Sensuality & Arousal
July 10, 2020

30 Of The Best Sex Songs For Getting Down And Dirty

Find a song that matches you and your partner’s rhythm best.
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Caroline Colvin
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Just like candles and lingerie, the best sex songs can do wonders for your bedroom mood. From baby-making R&B to rowdy rock ‘n’ roll, you’ve got plenty of options for music to get freaky to. If you want to construct your own playlist, you can start with gentle tracks for foreplay and bring your playlist to a climax with more upbeat tunes. It can be great to have a song that matches the rhythm of you and your partner. But there are so many songs out there, it can be hard to choose which ones to add to your sexy list. 

We’ve got you covered. Here are a few of our favorite songs to get down to.

Best R&B songs to make love to

1. “Pussy Fairy” by Jhené Aiko

2. “Morning” by Kehlani & Teyana Taylor 

3. “Come Thru” by Summer Walker & Usher

4. “Shea Butter Baby” by Ari Lennox & J.Cole

5. “Call Out My Name” by The Weeknd

Best rock songs that’ll bring out your freaky side

1. “Pressure” by The 1975

2. “The End” by Kings of Leon

3. “Apocalypse” by Cigarettes After Sex

4. “1950” by King Princess

5. “505” by Arctic Monkeys

Best pop songs to keep you and your partner on beat

1. “Fetish” by Selena Gomez & Gucci Mane

2. “imagine” by Ariana Grande

3. “Sex With Me” by Rihanna

4. “Boys” by Charli XCX

5. “Guys My Age” by Hey Violet

Best country sex songs that’ll get you going

1. “Drive Away” by The Brummies & Kacey Musgrave

2. “This Love” by Julia Stone

3. “Make Out With Me” by Maren Morri

4. “NFWMB” by Hozie

5. “The Fire” by Bishop Briggs

Best rap songs to help turn up the heat

1. “holy Terrain” by fka twigs & Future

2. “Cravin’” by Dani Leigh & G-Eazy

3. “Sex Talk” by Megan Thee Stallion

4. “Icy” by Melii (Spanish remix)

5. “Pussy Talk” by City Girls

Best jazzy songs that’ll make your skin flush

1. “Tadow” by Masego & FKJ

2. “Dive” by Victoria Monet

3. “Waiting” by Amber Mark

4. “Rufufus” by Remi Wolf

5. “Sober” by Mahalia (Jarreau Vandal remix)

Or, try these playlists

While there are sex songs a-plenty, curating them into the perfect playlist in the perfect order can be hard. Luckily, there are lots of options out there for ready-made sexy playlists. Spotify, for example created best sex playlists that include songs with dreamy instruments, titillating vocals, and lyrics that bring a blush to your cheeks. These tracks are typically soft enough that they don’t distract you, but up-tempo enough that you or your partner don’t fall asleep mid-lick or mid-stroke. All you have to do is hit play on the following Spotify playlists, and let your bodies sing along with the beat. Try a few of these out:

  1. Sexy R&B playlist 
  2. Date Night playlist 
  3. Sexy Pop playlist 
  4. Silk Sheets 
  5. Sexy As Folk 

No matter what genres make up your playlist, what’s important is creating the kind of seductive vibe that’ll have you and your partner putting sex on “repeat,” too. Pick a rhythm that works best for you, and just have fun listening to your favorite tunes.

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Caroline Colvin is a journalist and multi-media creator who loves discussing identity, sex, and pop culture. Caroline is the founder and editor in chief of Cherry Magazine, an LGBTQ+ fashion, beauty, and wellness journal. Support their work at and

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