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May 9, 2023

18 Best Butt Plugs Of 2023

We curate the best vibrating butt plug, the best butt plug for beginners, the best butt plug for men, and more.
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O.team
Published on
May 9, 2023
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Whether you’re new to using butt plugs or a seasoned pro, finding the best butt plug on the market can be a challenge. Our experts are here to narrow the options. To find the best butt plugs, our experts spend thousands of hours getting to know all the pleasure products out there. We then curate, rate, and review butt plugs against a stringent set of criteria. From price to size to weight to material and more, we consider a variety of factors to choose products we consider “best” in a category and those win a spot on our list. Every body is different, and this list takes into account that pleasure is experienced in different ways.

1. Editor’s pick

B-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set
4.9
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22
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No items found.
$
160.00

Designed for beginners, b-Vibe’s Anal Training & Education Set explores the various pleasures of anal play. It comes with three different sized butt plugs, a lubricant applicator, an anal enema, and a zipper travel bag that makes it easily portable. The set also includes comprehensive how-to guides, allowing for beginners to learn everything they need to know about anal play before diving in. It’s the ultimate introduction into the world of anal pleasure.

Benefits
Good for beginners
Comes with informational guides
Comes with a storage bag
Drawbacks
Might not be strong enough for more experienced users
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • 6 patterns
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • 9.5 x 6.9 x 3.9 in

Why we chose it: We chose the B-Vibe Anal Training & Education Set as our overall favorite butt plug, or, in this case, butt plugs. This education set is perfect for those easing into anal play and those who are trying a bit of anal training to potentially graduate to larger butt plugs. In this 7-piece set, you can start with the smallest silicone butt plug, and then gradually move up to the largest weighted one in the set. Plus, read up on how-tos in the included educational materials (sex educator approved!), and take advantage of accessories like the lubricant applicator and anal enema to make your life a little easier.

2. Best weighted butt plug

B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug 2
4.4
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11
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No items found.
$
105.00

Designed for extended wear, b-Vibe’s Snug Plug 2 uses its hefty weight to create prostate stimulation and the sensation of fullness. It offers four intensity levels and six vibration patterns, allowing different ways to experience pleasure. Along with the plug, the complete kit includes a charger, a storage pouch, and a manual to anal play. We strongly recommend using it with water-based lubricant as the rectum is not self-lubricating.

Benefits
Allows for extended wear
Powerful prostate play + 4 intensities
Small form and travel-friendly
Drawbacks
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • Hands-free use
  • 4 intensity levels
  • USB rechargeable
  • Splashproof
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • Compatible with water-based lube
  • 4.9 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: With a whole quarter pound of satisfaction, the Snug Plug 2 has a flared handle designed to sit between your cheeks, offering full discretion no matter what you’re wearing. Two weighted balls in the body provide that sought-after feeling of fullness, while a variety of intensity levels and vibration settings offer plenty to experiment with.

3. Best butt plug for beginners

B-Vibe Novice Plug
4.7
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32
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No items found.
$
135.00

Well-suited for beginners, b-Vibe’s Novice Plug is a remote-controlled anal plug designed with smooth silicone and a classic tapered shape. It offers double penetration, and you can wear it during solo or partner play. The Novice Plug is also great for travel — it features a travel lock, a storage case, and it’s petite enough to fit in a small bag.

Benefits
Good for beginners
Built-in travel lock
Comes with a durable storage case
Comes with a remote control
Drawbacks
Might not be strong enough for more experienced users
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 15 vibration patterns
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Magnetic, labeled cable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • 3.4 x 1 in

Why we chose it: Although it’s name is pretty telling, the B-Vibe Novice Plug set includes all the features to set you up for success. It’s a compact, ideal butt plug size for beginners, and has a seamless silicone body. The tapered tip is not only great for smooth insertion, but comes packed with a powerful motor and 15 versatile settings to give first-timers a thrill. As an added bonus, this kit comes with a handy guide for anal play, so you don’t have to feel intimidated on your first go.

4. Best vibrating butt plug

Satisfyer Lolli Plug 2
4.5
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22
)
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No items found.
$
51.00

The Satisfyer Lolli Plug offers double the stimulation with two intense motors at the base and the tip. This enables you to experience a thorough anal massage that pulses through all of your pleasure points. With easy-to-navigate controls and 12 pre-programmed vibration settings, you’ll enjoy the innovative vibrating technology as well as the knobbed shape providing a new rush every time you insert another bead.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Motors at both the base and tip
Exciting beaded shape for an experience that increases in intensity
Powerful dual motors
Budget-friendly
Drawbacks
Some reviewers felt ridges were too pointy
Not a smart toy
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: ABS plastic and silicone
  • Discreet shipping
  • USB Rechargeable
  • 12 vibration settings
  • Weight: 10.23 Oz.(approx. weight of two apples)
  • Dimensions: 5.5 x 2.8 x 1.3 in

Why we chose it: Relish in the feeling of Lolli’s dynamic dual motor system for an experience that, according to the brand's product page, promises “unprecedented enjoyment.” With 12 unique modes plus knobs that increase in size and sensation as you insert, this anal toy from Satisfyer is the perfect one-of-a-kind shape to compliment the thrill ride of a strong vibrator.

5. Best butt plug for anal play pros

Nexus Revo Extreme
4.3
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70
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No items found.
$
191.00

If you’re an advanced butt toy user looking for high intensity prostate stimulation, the Nexus Revo Extreme is for you. Its insertable shaft is 5 inches long with 6.25 inches of girth for a feeling of “extreme” fullness. It has two bidirectional internal rotation speeds for targeted stimulation. The penetrating shaft massages the prostate while the perineum teaser rumbles with six vibration functions over your external erogenous zone. Control the 34 possible pleasure settings with the toy’s remote for hands-free play.

Benefits
Internal p-spot stimulation + external perineum teaser
6.25 inches of girth for “extreme” fullness
34 possible pleasure setting
Remote control for hands-free play
Drawbacks
Not suited for beginners
Not a smart toy
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity levels
  • 2 bidirectional internal rotation speeds
  • Body safe silicone
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable with included magnetic cable
  • Includes storage bag
  • 6.3 x 4 x 2 in

Why we chose it: The Nexus Revo Extreme is an amazing choice for anal enthusiasts looking for something to spice up an existing butt plug collection. With a whopping 34 settings to test and try, you won’t get bored of this toy easily. The Revo also advertises an extra wide shaft “for ultimate fulfillment.” With a girth like that, this toy can be a great upgrade for anyone experienced in anal play.

6. Best butt plug for couples

B-Vibe Petite Rimming Plug
4.5
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126
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We look at 10 retailers per product, and tally up their star ratings and reviews to come up with an average. Our featured star rating is based on that average.
No items found.
$
160.00

B-Vibe’s Petite Rimming Ring is a perfect introduction to anal play. The anal plug simulates the experience of rimming (getting your butt licked) through its rotating beads located at the base of the toy. The beads offer seven rotation patterns, and the toy itself features six modes of intensity — all of which can be operated with or without the one-touch, wireless remote control.

Benefits
Anal stimulation + 6 intensity levels
Wireless remote control perfect for solo and partner play
Comes with a carrying case
Built in travel lock
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Not waterproof, only splashproof
The nuts and bolts
  • Smart toy
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe silicone and plastic material
  • Water-based lube compatible

Why we chose it: The Petite Rimming Plug is a solid contender for a “Most Innovative Tech” category due to its special ability to mimic rimming when used to massage the anal entryway. However, we’re including it here as an excellent choice for couples since its powerful remote control can be used up to 30 feet away, making it a saucy add for discreet and long distance play. Let your partner control the vibrations while you wear the butt plug at home, or somewhere else a little more public.

7. Best butt plug under $50

Maude Cone
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No items found.
$
60.00

Compact and easy to use, butt plug savants will love bringing it back to basics with the Maude Cone. Its tapered shape and flared base make it simple to insert and use by yourself or with a partner. Sleek and waterproof, the Cone is quick to clean and toss in a bag for later.

Benefits
Tapered base for long-term wear
Comes with a natural canvas travel pouch
Simple and no-frills, making it a perfect toy box staple no matter your experience level
Drawbacks
Does not vibrate
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • Discreet shipping
  • 4.3 x 1.5in

Why we chose it: Even if you’re on the hunt for a butt plug that’s a bit more wallet-friendly, sometimes it only takes the basics to bring yourself over the edge. The Maude Cone’s classic shape and sleek body make it easy to slip in and enjoy. Then when you’re done, you’ll love that clean-up is easy and travel is discreet. It even comes with a natural canvas travel pouch made for storing Cone on-the-go.

8. Best butt plug to show off

Blush Temptasia Bling
4.2
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128
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No items found.
$
13.00

Blush’s Temptasia Bling is a medium-sized butt plug that features a heart-shaped base with a golden gemstone. Its tapered tip allows for easy insertion, and its tight neck makes the plug suitable for extended wear. Temptasia Bling is made of platinum-cured silicone, and its vibrant design adds style to anal play. The size small has a three-inch circumference, making it suitable for those new to butt plugs and anal play.

Benefits
Beginner-friendly
Beautiful, unique design
Comfortable insertion
Flared to help plug stay firmly inserted
Drawbacks
Gem is not super stable
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • 1.7 oz (approx. weight of a two pens)
  • 3.3 x 1.4 in

Why we chose it: If owning a butt plug feels a little intimidating but you’re still invested in getting in on the anal fun, you might want something a little more glamorous. The adorable Blush Temptasia Ring offers just that. The gorgeous heart-shaped design is elevated by that golden gemstone, but this butt plug has great features as well as beauty. It’s great for beginners, easy to insert, and comfortable to wear over an extended time.

9. Best butt plug for comfortable, long wear

B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug 4
4.8
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4
)
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No items found.
$
95.00

The B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug 4 is a powerful vibrating butt plug. This toy offers four vibration modes and is designed for comfortable extended wear so you can enjoy hours of play with this butt plug. The seamless silicone toy has a flexible, thin neck and comfortable grip handles that are great for solo or partnered play. It is one of five butt plugs in the B-Vibe Vibrating Snug Plug line and is the second largest plug in the line with 5.2 insertable inches and weighing 9.06 ounces, which is approximately the weight of a can of soup.

Benefits
Hefty weight for a feeling of “fullness”
Flexible neck with comfortable grip handle
Wearable and comfortable for long periods of time, even in public
Drawbacks
Weight and size not ideal for beginners
No app controls
The nuts and bolts
  • 4 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body safe silicone
  • 1 year warranty
  • 9.06 ounces (Approx. weight of a can of soup)
  • 5.9 x 1.7 in

Why we chose it: This weighted butt plug may not be for beginners, but reviews tout its comfortable shape and soft silicone material, making it good to wear for longer periods of time (some say for hours), and comfortable to wear even when sitting or standing. This can be especially useful for those who like to wear butt plugs in public. The vibrations add an extra element of stimulation that can make this butt plug even more pleasurable to wear, whether you’re home or out and about.

10. Best glass butt plug

Icicles No. 44 Glass Anal Plug
4.5
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31
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No items found.
$
26.00

Why we chose it: Glass plugs combine the excitement of feelings you won’t find in any other anal toy with beautiful design aesthetics. Lean on Icicles No. 44 for endless, smooth fun and enjoy its ergonomic design creating the most comfortable butt plug experience. When cared for properly, you can count on No. 44 to last forever, even if you play rough. It’s easy to enhance your experience with temperature play if you’re using a glass plug. Try throwing the Icicles No. 44 in the fridge or warming it under some hot water before play.

11. Best metal butt plug

Gender Fluid Excite! Extendo Plug - Silver
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No items found.
$
30.00

Smooth and sleek, the Extendo Plug is a premier steel pleasure product at a bargain price. Its three distinct ridges provide an extra layer of excitement, and it's suitable for some titillating temperature play. Heat it down or cool it before play, if you so desire.

Benefits
Three screw rings for additional enjoyment
Pairs with all lubricants
Drawbacks
May not be suitable for extended wear
Compatible with all lubricants
The nuts and bolts
  • Body-safe materials: steel

Why we chose it: Metal butt plugs, with their sturdy material and hard ridges, provide an intense experience pressing firmly against your sweet spots. The Excite! Extendo Plug will take it a step further, since its three screw rings provide extra stimulation and its exceptional length will reach all of your erogenous zones. Like a glass butt plug, you can also take advantage of the metal material to experiment with temperature play.

12. Best penis ring-butt plug hybrid

B-Vibe Snug & Tug
4.9
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14
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No items found.
$
55.00

Snug & Tug is a vibrating plug with the added feature of a cock ring for enhanced stimulation.The weighted internal plug stimulates the anal canal and prostate, while the ring offers longer and harder erections. The combination of these elements provides powerful sensations for partnered sex or discreet, extended wear. Snug & Tug is suitable for those seeking enhanced stimulation and longer-lasting erections.

Benefits
Added vibrations
Allows for discreet, extended wear
Comes with a travel bag and user guide
Drawbacks
Does not come with a remote control
Splashproof, not waterproof
The nuts and bolts
  • Splashproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • 7 ounces (approx. weight of a soft ball)
  • 3.7 x 1.2 in

Why we chose it: Like the rest of the Snug Plug Collection from B-Vibe, you can expect a more intense feeling of fullness from this weighted toy. But the Snug & Tug goes beyond being your household butt plug - it includes a genital ring for enhanced stimulation. Luxuriate in longer erections while the plug massages your prostate for delayed orgasms.

13. Best butt plug for girth

B-Vibe Rimming Plug XL
4.3
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15
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No items found.
$
175.00

The Rimming Plug XL is a premium, extra-large butt plug that combines the sensation of rimming through rotating beads and a powerful vibrating motor. It comes with remote control access, which allows for dynamic power play, couples fun, and solo stimulation. Rimming Plug XL is suitable for experienced anal enthusiasts seeking dual stimulation and travel-friendly pleasure.

Benefits
Comes with a remote for easy control
Allows for hands-free use
Powerful vibration for intense stimulation
Drawbacks
Not best for beginners
Splashproof, not waterproof
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 intensity levels
  • Splashproof
  • Body-safe silicone
  • 8.5 ounces (approx. weight of a can of soda)
  • 5.2 x 2.2 in

Why we chose it: If extreme fullness is your goal, go the route of the Rimming Plug XL. It's touted as the first extra-large vibrating butt plug, and is designed to maximize on that decadent full feeling to produce orgasmic stimulation. The XL weighs in at 5.5 inches long and 2.2 inches wide. Seeing as the average butt plug is anywhere from 1.25-1.5 inches around, you can count on a high-intensity experience from this toy. (Keep in mind that if you’re newer to anal play, you may have to work your way up to butt plugs of this size with a smaller plug or an anal trainer.)

14. Best for texture

B-Vibe Swirl Texture Plug
5.0
(
14
)
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No items found.
$
93.00

The Swirl brings an entirely new definition to textured anal toys with its pronounced folds that vary in size to stimulate the user differently as they insert and thrust. Its tapered body makes for easy insertion while its six vibration patterns dig deeper to produce unforgettable sensations. If you’re looking to graduate to something more elevated or advanced in the anal space, The Swirl could be for you.

Benefits
Textures take your anal play to the next level
Multiple vibration modes
Can be used for anal or vaginal play
Drawbacks
Splashproof, not waterproof
1 Lithium Ion batteries required
The nuts and bolts
  • 6 vibration patterns
  • Splashproof
  • 1 year warranty
  • Body safe materials: Soft seamless silicone
  • Weight: 7.05 oz.
  • Dimensions: 4.8 x 1.6 in

Why we chose it: Nothing against a good sleek butt plug, but sometimes, you need extra ripples and folds to scratch your unique itches. We recommend the B-Vibe Swirl Plug, whose curves of varying sizes provide a totally new anal experience. Indulge in one of its six vibration patterns and feel the way it stimulates you differently with every twist and tug.

15. Best for gifting your beau

Blush Avant Free Spirit
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No items found.
$
27.00

Adorable and cheeky, the Avant Free Spirit is packed with 10 vibrating functions for a personalized experience. Waterproof for shower play and easy to clean, this butt plug uses Blush Novelties’ original Stayput technology to ensure the Free Spirit remains safely in place throughout use. Meanwhile, their Anchortech feature means you can enjoy this one for hours on end.

Benefits
Won’t pop out during play
Fragrance-free
Great for long-term wear
Drawbacks
Requires a battery; sold separately
The nuts and bolts
  • 10 vibration modes, with 5 speeds and 5 unique patterns
  • Waterproof
  • 1 x AAA battery
  • Discreet shipping
  • Body-safe materials: Silicone
  • Weight: 2.6 ounces
  • Dimensions: 5 X 1.5 Inches

Why we chose it: When gifting a butt plug to a friend or significant other who is interested in anal play, we think it’s best to go the simple and approachable route. Enter: the Blush Avant Free Spirit. This pleasure product offers eye candy, plus a sleek body for easy insertion and 10 vibrating settings for that special someone on your list to entertain. It’s even waterproof, opening the door to exciting backdrops for play.

Best butt plugs for men

Butt plugs can be enjoyed by anyone, but some are intended for men, or for people with prostates. These types of butt toys are known as prostate massagers, and they are specifically shaped to stimulate the prostate — a small walnut-sized muscular gland, located about two inches up the anterior wall of the anal canal. If you have a prostate there are plenty of amazing prostate massagers to choose from. Here are a few bonus suggestions if you’re looking for a butt plug prostate massager. If you aren’t sure how to use these toys, check out our guide on how to use a prostate massager.

16. Best app-controlled butt plug

Svakom Vick Neo Interactive
4.8
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70
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No items found.
$
76.00

Designed to stimulate the P-spot, Svakom’s Vick Neo is an app-controlled prostate massager that offers vibration and total versatility. Its shaft tapers to a 1.75 inch girth where it meets the base, making it comfortable to wear and safe for anal play. Because of Svakom’s cutting edge technology, Vick Neo can be used for long-distance enjoyment, or for web play with its interactive videos and webcam performances.

Benefits
Affordable
Beginner-friendly
Long-distance and local control
Web interactive
Drawbacks
The vibrations might not be powerful enough for some users
It doesn’t offer hands-free control
The nuts and bolts
  • 5 intensity modes
  • Smart toy
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: Silicone, ABS+PC, Metals
  • Water-based lube compatible
  • 1-year warranty
  • 1.1 x 3.5 x 3.6 in

Why we chose it: When it comes to a powerful product with all-encompassing features, the Svakom Vick Neo has all the innovative components you didn’t know you were missing. With LED-equipped controls, this little number is easy to use in the dark as you explore two-way-play between its internal arm and perineal massager. The Vick Neo is one of the smartest toys on this list to boot — its forward-thinking Bluetooth app means you can harness its full potential wherever you go.

17. Best for targeted prostate stimulation

Aneros Helix Syn Trident
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$
72.00

Designed to respond to bodily movement, Aneros’ Trident is a hands-free massager that stimulates four erogenous zones, including the prostate. Its redesigned arms allow for ease of use, and its angled head offers focused stimulation. Trident is also relatively small, with an insertable length of four inches, making it an approachable and comfortable option for beginners.

Benefits
Affordable
Suitable for beginners
Allows for hands-free use
Comes with 2-year warranty
Drawbacks
Not the best for more advanced users
Can take time to get used to the K-tab and P-tab
The nuts and bolts
  • Waterproof
  • Body-safe materials: silicone
  • 9.28 ounces (approx. weight of a can of soda)
  • 7.7 x 5.5 x 2 in

Why we chose it: The sharp angles on the head of the popular Aneros Syn Trident make it easy for this toy to find and stroke any prostate. As an added bonus, Aneros toys feature a unique handle design so the toy can caress your perineum while the head rocks against all of your hotspots.

18. Best for hands free prostate orgasm

Lelo Hugo
4.6
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436
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No items found.
$
248.00

Lelo’s Hugo is a vibrating prostate massager suitable for both partner and solo play. Along with eight intensity levels, Hugo features two powerful motors located in the base and tip of the toy. It’s also built with SenseMotion technology, which allows you to control vibrations by moving the remote, rather than pressing buttons. SenseMotion makes Hugo’s vibrations easy to adjust, and the toy’s ultra-soft design makes for a comfortable grip.

Benefits
Strong prostate stimulation + 8 intensity levels
Remote controlled with SenseMotion technology
Comes with a satin storage pouch
Drawbacks
A bit pricey, but high-end quality
Not very adjustable
Can be loud
While the toy is rechargeable, the remote needs batteries
The nuts and bolts
  • 8 intensity levels
  • Whisper quiet
  • Waterproof
  • USB rechargeable
  • Body-safe materials: silicone, ABS plastic
  • Compatible with water-based lube

Why we chose it: Control this prostate massager with its remote and go for a hands free prostate orgasm. Simply use the remote to explore the Lelo Hugo’s varying vibration modes, and get yourself over the edge without using your hands. Of course, you may choose to stroke your penis simultaneously, but that is up to you!

How to choose a butt plug 

When picking the best butt plug for your needs, you want to consider all the factors. What are your pleasure goals, and what anal toy can best help you meet them? You the following points to guide your shopping:

  • Size. If you’re a beginner, opt for a slim butt plug that’s around the width of two fingers. Remember that your plug won’t provide you with the pleasure you’re seeking if it’s stretching too much or causing pain, so take your time to work up to a larger toy If you’re an experience butt plug user, you know your body best, and it may give you a new and fantastic sensation to graduate to something that makes you feel more full. 
  • Shape. In addition to the size of the toy, you’ll want to evaluate all of the distinct shapes butt plugs can come in. You may have noticed that while many are “teardrop shaped,” others are long and tapered. The classic teardrop offers a no-frills experience, but sometimes features a broader base for a “fuller” sensation. Meanwhile, the thin and tapered shape offers a thrill as each knob provides a new jolt of pleasure. 
  • Weight. The more weight included in a butt plug, the more the wearer experiences “fullness.” As the weights shift with movement, they create constant sensations for the sensitive nerve-endings in and around the anus. If you’re looking for a more responsive, reactive anal experience, look specifically at the weight of the toy. 
  • Material. You’ll find butt plugs in a variety of materials, with the most popular being silicone, glass, or metal. These are safe materials for the easiest use, since they’re smooth to insert and non-porous, meaning they’ll be easy to clean. 
  • How you intend to use it. If you’re planning to use your butt plug for masturbation, you’ll have different pleasure goals than someone looking to experience anal play with a partner. For example, if you’re looking for something more couples-friendly, plenty of vibrating butt plugs come with a remote control for fun and discreet partnered play. 
  • Price point. Butt plugs vary in price from $12 to almost $200 dollars. This is a wide range that is largely determined by whether the toy vibrates, how many settings it comes with, and whether there’s high tech involved, such as a remote control. If you’re on a tight budget, plenty of wallet-friendly toys offer the benefits and stimulation you’re looking for. If you’d prefer to invest, you’ll have more options as to the features you want your anal toy to include. 

Should you try a butt plug? 

Anyone can try a butt plug. Regardless of your gender, using a butt plug can make sex more pleasurable and orgasms more intense. While anal toys put pressure on a vaginal wall and increase pulsations for women during sex, men or people with prostates can enjoy penetration from butt plugs since their prostates feel especially good when stimulated.

There are so many nerve-endings in and around the anus, which is why anyone, of any gender may enjoy a butt plug. Experiment with your fingers first or with a partner to see how you feel about the sensation of your ass being played with. If you enjoy it, start small and then work your way up. 

6 products to pair with your butt plug 

Elevate all the ways you enjoy your new butt plug by pairing it with one or more of the following products. 

  1. Pjur Original Bodyglide lube. Add a good silicone lube, like the Pjur Original Bodyglide. When engaging in anal play, silicone lube is your best bet as it is thicker and longer lasting. That said, do not use silicone lube with silicone toys as it will degrade the material of your butt plug. If your butt plug is made of silicone, try a water-based lube instead, like the Jo H20 Gel
  1. Lelo Antibacterial Toy Cleaning Spray. While soap and water will do the trick with most sex toys, you can take extra care to disinfect with a specialized antibacterial toy cleaner that’s specifically made for pleasure products. We recommend Lelo Antibacterial Toy Cleaning Spray
  1. Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen. If you have a clitoris and are using a butt plug, add some dual stimulation with the Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Gen. Use this air suction vibrator for clitoral stimulation while you enjoy the fullness of a butt plug in your ass. 
  1. Satisfyer Men Stroker. If you have a penis, try the Satisfyer Men Stroker at the same time the butt plug is inside you. This type of dual stimulation can lead to powerful orgasms or more intense pleasure. 
  1. Fetish Fantasy Super Sucker Trio. If you enjoy your nipples sucking or nipple play, add the Fetish Fantasy Super Sucker Trio to your repertoire. You can leave these nipple toys attached with your butt plug in your anus. Both products allow for hands-free play, so you can use your hands to stroke your penis or stimulate your clit. 
  1. Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints. If you’re handing your partner control of a new vibrating butt plug, you can tap into the D/s elements of the experience by purchasing a blindfold or a pair of handcuffs, like the Sportsheets Silky Sash Restraints

The bottom line

Experimenting with different types of butt plugs to find what works for you can lead to new discoveries about your body and what brings you pleasure. If you’re not seeing a butt plug on this list that strikes your fancy, browse our catalog of butt toys to find even more options.

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