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November 16, 2022

14 Best Sex Toys For Women

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Written by
O.team
Published on
November 16, 2022

Sex toys for women are great for enhancing intimacy and pleasure, whether you’re experimenting with solo or partnered play. But while there are countless options for stimulating the clitoris, A-Spot, and G-spot, it can feel daunting to find the ‘right’ sex toy for you. That’s why we curated the best sex toys for women and vulva and vagina owners to get you started.

How we chose the best sex toys for women 

We picked the best sex toys for women and vulva and vagina owners by evaluating each product’s versatility, motor intensity, adjustability, and advanced features. We included a mix of toys geared towards various pleasure needs — including anal play, clit stimulation, strap-on exploration, and more. Of course, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to pleasure, but we aim to present you with a list of sex toys we think are best as compared to other products on the market. 

➡ To learn more about why you should trust us, read about our methodology.

1. Editor’s pick

Hitachi Magic Wand
4.8
(
626
)
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
129.95
$
166.78

Known as the most famous vibrator of all time, the Magic Wand offers vibrations with a variety of patterns and intensities. Unlike the original version, this wand is cordless, and it comes with newly improved features, including a smooth silicone head, quieter sound, four power intensities, and four vibration patterns. It can even be used to ease tension on your sore muscles, maximizing pleasure everywhere on the body. The Magic Wand continues to be the world’s best-selling vibrator, even after 50 years on the market.

Benefits
Ultra-powerful vibrations
Long handle and flexible head
Very durable
Drawbacks
A bit pricey
Loud
Heavy and not travel friendly
Not waterproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe silicone material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: The Hitachi Magic Wand, which has been rebranded as Vibratex Magic Wand, is considered one of the most famous sex toys on the market. Its massive cult following swears by the intensity of its motor, and it tends to be the go-to vibe for its versatility and durability. While hype can sometimes ring hollow in practice, the Hitachi Magic Wand’s power really doesn’t disappoint. Its impressive vibrations offer stimulation without specifically touching the clitoris — you can press the vibrator near the clit and the vibrations will reverberate throughout the area. Magic Wand is flexible and sturdy, and more importantly, the variety and strength of its vibration modes make it perfect for anyone who wants a high-quality toy for their vulva.

2. Best for dual stimulation

Womanizer Duo
4.8
(
119
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
150.06
$
219.00

Using Womanizer’s Pleasure Air technology, Duo stimulates the clitoris with powerful waves of air pressure and the G-spot with intense internal vibrations for body-shaking orgasms. Seal the cup-shaped head over the clitoris and turn on the Womanizer Duo for sensations that simulate oral sex. The second head massages the G-spot simultaneously.

Benefits
Air suction clitoral stimulation, plus G-spot massagers
10 unique vibration patterns
12 intensity levels
Small enough to take on-the-go
Drawbacks
Pricey, but high-end quality
The high intensity of dual stimulation isn’t appealing for every user
The nuts and bolts
  • 12 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper-quiet mode
  • Rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials

Why we chose it: The Womanizer Duo offers both vibration and pulsation, and for anyone new to G-spot stimulation, it’s an approachable toy to experiment with internal and external sensations. We’re especially impressed by its futuristic Pleasure Air technology which gives off blissful pressure waves and touchless stimulation to the clit.

3. Best rabbit vibrator

Lelo Soraya Wave
4.7
(
257
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
180.50
$
259.00

Lelo’s Soraya Wave is an indulgent rabbit vibrator that offers both clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Unlike many rabbits out there, Soraya Wave incorporates patented WaveMotion technology into its design, so that users can feel a finger-like rise and fall motion on their G-spot. Soraya Wave is not cheap, but for many, it’s a luxurious product well worth the price tag.

Benefits
Dual clitoral and G-spot stimulation
Ergonomic arm
Comes with a storage bag
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Can be a little loud
Wave motion may be too much stimulation for some
The nuts and bolts
  • 8 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • Low-battery alert
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe silicone material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: Rabbit vibrators are among the most popular vibrator types for a reason. We love the Lelo Soraya for its stylish design and range of vibrations — from slow pulsing to wave-like sensations. It delivers impressive sensations for a rabbit vibe, and you can choose between targeted or broad G-spot and clitoral stimulation. We recommend Soraya for anyone new to rabbit vibrators, or for vulva owners who want a dual-action toy.

4. Best for cute and compact design

Inya The Rose
4.8
(
182
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
45.95
$
79.90

The Rose vibrator is an air suction vibe with seven intensity levels meant to stimulate the clitoris and nipples. Its rose petals actually serve a purpose other than looking pretty, like an actual rose. The toy sends pulses of air over the clit or nipples while the gentle silicone rose petals ripple outwards for dual stimulation. This toy is intuitive to use as it only has a single button interface. It is great for solo play, and while it can easily be used for partnered play as well, it’s not totally ideal as a couples’ vibe because it is not app-enabled and has no hands-free option.

Benefits
Offers clitoral and nipple stimulation
Viral sensation with over 10k 5-star reviews
Easy-to-use with single button interface
Aesthetically-pleasing rose design
Better for solo play
Drawbacks
Not for those seeking a traditional vibrator
Not hands-free and not a smart toy
Not ideal for partnered play
The nuts and bolts
  • 7 intensities
  • Waterproof
  • Quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body safe silicone
  • 1 year warranty
  • 2.3 x 1.9 in

Why we chose it: The Rose vibrator looks like an actual rose, earning it the title for best in cute design. Its design isn’t just for looks, though. The silicone petals move around the clit or nipples in a rippling motion while the center of the rose sends pulses of air for that classic air suction vibe feel. It’s easy to use as it only has one button to control its seven intensity levels. Because it doesn’t have a hands-free remote or app option, however, it’s not ideal for partnered play. We recommend it mostly for solo time, but as with any pleasure product, it can be used however you wish — alone or with others.

5. Best for suction

Womanizer Premium 2
4.6
(
274
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
159.20
$
199.99

Designed with contactless Pleasure Air technology, the Womanizer Premium 2 is a luxurious vibrator that offers 14 different intensity levels. It features an improved Autopilot mode, in case you want to leave the control to the vibrator, and its Smart Silence feature ensures the toy only starts when it touches the skin. Womanizer Premium 2 uses innovative technology to help users achieve ultra-powerful clitoral stimulation.

Benefits
Powerful suction and vibration + 14 intensity levels
Comes with 2 suction heads
Autopilot feature
Comes with a 5-year warranty
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
The nuts and bolts
  • 14 intensity levels
  • Smart silence
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Magnetic port
  • Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: Womanizer Premium 2 is a sophisticated, velvety suction vibrator. It emits pleasurable pulses and delivers waves of air directed at the clitoris. We love that it offers advanced features (i.e. Autopilot mode, Smart Silence), feels very soft, and comes with a wide range of intensity levels.

6. Best for couples

We-Vibe Melt
4.7
(
113
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
119.20
$
150.00

We-Vibe’s first suction clitoral stimulator is made with the same body-safe, quality materials and attention to detail as their other popular pleasure products. A powerful motor and small form factor offers a quiet and discrete alternative to larger suction toys on the market. This product stimulates the clitoris without touching it directly, and instead produces, suction, pulses, and waves of air directed at the clitoris.

Benefits
Powerful clitoral suction + 12 intensity levels
Small form
Long-distance capable through app
Comes with 2-year warranty
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Only available in two colors
We-Connect app can be finicky
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 12 intensity levels
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Magnetic cable
  • Removable nozzle
  • Water-based lube compatible
  • Body-safe silicone and plastic material

Why we chose it: We-Vibe’s Melt was designed with long-distance couples in mind. Thanks to the We-Connect app, which controls the intensity of the suction and vibration, your partner can control your level of clit stimulation through a phone. Along with long-distance play, Melt can be used during penetrative sex. Its curved, slim shape makes it easy to hold and control, no matter your position.

7. Best sex furniture

Liberator Wedge
4.6
(
747
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
89.00
$
125.00

Filled with high-density foam, Liberator Wedge adds support and comfort to all types of play — from bondage to oral sex to anal sex, and everything in between. Its super-soft material and slope-like design makes it easy to experiment with new positions, as well as deepen angles of penetration. While its considered sex furniture, it can also be used as a supportive pillow to ease general discomfort.

Benefits
Soft but sturdy
Comes in 3 sizes: short, regular, and tall
Removable and washable covers
Comes in six colors
Drawbacks
Pricey
Takes up quite a bit of space, not travel-friendly
The nuts and bolts
  • Machine washable
  • Short: 32″ x 24″ x 10″
  • Regular: 34″ x 24″ x 12″
  • Tall – 36″ x 24″ x 14″

Why we chose it: Finding the perfect angle during sex is a universal challenge. Fortunately, there’s a pillow that helps users achieve desired positions. The Liberator Fascinator might look like any old wedge pillow, but it’s angled in a way that allows for countless positioning options during sex. Its high-quality, sturdy material offers full-body support, and its foam interior makes it super comfortable to lean on. Whether or not you struggle with mobility during sex, Liberator Wedge can enhance and optimize bedroom play.

8. Best butt plug

B-Vibe Snug Plug 2
4.8
(
83
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
39.01
$
55.00

Made from ultra-soft silicone, the Snug Plug 2 is a 4.3-inch butt plug that enhances solo and partnered play. It's one step up from the Snug Plug 1 with added pressure, and it’s well-suited for beginners working towards more advanced anal play. It can also be worn discreetly, both in the bedroom and during everyday activities.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Can be worn discreetly
Comfortable short-term and extended wear
Drawbacks
No added vibration
The nuts and bolts
  • Hands-free use
  • Weighted plug
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 114 grams
  • 4.1 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: This elegant, weighted Snug Plug gives off a divine feeling of fullness. It's perfect for beginner and intermediate users, and while it's relatively light, it still offers deep pressure. You’ll find that its slender neck makes for ultra-comfortable use, and its tapered tip makes insertion seamless. No matter your experience level, this Snug Plug 2 is perfect for elevated anal play.

9. Best for under $100

Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen
4.6
(
2147
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
43.94
$
99.99

Based on Satisfyer’s original suction stimulator, the Pro 2 Next Generation is the next evolution of their best-selling product. Featuring 11 intensities, contactless clitoral stimulation, a quieter motor and improved controls, it proves high-quality suction doesn’t need to break the bank.

Benefits
Strong suction + 11 suction intensities
Ergonomic handle
Easy controls
Low price
Drawbacks
No vibrations or additional features
Suction can’t compete with higher-end models
The nuts and bolts
  • Contactless clitoral stimulation
  • 11 suction intensities
  • Waterproof
  • Whisper quiet
  • USB rechargeable
  • Magnetic cable
  • Removable nozzle
  • Body-safe materials: silicone & plastic

Why we chose it: At an affordable cost, Satisfyer’s Pro 2 Next Generation offers heavenly suction to the clitoris. Because it comes with a wide range of different intensity levels, you can experiment with suction modes, and its ergonomic handle allows for a sturdy grip. It has a simplistic design, with a button on the device to control vibration modes, making it easy to use. Satisfyer Pro 2 is well-suited for vulva owners who want a budget-friendly toy with suction stimulation.

10. Best dildo

Vixen Creations Maverick
4.3
(
138
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
118.99
$
159.99

If you’re looking for a dildo with a realistic look and feel, the Vixen Creations Maverick is for you. It’s made of soft, realistic silicon, branded as VixSkin. At 7x2 inches, it also has the girth and length to give you a full feeling, whether you’re using this dildo for vaginal or anal penetration. Its large head is perfect for reaching and stimulating the G-spot or p-spot. While this realistic dildo doesn’t have testicles, it can be used in a harness for strap-on play.

Benefits
Realistic look and feel
Can be used in a harness
Pronounced head meant to target G-spot and p-spot
Girth and length
Drawbacks
Not a traditional vibrator so may not be a good fit for everyone
Not app-enabled
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • 100% Platinum silicone
  • 7 x 2 in

Why we chose it: We love the Maverick for its comfort and stability. Its curved shaft provides steady stimulation to the G-spot, and its squishiness feels soft and plush. You’ll also find that its shape and texture look and feel extremely life-like. And if you want to use it for strap-on play, the hard base and flexibility make it easy to do so. The Maverick is more expensive than most dildos, but we think it’s worth every penny.

11. Best strap-on

Sportsheets Bare As You Dare Harness
3.8
(
341
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
27.99
$
29.99

Designed for the strap-on experience, Sportsheets’ Bare As You Dare Harness offers a customizable fit with three points of adjustment. Its nick-free metal O-ring is able to accommodate a slew of dildo options — particularly any size up to 1.5 inches in diameter — and it works just as well with clothes on. Bare As You Dare is made to be compact‍, and it makes for the perfect travel-friendly accessory.

Benefits
Accommodates hips up to 60 inches and can fit a range of dildo sizes
Travel-friendly
5-year warranty
Drawbacks
Doesn’t provide a lot of hip support
The nuts and bolts
  • Nylon webbing, plastic hardware, nickel-free metal hardware
  • 1.6 ounces
  • 5 x 1.5 x 4.5 in

Why we chose it: This harness is versatile, affordable, and sturdy. It’s easy to adjust and it's more inclusive than many other harnesses, fitting a wide variety of body sizes. We recommend this product for its adjustability, comfortable fit, and minimalist design. If you’re wanting a simple, functional harness for strap-on action, Bare As You Dear is the toy for you.

12. Best secret “lipstick” vibrator

Lelo Mia 2
4.4
(
353
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
66.80
$
99.99

With its sleek lipstick shape, MIA 2 possesses hidden power. It offers pinpoint clitoral stimulation, and it can conveniently travel with you wherever you go. Because of its small size and comfortable grip, you can also use and hold this toy during penetrative play. MIA 2 is a perfect bullet to have around, especially if you’re looking to keep your pleasure truly to yourself.

Benefits
Discreet design + travel-friendly
Comes with a satin storage pouch
Lightweight and easy to clean
Drawbacks
Mild to moderate vibration
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Discreet packaging
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone, ABS plastic
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: Because LELO Mia 2 so closely resembles lipstick, it blends in easily in a bag, a makeup drawer, or even your work desk. And if you decide to travel with it, you can go through security worry-free as this vibrator is so discreet. While Mia 2 is fun-sized, it holds a lot of intensity, making for a lot of fun pleasure sessions. It’s a great option for anyone who wants to practice pleasure in private.

13. Best for travel

Satisfyer Pro Traveler
4.4
(
80
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
44.94
$
69.90

This trusty, air pulse stimulator fits in your pocket, so you can take it with you wherever your next adventure leads. The nozzle hugs your clitoris to provide deep and powerful sensations, and the cap has a magnetic closure for easy and hygienic storage when you’re done.

Benefits
Travel-friendly, with a magnetic cap for on-the-go use
Handy size
Simple control system
Budget-friendly
Drawbacks
Straightforward vibration settings without much pizzazz
The nuts and bolts
  • 11 intensity levels
  • Body-safe materials: ABS plastic, silicone
  • Waterproof
  • Rechargeable
  • Whisper quiet
  • 4.2 x 1.8 x 1.4 in

Why we chose it: Because of its lightweight and compact design, Satisfyer Pro Traveler makes for the perfect travel companion. It comes with a built-in magnetic case for quick storage, making it super discrete. And while it’s travel-friendly, it doesn’t compromise power for size. It offers a super wide range of intensity levels, allowing you to experiment with powerful stimulation from wherever you are in the world. The Pro Traveler is great for when you need a mood boost on a work trip or if you want to show yourself some extra love on vacation.

14. Best for light BDSM

Sportsheets Sweet Punishment Kit
4.1
(
3
)
  ?  
We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
29.99
$
33.99

Sportsheets’ Sweet Punishment Kit is perfect for anyone wanting to explore S&M play. It comes with one blindfold, a XOXO slapper paddle, and a pair of cuffs equipped with two release keys. The cuffs are covered with ultra comfortable faux fur, and the XOXO Impressions Paddle is made with high-quality leather and a stitched handle. You can also try on the silky blindfold to heighten senses and add a new element to teasing. This kit offers a safe, comfortable way to explore power play, no matter your experience level.

Benefits
Accessible to beginners
Cuffs have an emergency release feature
Affordable
Comes with 5-year warranty
Drawbacks
Cuffs might not be sturdy enough for more experienced users
Blindfold does not offer complete coverage
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials: Polyester, nickel free metal hardware, vinyl fabric, RBS-E glass batten, nylon cord
  • 3.5’’ x 2’’ x 3.5’’

Why we chose it: Sportsheets’ Sweet Punishment Kit is great for those wanting to explore some kink and light S&M without taking it too far out of a comfort zone. This kit will fulfill your basic needs for getting started: cuffs, a paddle, and a blindfold. Use it with a partner to explore impact play and being a sub if you’re the one being restrained, blindfolded, or gently hit with the paddle. Or try being a dom and test the waters to see how you feel about taking control while your blindfolded partner is cuffed. Make sure you involve plenty of communication through the process, and have some safe words at the ready, too.

The bottom line

Pleasure is different for everyone. Some vulva owners may love vibration and clit stimulation, and others may prefer suction and G-spot stimulation. No matter what type of toy you’re looking for — whether it’s a rabbit vibe, a dildo, or a piece of sex furniture — there’s something out there for you. If you don’t see something right for you on this list, check out our picks for best clit vibrators for even more options.

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