February 5, 2020

32 Unique Happy Valentine's Day 2020 Messages to Send Your Partner

Want to send your S.O. a Valentine’s Day message that’s not so cliche? It can be hard! Which is why we’ve compiled 32 unique messages you can send your love without seeming TOO cheesy.
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Anna Gragert
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February 5, 2020
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Whether you love it, hate it,or refuse to acknowledge it even exists, Valentine’s Day will make an appearance on February 14, 2020. But here’s the thing — Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be conventional. You can start your own traditions, make it last more than one day, celebrate all different types of love, and, yes, you can even find unique Happy Valentine’s Day 2020 messages to send to your partner(s), friends, family, classmates, and anyone else you can think of.

It doesn’t matter if you love puns or quotes, want to make it sexy, or if you prefer a note that is more simple and straightforward. There’s a unique Valentine’s Day 2020 message out there for everyone. So instead of saying the usual “Happy Valentine’s Day” or “I love you” — though both are classics you can’t go wrong with — try one of the following unique “Happy Valentine's Day” messages instead. 

Punny Valentine’s Day messages 

1. Hedgehugs and kisses

This one must come with a drawing of a hedgehog — not only to make sense, but because it’s cute.

2. Owl always love you. 

Why say “I” when you can say “owl”? Can I get a hoot hoot? 

3. I only wanna brie with you. 

Cheese lovers, this message is for you. Plus, you can easily pair it with a cheese plate for the most delicious Valentine’s Day gift. 

4. You knock my socks off. 

This one must be given with a pair of socks (preferably the soft, fuzzy kind). 

5. Let’s avo-cuddle. 

If you’re in a pinch, you can run out and buy Target’s “avo-cuddle” chocolates, or you can make your loved one(s) an avocado toast breakfast. 

6. I whale-y like you. 

This one would go perfect with tickets for whale watching, which isn’t only romantic, but is also a lot of fun.

7. You’re so a-peel-ing to me. 

If you’re giving this message to someone who loves to joke around, you can also present them with a bouquet of bananas. Roses are so yesterday! 

8. Baby, Yoda Best.

Baby, Yoda Best

It’s topical for Valentine’s Day 2020 and it’s cute. May the force be with you. 

9. You’re the bear-y best. 

No one would turn down this message if it came with a stuffed bear. Bonus: You could also say “berry” and give them a sweet treat covered in berries. 

10. You don’t succ. 

If you know someone who loves plants, this is the ideal Valentine’s Day note for them. If you’re looking for a simple gift, get them a succulent to go along with it. 

11. I only have [insert googly eyes] for you. 

Feeling crafty? Replace the basic “I only have eyes for you” with googly eyes in place of the word “eyes.”

12. Because you’ve been running through my mind since the first day I met you. 

This message must be given with a pair of sneakers or a drawing of sneakers — there’s no other way around it. 

Sexy Valentine’s Day messages

13. I want you in every way. 

On the inside of the card, you can write, “Let me show you,” to really get the message across. 

14. Take off your pants. 

If there’s one day you can be blunt about it, it’s Valentine’s Day. 

15. You can ride my dragon any time. 

We imagine that this would go over especially well with someone who loves Game of Thrones

16. Don’t worry — I’m saving the V for later. 

V isn’t just for Valentine’s Day, folks. Bonus: As a joke, you can serve vanilla pudding for dessert, but then surprise them with the actual V you were referring to. 

17. My Valentine’s Day to-do list: You. 

This is the best to-do list we’ve ever seen and such a unique way to say, “I want you.” 

18. I couldn’t decide what to get you for Valentine’s Day, so I’ll just get you naked. 

Another message that gets straight to the point. You could also add, “whenever you’re ready,” so the person doesn’t feel pressured. 

19. Thanks for all the orgasms. 

Saying “thanks for all the love and laughter” is a bit overdone, so why not give this one a go? 

20. Wine me, dine me, 69 me. 

This would go great with a bottle of wine (or two). 

21. You’re the fucking best (and the best at fucking).

Start off sweet, but then end on a sexy note. 

22. Let’s just skip dinner.  

Yes, this could refer to sex, but it could also refer to dessert if your partner isn’t in the mood. 

23. I love you — even when I’m not horny. 

A little sexy, a little silly. That’s how you know someone really, truly loves you. 

24. I love you to the bedroom and back. 

Forget “I love you to the moon and back.” This one sends a much stronger message. 

Just Plain Sweet Valentine’s Day messages

25. Today, I am wearing the smile that you left me with. 

A more unique way to say “You make me really freakin’ happy.” 

26. Every day is the day of love for us. 

For those who say, “Every day should be Valentine’s Day,” we found the perfect message for you. 

27. A hundred hearts would be too few to carry all my love for you. 

If you want to get creative, you can make a hundred cutout hearts and write one thing you love about this person on each of the hearts. 

28. You suck less than most people. 

You really, really do. (Can also be gifted with a lollipop.) 

29. Hugs, kisses, and Valentine’s wishes. 

Love giving cards that rhyme? We’ve got you covered. 

30. Happy Heart Day! 

Don’t want to say a traditional “Happy Valentine’s Day,” but not sure what else to write? “Happy Heart Day” is just as sweet. 

31. So glad I swiped right. 

If you met your loved one on a dating app, this unique message caters perfectly to you. 

32. You make my heart melt. 

You can’t go wrong with this one — especially if you present it with a candle or melted chocolate and strawberries. 

Do you have a unique way to say Happy Valentine’s Day? Make sure to share it with us on @Odotschool!

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When Anna isn't trying to create a groundbreaking third-person bio for herself, she's working as a freelance writer, editor, and content strategist. She was previously the deputy editor at So Yummy and lifestyle editor at HelloGiggles, and has worked with publications such as Teen Vogue, Nylon, InStyle, Glamour, Bust, Catapult, and more.

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