Sex Toys: What To Buy This Holiday Season

Vibrators, Penis Toys, Dildos and so much more—we’ve put together a holiday shopping list fit to curl Santa’s toes

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‘Tis the season to get out your sturdiest shopping shoes, plot shopping strategies, and get excited to both give and receive—if that’s your thing anyway 😏. Whether you want a gift for your new lover, to bring one home to use with your partner, or to treat yourself, we are sure you will find a toy that tickles your fancy. Of course, toys can get pricey, so don’t forget to keep your eyes peeledfor online sales at

Sex toys to keep you hot this holiday season:

1. Womanizer Premium

Womanizer’s sleek update maintains its shiver-inducing “suction” sensation (created by air pressure and gentle vibration) and now includes two new features to level up your sexy time: First off, the Womanizer Premium uses “Smart Silence” to detect when to turn on and off. As the toy touches skin, it turns on, and as the toy releases skin, it turns off, minimizing sound and battery usage. It also has an “Autopilot” feature, which employs 12 rhythm patterns and varying speeds to make every playtime a unique experience.

Pro-tip: Got a penis in the room? Try placing the womanizer on the frenulum—the underside of the penile head.

Two-year warranty, 100% water proof, $199 Check out Womanizer Starlet and Satisfyer for similar, budget-friendly options.

2. Calexotics: California Dreaming

Calexotic’s newest line of dual stimulators is made of bright, high-quality silicone. Each of the six vibes in the collection offer different sensation combinations, including clitoral suction, shaft rotation and extra-ribbed texture.

Pro-tip: Dual stimulators can be exciting, but they also require consideration (and risk) to figure out whether the toy will hit all the right sensitive bits once inserted.These vibes may not be the best choice for a surprise gift—instead, take yourself or your boo on a sexy shopping trip! One-year warranty, waterproof, $88-$98

The Onyx 2 is perfect for the techie lover.  Teledildonics and app-integration enables the user to sync the stroking experience to long-distance partners, porn, and more...

3. Kiiroo Onyx 2 Interactive Masturbation Sleeve

This innovative penis toy, created in collaboration by Kiiroo and Fleshlight, combines a Fleshlight Super Skin masturbation sleeve with ten contracting rings that effectively “do the work for you,” as the company puts it. At 140 thrusts per minute, this is one of the fastest and most powerful masturbators on the market. The Onyx2 requires an involved setup, and is particularly well-suited to the adventurous toy-user and/or gadget fiend.

Pro-tip: The Onyx 2 is perfect for the tech(ie) lover. Teledildonics and app-integration enables the user to sync the stroking experience to long-distance partners, porn, interactive video games, other Onyx2s and select partner products anywhere in the world. One-year warranty, $213

Check out Tenga Flip Zero and Tenga Flex Masturbation Sleeve for high-quality, budget-friendly penis masturbator options. Read more about penis toys here.

4. Avant Pride: Dildos and Butt Plugs

This LGBTQ flag inspired line gets a gold star from the Bright, non-realistic and made of high-quality silicone, Avant products are easy to clean (just boil!) and easy on the wallet! $36-$42

When things feel a little routine in the bedroom, a little play can go along way.

5. Sutil Botanical Lubricant

Don’t forget the lube! An fave, Sutil can be used with any of the toys listed above—or all on its own! Sutil is long-lasting, water-based and strives to be as eco-friendly as possible, including biodegradable packaging.$24-$42, Read more about lube here.

6. Love’s Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities  

For your literary lover, Kevin Patterson’s critically-acclaimed new book explores the racial disparity in poly and sex-positive community. (2018) by Kevin A. Patterson, M.Ed. $19.95

7. Math Magazine

Get your honey hot with MATH! (Er, the porn mag—not the school subject 😉.)  Purchase the latest issue or pre-order Math’s NEW (very) adult coloring book! $20

8. Box of Dares: 100 Sexy Prompts for Couples

When things feel a little routine in the bedroom, a little play can go along way. #1 New Release on Amazon, from Chronicle Books - $10.95


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