Eating Pussy Tips
What are the best tips and tricks for giving pussy pleasure? Here are some ideas to get you started.
Oral sex on someone with a vulva is one of the most popular sexual activities out there—and for good reason! Cunnilingus (the technical name for eating pussy) stimulates the clitoris directly. Since 70-80% of people with a vulva need, or prefer, clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, it can be a tried-and-true technique for bringing your partner to climax.
Try these top five pussy-eating tips for pleasing your partner:
Tip 1: Tease The Whole Pussy
While it’s fabulous to focus in on the clit—especially when your partner is at the height of their arousal—it can be super yummy to warm things up by stimulating the whole area. You can start up by the belly button or hips and make a trail of kisses over the pubic mound, or start down by the knees and work your way up to the inner thighs. Playfully lick and kiss up, down, and around the labia, the perineum (also called the taint, it’s the sensitive stretch of skin between the anus and the vagina), and the vaginal opening.
You can start up by the belly button or hips and make a trail of kisses over the pubic mound.
As things heat up, you can start zeroing in on the clitoris.
Tip 2: Get The Clit Pressure Right
Everyone likes a different pressure on their clit and around their vulva. It’s best to start with a tantalizingly light pressure to tease them, and then increasingly apply more pressure as they get more turned on. Clits are so sensitive that less pressure may actually feel more intense, while too much pressure can become uncomfortable. If you’re the giver, ask the receiver what feels best, and watch their body language to find out what they prefer.
Tip 3: Find The Right Rhythm to Orgasm
Experiment with different rhythms to find out what your partner likes. Try different speeds, and then experiment with mixing them up. Do they like a consistent rhythm? Do they like pauses? For many people teasing feels great at the beginning, but as they get closer to orgasm they need a steadier rhythm to get there. If your partner is nearing climax, try to keep the rhythm consistent.
Tip 4: Add A Finger Or Two During Oral Sex
Tongue getting tired? Take a break and let your hand take over. If you’re new to eating pussy, or you’ve been licking for a while, your tongue and jaw can get tired. Switching to your hand allows the receiver to still enjoy the sexy sensations and build arousal. You can also use both your mouth and hand together! Many people find it pleasurable to have a finger in the vagina or the anus during oral sex.
Tongue getting tired? Take a break and let your hand take over.
Tip 5: Become A Pussy Connoisseur
Some people feel anxious about a partner going down on them because they are afraid their pussy will smell or taste bad. As the giver you can reassure your partner by complimenting their smell, taste, and appearance down there. Healthy pussies do have a distinct smell and taste, and a good pussy eater will appreciate this as part of the experience.
Now it’s time to practice: Next time you’re getting down with your partner use these top tips to take your pussy eating to the next level. Your partner will thank you!
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Video transcript
Okay, so we're gonna talk a little bit just to give you a rundown of the structure of the clitoris. So Andrea was showing you, can I have the pussy?
You can have the pussy)
I can have the pussy. So this is your vulva, right? So we've got the clitoral hood up here, you've got the clitoris right here, right? The head of the clitoris is right here, then you've got your urethra, this pink thing is like the G-spot that's sort of usually tucked up. The opening is your vagina, and then you've got the labia minora and the labia majora. So this is kinda what we're lookin' at. And then the clitoris is the structure that's behind all of this. So the little head of the clitoris poppin' out here, would be the little nub that you see here. So most people kind of focus, when they're doing stimulation on a clit, or stimulation on a vulva, they tend to be just jamming everything here. So you've seen people doing this, like a DJ
Wicka wicka wicka
Or they get in and they're just like and you're like what are you doing? Who does that work for? So all pussies like all different kinds of things, right? So the one way to kind of find out what your partner likes is to kinda talk about it and lots of people are very shy, and maybe inarticulate about what they like, so asking even binary questions when you're doing something to someone. So if I'm doing this to someone, and I'm just kind of like yeah, did you cum, did you cum!?
You like it!?
You like it!? Or fingerbanging, right? Fingerbanging. So if you're doing any of those things and you're learning as you go, right? So even us givers, there's different bodies, there's different people, so we don't know. So asking questions like do you like it softer or harder? Do you like directly on your clit or on the side? What can I do for you?
Right.
Giving compliments, you taste great. Being like, you smell amazing, can help people kind of also relax into giving you more information about what feels good for them.
