos, one inserted vaginally and one anally, a dildo and a butt plug, a dildo, and your partner). 

3 products to pair with your dildo 

When using a dildo, there are plenty of products you can use simultaneously to maximize pleasure. Using lube is always a good idea, but here are a few more product recommendations to use with your dildo.

  1. Sportsheets Entry Level Harness. Putting your dildo in a harness can broaden your options for play if you’re with a partner. Whether you’re trying pegging or wanting to incorporate more penetration during sex, the Sportsheets Entry Level Harness is a good place to start. 
  1. Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen. This air-suction vibrator is an affordable pleasure product that can take things to the next level if you have a vulva. While using your dildo for penetration, stimulate your clit by placing the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen right over it. This vibe sends pulses of air around your clit and creates a sucking sensation, too. 
  1. Sportsheets Chained Nipple Clamps. Many people (especially women) feel nipple stimulation directly in their genitals. With the Sportsheets Chained Nipple Clamps, you can keep your nipples pinched and stimulated without using your hands. You can instead use your hands to guide the dildo where you want it. 

The bottom line 

Dildos can offer so much pleasure depending on how you choose to use them. They are versatile and provide G-spot, p-spot, a-spot, and anal stimulation. Whether you’re interested in a dildo for solo or partnered play or one that offers features like squirting or something else, there is a dildo for you. If you’re looking for a pleasure product for external stimulation to supplement your dildo play, explore our list of best vibrators here.

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