How To Give The Best Blowjob Ever!

Whether you’ve never given a blowjob, you want to get better at it, or you’re already a pro, there are always more things to learn about giving head. 

In this stream, sex and relationship coach and educator Colby Marie Z explains how to give the best blowjob ever

To make a blowjob a memorable experience, Colby Marie Z suggests engaging the balls for a bit of novelty, but really paying attention to the head of the penis, called the glands. This part will be exposed when the penis is erect, regardless of if the penis is circumcised or uncircumcised. 

Give extra love to the frenulum, the area where the shaft meets the head of the penis. Much like the clitoris, this area is highly concentrated with nerve-endings that act as pleasure receptors. You can also try touching the perineum — the space between the balls and anus — also known as the taint or gooch. Colby Marie Z explains that this part can be highly sensitive as it externally stimulates the prostate, which some people call the male G spot. 

As with any sex act, always make sure to communicate with your partner to find out what’s working or not working for them. Pay attention to what you like about giving head, too. After all, a bj doesn’t just have to be about pleasuring the receiver. The best blowjobs are often ones where both partners are enjoying themselves equally.

Video transcript

Alright, so penis, we have the penis! I'm going to talk about essentially three parts of the penis. So the main, the goods, the meat of the penis, is called often the shaft. So that's basically this part here. It goes from the balls essentially to up, the whole thing can actually be considered the shaft. We're also gonna talk about the balls just a little bit. Again, I'm not gonna go too, lookin' right at ya'll folks, I'm not gonna go too into technique or strategy here, but the balls can really add a little novelty and fun to the blow job experience. The part that I'm going to talk most about today, or I think the most important part to know about blow jobs is the head of the penis, also known as the glands, which almost I like to describe kind of as like, I'll do a little 360 spin, almost looks like a little mushroom top at the top of the penis. Now, if a penis is uncircumcised, when it's not erect, you won't see the head, 'cause the foreskin will be above it, or covering it I should say, but for both circumcised and uncircumcised penises, the foreskin would retract during erection, so they would essentially look the same way when erect whether or not they're circumcised. Okay, and the most very important part that sometimes people don't really know too much about is called the frenulum, and I'm gonna zoom, I'm never good at this camera, the frenulum, which is this little area right here where the shaft meets the head of the penis. Now, I won't go that much into it, but essentially, the tissue that makes up the head or the glands of the penis, is the same tissue that makes up the clitoris just more widely dispersed. So, there are a lot of nerve endings on the penis. It is the most concentrated area of nerve endings, are in the head of the penis. So there's going to be more sensitivity and sensation around the head than there is for the rest of the shaft and this is important to know during blow jobs 'cause this is where you should be focusing your attention for the most bang for your buck, and in particular, the frenulum is actually the highest, teeny little concentration of nerve endings. Right here. We could, this model doesn't have some other helpful parts that could be used during blow jobs, which is, so behind the balls, between the balls and the anus, which would be about down here or so, is the area that we call the perineum. Other names for it include the taint or the gooch. This can also be a sensitive spot. You can externally stimulate the perineum, and by externally stimulate, I mean basically like rub that skin to kind of externally stimulate the prostate. The prostate sometimes, some people know the prostate as like, the male g-spot. Stimulating the prostate either externally or internally, talk about that in a second, can increase pleasure and lead to more explosive, intense orgasms.

How To Give The Best Blowjob Ever!

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Mar 27, 2019
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If you want to give the best blowjob ever, here are a few things you might want to know.