So today we're going to talk about prostate play, and I guess I should introduce myself since I've been nattering on at everybody. I know that a lot of people come here every week, and I feel like I have the same couple of people every week so, and I know everybody who's in my group, so my name is Mona Darling. I am a professional dominatrix, and I am a kink mentor, sexual adventure coach for women and couples. Even when I work with couples, I tend to work with the women because trust me, you want the women in your lives to be confident and exploring their sexual side. So, that's why I focus on working with the women, even when I find that I work with couples, the men get very excited and tend to talk over the women, or we end up talking about the men's sexual interest and the woman is shy, so that is why I keep talking about women, because I know that once the women are happy to talk and feel more confident talking about their sexual desires, they will talk to you boys. So, that is my shtick. You can learn more about me on darlingpropaganda.com. Hey Controlfreak. So, yes. I'm gonna try to read, I literally like ran in the door 15 minutes before I went live, so hm! So. Prostate play is one of my favorite activities. It is a perfect example where you can talk about kink and BDSM not being involving pain. Prostate play can involve pain, but most of the time it should not. Sometimes it can involve some humiliation, but as with all things, let's talk about the emotional side first. Prostate play is so much more than just sticking something in a prostate owner's ass, and poking it. Prostate play can be a very emotional thing. I play with people who have prostates and I will keep referring to people who have prostates as people who have prostates because there are many, many trans women who also have prostates. People who are gender binary, non-binary. So I will refer to the prostate owner and the person who's playing with the prostate just so I don't, you know. Prostate owner can feel a sense of submission, because they're in a very open and vulnerable place. They can feel submission because they are the one being penetrated instead of doing the penetrating. In a lot of our sexual ideals, the people who are being penetrated are the submissives and the people who are doing the penetrating are the dominant, but that doesn't always, that's not always how it comes together, but still some of that mental mindset can be there. So, the people who are being penetrated, the prostate owners, are going to feel a little submissive. Sometimes they can feel feminine. Sometimes they can feel very masculine, because you know, you're talking to two men who have sex with each other. Two prostate owners that have sex with each other, masculine people. They're having sex and they can feel very masculine because the prostate is a very masculine thing. Very masculine organ. Organ, not Oregon. Oregon is not binary. So, people can feel all kinds of things when they have their anus penetrated and their prostate stimulated. One thing I'm going to mention is sometimes when people have their prostate stimulated it gives them an erection. Sometimes when they have their prostate stimulated it actually makes their erection softer. It can go either way, and it really depends on the person as well as the situation, and it can vary time to time. Sometimes people just always get raging erections when their prostate is stimulated. Sometimes people just always get a little softer when their prostate is stimulated. So that, it's funny that sometime it doesn't coordinate with what you would think. You would always, you know you would think if it feels good sexually that it would give you an erection and it doesn't always do that, just so you know. So when you're talking to somebody about playing with their prostate, you want to talk about what kind of mindset they're interested in. Are they interested in being submissive? Are they interested in being feminine? Are they interested in being slutty? Is it part of a roleplay, is it humiliating? Like what do they feel? What do they wanna feel emotionally when they're penetrated? I tend to do a lot of humiliation and slut training. So when I am doing prostate, any kind of anal penetration on somebody that I'm playing with, I am putting them in a very feminine position. I am humiliating them, 'cause they are not man enough to do that to me, to penetrate me, but I am the boss and I am going to penetrate them. Sometimes it's more like a girlfriend-girlfriend thing where they are my girlfriend and I am going to pleasure them, like I would a girlfriend and I'm touching their G-spot and not their prostate. I'm fucking their pussy and not their anus. So depending on where you're going emotionally, it changes the way you approach it, it changes the language that you use. If I'm using it as humiliation or punishment, then you know it's much more the, you know you're submissive, you're not worthy. I'm gonna fuck you in the ass with a strap on to like show you that I'm boss, and it goes along a little bit with the same mental aspect of like rape fantasies where it's a power thing. It's not actually about the pleasure. Sometimes it's about the power thing and being used where you're gonna, you could do prostate play on somebody and tell them that it's just about pleasuring yourself using them as receptacle. That they are just a cum bucket and you are gonna use them like you would use any other piece of property, or any other furniture basically. So you can start playing with those ideas. Those mental games. The mental games that I love so much, before you even enter into the physical aspect of prostate play. So, does anybody have any questions about the mental side of prostate play? Does anybody have any questions about roleplay or different games that they wanna play from the physical, or the emotional side before we move on to the physical side? So, I'll give you a minute. Thank you Chu for being my lovely moderator. She is our moderator tonight. All of the chats on O.school are moderated. We like to keep it safe for anybody to talk, ask any questions, say anything, but we are not okay with anybody saying anything hurtful. We're not okay with anybody judging other people. It's okay for you not to think that, you know to think that prostate play is not for you, but it's not okay to yuck someone else's yum and say ooh why would anybody do that? So, that is one of the reasons we keep it moderated. We also like to make it so that the trolls can come in and they can see and they can read and they can learn, but they can't interrupt us. So, everybody's very quiet today. So feel free to ask any questions you like, and in the meantime I will move on to the physical side. Yay! So. I find a lot of people don't quite understand where the prostate is, so I printed out a diagram. So I thought about getting a whiteboard and drawing it, but that would be a little too close to charades. People would be shouting out, is it a pie? I don't know! So I thought it would just be easier to print something out instead of expose you to my horrible, horrible drawing. Hey CCG. So, this is the prostate. Well, this is actually the prostate. Notice that the bladder is here, the prostate, the urethra comes down here and through the penis. So, this right here is what gets squished when somebody has an enlarged prostate. So notice also, very important, that you can access the prostate from here without actually entering the anus. So if somebody wants prostate stimulation, but they're not sure about anal play, you can still just touch right there, put some pressure right there, and you will still put pressure on the prostate. I'm actually gonna circle the prostate. 'Cause I realize I only have a black and white printer. This is the prostate. You can access, you can put pressure here, the base of the penis is right there, and just like the clitoris is much bigger than you can see on the outside. The penis actually if you can see, the material that makes up the erectile material goes all the way inside there. I mean and that's different for everybody, and when you're playing with your partner you can experience and experiment and see where you can feel erection when you're playing and pushing on the prostate, or looking for the prostate. But a lot of people, it goes clear down here and when you're pushing on here you're accessing actually the prostate and you're also pushing on the base of the penis. A lot of people can find that really intense, and that's not even including any kind of anal play. Again also just be very, you know, sometimes people like a lot of pressure, and some people like very little pressure. This is also if you are somebody who plays with vibrators, this is a great place right there in the taint to put a vibrator, because it vibrates all over this and it can be very very erotic. Mechy asked, "So with prostate play and a man being pegged "can't they just do it while feeling masculine? "I mean do all men who like to be penetrated by a woman, "their girlfriend, do it "because they want to go to their feminine side?" No, that's what I was talking about. If there's two men who are attracted to men, people with prostates who are attracted to other people with prostates, they don't see it as a masculine, as a feminine thing at all, it's very masculine. The prostate is a very masculine organ to them. It can you know, it can just be strictly sensual. For them it can just be about being closer to the other person, and even you know, if you have anybody who is pegging or playing with your prostate, it doesn't have to be man-man, woman-man, like anybody who's playing with a prostate it can just be sensual. It can just be a way to feel closer. It can be a way to feel good. Some people report having much stronger orgasms when their prostate is stimulated. And that can go, and in that situation there isn't really any roleplay, there isn't any overt emotional needs other than the need to feel close, like any other kind of sexual contact is gonna make you closer with your partner. So. So, then you're gonna notice that if you do enter the anus, which is right there. If you do enter the anus, you're touching the prostate from a different side, and you can see usually it's about that far up, but when you put your finger up there, I tend to wear gloves even when I'm playing with people that I'm fluid bonded with or that in my personal life, I tend to wear gloves just because it's easy clean up. If I want to take my hand out of somebody's ass and then touch myself, I want to be able to strip off my glove and not have to go wash my hand. It's just much easier, and it depends where your sink is and all that. But once you put your finger in there, you can feel a little, it's generally referred to as like half of a walnut. So it's like half of a walnut. It's the flat side. And you can feel it and the more turned on your partner gets, the firmer it's gonna feel. The more swollen it gets. And then if you really want to, you can actually touch it with your fingers from one angle, and touch it with your thumb from another angle. And really get in there and stimulate it. So when we're gonna talk about stimulation, different people like different sensations. Some people like a more intense sensation, some people like to have it tap tap tap. Some people just wanna rub rub rub. It totally depends on the person, and when you start playing with your partner, start playing. Some people it's very very sensitive and just the slightest touch is enough. Sometimes it's too much. So everybody is different, and much like the G-spot, it can change as you get turned on, as you get a little more warmed up you might want more stimulation. You might want a different kind of stimulation. So, Castaway says and guys have to play the cards they are dealt. One of God's sick cosmic jokes for men, much fewer than women I know, not complaining, is that he puts their G-spots back there. So guys, to coin a phrase, I thought of just 30 seconds ago, need to make hay where the sun don't shine. Ah yeah. Nice, Castaway. Hi Odina. So. What are the ways in which you can touch a prostate? I've already mentioned the vibrator. Vibrators, that's why vibrators in the anus can feel really amazing, because it is up against the prostate, vibrating, and stimulating the prostate. It can feel great from the inside, it can feel great from the outside. One of the things that, ah I don't have it here. For some reason. There are little, oh I do have, maybe. Do do, hold on. Three types of prostate toys! So, typical butt plug. Butt plugs, you want to look for something with this little base. First you want, from the bottom, the big base which holds it outside. You don't want to put anything in your anus, or your partner's anus that could slip inside. So I look for a big base. Make sure this is bigger than they are. Which this may seem big, but sometimes people get really loosened up and excited and it's not. Luckily it's still easy to grab, but really you want to make sure that whatever you stick inside there has a nice, fat base. You've got this nice stem. The stem is so that the muscles can clench around it and hold the plug inside. So, this is just gonna put a nice, firm pressure on the prostate. Give them a feeling of fullness. Yes, and the Christmas tree shape is my favorite shape. Nice tapered, easy entry. This is my favorite shape. So, I have experimented with many, many, many, many, many butt plugs, and this is my favorite shape. I do also like the world's most comfortable butt plug. I have... Ooh! An electrified version of. Tink tink tink. This is an electric butt plug. It's not quite the Christmas tree shape, but there's still this nice, rounded point. So, this is something that is awesome. I get 'em from Mr. S in San Francisco. And they've got this tiny, tiny little stem so they stay in really nice, ding! And that one is electric, so you can actually stimulate the prostate in a whole new exciting way. So. In addition to butt plugs, toss that back in there. This is an Aneros. It is designed to hit the prostate from two sides. Worn internally. This obviously up towards the bellybutton. Slides right in there. This one actually has a little tiny vibrator built in. Not all of them have vibrators. This one is also fairly thick. Some of them are much thinner. They have a wide variety that fit a wide variety of needs and bodies, and just sensations, so it's like a little shark. Bom bom bom. And then, for something completely different. This is the We Vibe. This I think is one of the very first versions, and this is a couple's vibrator. It is designed for the woman to wear inside her vagina, so that this has a little vibrator that touches the clit. This has a little vibrator that touches the G-spot, and it allows for penetration. Nice little compact penetration is possible, woo! Is Anero section two? Yes it is section two. The first being the butt plug, the second being the Aneros, and the third being the We Vibe. While this is designed for couples, for women to wear, I have actually found that if this is inside, inside the anus and this is up against the prostate it is an awesome compact little toy that you can stimulate, vibrate from both sides. Woo! So, the newer We Vibes are not as bendy. Which is why I really like this one, and why I think everybody needs two, because you can have one that's a little more versatile and then the other ones, they're just slightly different for a different kind of fit. So those are the three main toys that you can use for playing with prostates. Ding ding, haha. I'm gonna put that away before I embarrass myself. It also makes a nice fidget, apparently. So. 6:30 where I am. Where is everybody? Where is everybody? Where are you people? I know there are some East Coasters, I know there are some other people in other countries. Where is everybody from? What time is it where you are? Here it is 6:30 p.m. And Chu, we've got a Virginia up here in my group. Chu, yay, our lovely moderator. She says happy you are all here, I am your mod. If you are loving what we are sharing, tap the tip gift jar. We split all payments 50/50 with our pleasure pros. Me being a pleasure pro. 9:30 in Virginia. Yep, half hour mark. Florida, we've got somebody in Florida. Mechy is, I'll let Mechy shout out where he is. Somebody in my group is in California at the pool. Someone's on Sauvie Island. Sauvie Island is... Sauvie Island is like North Portland and it's this amazing little island where a lot of farms are, fun fun. Another Oregon up here, California down there, yay. It is 3:30 in the morning where Mechy is. Mechy I am always amazed that you join in. You are quite the night owl, I love it. So, what is another, oh gosh. What is another prostate toy? Fingers. Fingers are fun, right? I like to play with fingers. I think that fingers are amazing. Generally start with one finger. Yeah I need... Doot! Oh no, where is... Oh all the toys got shoved away and I can't find what I want now. Give me a second. Okay. I need some like elevator music. Okay. Tongue. Tongue is another amazing prostate, prostate toy. Stimulation toy. Tongues are awesome. I, Luna does a full show on ass eating that is amazing. You can look and see, she's done it a couple times. You can see when it is. I think she's got a show every Friday, so you can like... I see that Peggy. I mean I don't see that, but I see yours. Peggy is up there talking about the drinking pink champagne from a proverbial bottle from her teens. Mechy, grandfather actually just left. I just dropped him off at the airport, which is why like I literally, like ran in here 15 minutes before I went on. So, we are gonna talk about the anus. Got my little TENGA EGG, so. Everybody should spend some time exploring their anus. There are a huge, huge number of nerve endings down here, so a little bit of lube and finger or a warm tongue around the outside of this is going to feel amazing to your partner. You do want to use lubrication. And as you can see from my little scrunched up guy, this is like wrinkled and there's little areas to hide things and little you know, so it can be nice to just spend some time with a wet finger, or tongue, exploring this, and spending some time just getting to know it. Try different touches, little taps, you know little wiggles. Try different things. You don't need to just head on in there. You can even play with the outside. You know around the butt cheeks, and have fun exploring your partner. If you're nervous about sticking something in their... yes, next week we're back to kink. In fact I am heading off to work for a week and doing a whole bunch of back to back sessions and I will have all kinds of kinky stories to tell, hopefully. Unless everybody decides to cancel on me last minute. Next week should be fine. We're going to be talking about impact toys, which was requested by a, somebody out there. And so we're going to be talking about impact toys. So, play everywhere here. This is just a very very, like butt crack, like everything, super sensitive. Underneath the balls, everything. Just explore, get it wet. You know, use the tips of your fingernails. Lightly stroke, use the tips of your fingers. Use a vibrator. When you start playing, it can be very tight, and the more nervous your partner is, the tighter it's gonna be, and it can be hard to get one finger in there. Just keep wiggling and wiggling and wiggling. Gentle, slow. See what it is that they seem to enjoy. You know, and if you're new and you've never done this before and you don't get anything inside, that's totally fine. This is not about the end goal. This is about just exploring your partner, so maybe you're gonna do this six, seven times and never actually get your finger inside there. Never get something more, which we'll talk about in a minute, inside there. You know, just enjoy exploring your partner. Enjoy giving them pleasure. Enjoy the sensations that they have. Enjoy teasing them. So, once they start relaxing though, you can get one finger in. Once you have one lubed finger, it can be nice to explore. You can work up to two fingers. Some people like more fingers, and it's not a matter of you know, if they can easily take, 'cause some people do, even if they've had nothing in their anus before, they will relax and they are able to let more in there. So, the thing with the anus is it is a muscle like any other muscle in your body. Sometimes it's tighter and it takes a lot to relax it, and sometimes it relaxes and sometimes it's easy to get bigger things in there. It doesn't mean if you go to stick your finger in your partner's anus and they're, you know it slides right in, it doesn't mean that they've been out stretching it out preparing. Sometimes people are just built differently, and the same, sometimes people just it takes a while to get a new thing in there. Everybody is different. There are no, there's no way that you can know until you get in there and start experimenting. And then sometimes they're gonna be a little more nervous and a little tighter, and sometimes they're gonna be a little looser and so it's just a matter of exploring your partner. You know, if you're really super nervous about exploring somebody else's anus, guess everybody has one. Explore your own. You know, get some lube, get a mirror, or get down there. Check out, feel what it feels like. When you get in there and feel your own anus, you can start feeling, you'll feel like the little rings. There's a little ring of muscles, and then another little ring of muscles, and then it just... Once you open those rings up and relax them, it's easier to get more in there. So once you've done playing with my little EGG, or their anus, usually when I'm playing with somebody, and I'm gonna do any kind of pegging or strap on play, I am old school, whoops. I'm also putting my EGG back. Wonder how many times I can demo with a TENGA EGG before it just needs to go over the rainbow bridge. So. Physician, penetrate thyself. Yes, Castaway says I agree with Miss Mona here in that it's the journey, not the destination. However, there is something to be said for being a bit goal, ah. Being goal-oriented. Somebody on here that I know has a goal, and sometimes that can be of fitting a certain toy inside you. Some people like, woo. My demo was stored inside a black bag, so there's black fuzz all over it. That's attractive. Note to self. Find another bag, not black. Sometimes you can have a certain toy that you really really want to accommodate. So, it is completely fine. Some people can be goal-oriented. There really is no right. There is only what's right for you. Right for your situation, right for your relationship. So, sometimes people will just experiment, and enjoy, and see where it takes them. Other times people are like no, I really really really wanna wear this particular plug, or feel this inside me. I have definitely set up, I have some very giant dildos. Twing! Merp merp. Giant dildos. So, and I have done things where I told a client they weren't submissive that they were not worthy of feeling me actually fucking them with a strap on, and they had to work hard to be able to take something about this size before I would actually do it, and it took them a while. They did a lot of home study time, but they finally were able to take it. And there can be something to be said about, you know, setting a goal and achieving it. So, and yes this is something like, this isn't... Sometimes people like big things in their ass, or other orifice. This thing looks huge because it is huge. I cannot wrap my fingers around it. And you know, some people like big. Some people like to be full. Some people like to be stretched. You know, with proper lube, proper patience, proper training? Even you could take this, Castaway. I have faith. So. When you have reached the point where you want to try strap on, or pegging. I call it strap on because I am old school. I have been doing strap on play, pegging play, since well before pegging was a word. So, yeah. Pegging has only been a word for like 10 years, and I've been doing strap on play for over 20, so there you go. I get to call it whatever I want. Mechy and Leslayan ask you mentioned earlier that for a prostate play for clients usually engage humiliation, so that does that include like ball torture, bondage? Does that affect the pleasure they get from their A-spot? It doesn't always include, but often yeah okay it does. Sometimes it does, let me show you my handy little diagram here. So, sometimes I will tie up their cock and ball. If you can see the dangliest part, sometimes a cock ring, or a parachute or something around this area. This area over the top of the testes. It's nice to, makes a nice little handle. And that can be a fun handle even if you know, there's not humiliation. It can just be an intense situation. If you have somebody and you wrap your hands around there, you don't want to twist, but you can actually squeeze and pull and put a little pressure on there. It can be a very intense sensation, and some people see it as a submissive sensation. Just an act of submission. It can be an act of dominance to grab somebody by that, by their balls like that. Or it can just be a sensation that is good that people like, and does that affect the pleasure they get through their A-spot? Well, it depends. Some people that will heighten any kind of pleasure that they're getting through their anus, and sometimes that will take it away. It really depends on the person, so. And just because I like to do humiliation does not mean that any time you, you know that's my preference. That's how I like to play. That's how I you know, that's how I conquer the patriarchy, by pegging them, by penetrating them, and spanking them and yeah. So, if you are gonna do something like this, generally I suggest doing enough foreplay, and enough playing so that they are relaxed enough. For something like this, two fingers, maybe even three. It depends, because you can try after two, but the thing is that once you start putting this in, they're going to get very tense and tighten up again. I find that once you get to three fingers, they are past the point of tense. Not always, but it's just it's a little further past that and then once you start penetrating 'em with something like this, even if they tighten up they don't tighten it up so much that you you know, can't get it in or that it hurts because what happens is when people get tense, they tighten up and they squeeze and it sort of hurts, and then they get more tense and then it hurts and then they get more tense, and it just starts this crazy, you know, uncomfortable, painful circle. It's a vicious, painful circle and what you really need to do is relax. Those muscles are just like any other muscle in your body. You can learn to control them. So if you start putting this inside their anus and they tense up and they say it hurts, stop moving, and start breathing with them. Make sure that they can identify those muscles and relax. And just be still. Have a moment. It is nothing like watching porn, where it just slides right in there with no warmup. This takes a lot of warmup, it takes some practice, it takes lube. So. Woo. Waving this in my own face. Let's see. Castaway says if I were going to prepare for that toy I would need to call out of work for about three weeks. Ah, no. We could do it. We would have to be on the same coast and all that, though. Castaway yeah speaking from a bit of experience, you need to over-prepare in that vein. Yes you do. Castaway's like ask me how I know. And Chu reminds me to ask if you're feeling helped, healed, or generous please consider tapping the gift jar. If you are logged in and you're live, you are able to leave a small tip in the little tip jar. Oh, and Mechy just asked, oh wait wait. Castaway, of course not as much experience as the woman who's been doing this before it was branded as pegging, yes. I've been doing this for a long time. Mechy, did we forget about lubes for this stream? We did not. This is a big subject, and I just see that we're coming up on the end here. Which is a perfect time to segue into lube. Anytime you are doing any anal play, you need lube. Spit is fine, and good, but that's not lube. You need good, thick lube. Lube is a whole entire show. So, and I'm not the best person to give it. But if you're going to be doing really intense anal play like fisting, which Mechy just asked about, you tend to get to the bigger, thicker lubes. There's stuff that looks like basically like Crisco that you can get in the gay boy sex shops. If nothing else, any solid, I prefer people use body safe organic lubes. Anything that goes into your anus immediately goes through that very thin skin and is absorbed into your body. So, think about that. Do you want to be sticking something that you don't know its origin and is full of all kinds of crazy chemicals into your body? So, everybody needs to make those choices for themselves, but I think it's a good idea to tend to stick to. Uberlube is good. Sliquid is good. I tend to buy lubes from reputable dealers. Go to SheVibe or Good Vibrations or your local toy store and buy directly from them. When you buy things like this off of Amazon, you're not guaranteed to get what it is that you think you're getting. Sometimes you will, sometimes you'll get something else that's a knockoff. You just can't be certain, and you may be saving a lot of money but you're not really saving a lot of money if you get some toy that is a knockoff manufactured in China out of totally not body safe materials. So, lube, super important. Everybody has a different, you know just like when you're playing with any kind of sensation, texture, vibration even like the variance of vibration. The different pitches that some people prefer like a low, rumbly vibrator while some people prefer like a higher pitched faster vibrator. That's why you know, there are a bazillion different kinds of vibrators out there. It's the same thing with lubes. If you are playing with lubes, different kinds of lubes have a different touch and have a different texture, different tacky feel. Working in the dungeon because I see a lot of different people with a lot of different allergies and you know you just, you're using all kinds of different toys, we tend to stick with water based. I'm gonna forget the name now. It's in a tube, and it's always there waiting for me, but like a nice water based is what I tend to use because it's easier for me to clean up. It's not gonna interact with anybody's allergies. It's not gonna interact with anybody's, you know it's easy. If you drop some of it, it's easy to clean up. Silicone is awesome, but using that in a professional dungeon can require too much cleanup and also you don't know what kind of toys you're gonna end up touching it to, and nothing can suck worse than having an awesome toy get with the wrong kind of lube. And all the sudden you've got like a melty toy. I have an amazing puppy plug. It's like this big butt plug with a tail that sticks out, and it accidentally got exposed to silicone lube and it sort of got tacky and I couldn't rescue it. Which was a big sad. So, can fisting be a way for prostate play and stimulation? Yes, anything that goes up against there. Fisting, I've only got a couple of minutes. I'm actually finally going to get my nails done after this, so woo! Fisting. When you're fisting a woman, a vagina owner, I always remember palm to the pussy. Palm to the pussy. From a standup routine that I saw at, it's a long story. So, but you can remember that, palm to the belly button. You're gonna start with a couple of fingers and then womp womp womp. Work it in there, and sometimes with fisting it's just a matter of having that fist up against the prostate, having that pressure. It can, you know, just feel amazing to be that full for some people and it can feel amazing for some people to feel that powerful, to feel that just you know intimate that they have their whole entire fist in somebody's body. And it can be an amazing, you know, knock knock knock on the prostate. Some people really really dig that, yes. Castaway, like the great line from Moonstruck where the plumber is talking about using, going with the most expensive option, copper. Copper pipes cost more money. They cost more money because they save money, yes. Yes. Get good lube. Sliquid is awesome. Uberlube is awesome. So, if you want to learn more about lube, definitely check the O.school schedule. There will be lots and lots and lots of people out there that are much better at talking about the ins and outs so to speak of lube. Castaway yes, going to get the new claws, although I keep breaking them, so they're going to be very short this time. 'Cause I like to keep it natural in my unnatural way. Does anybody have any other questions? I feel like I've been like just throwing information at you. So do feel free to reach out on Twitter, or my Facebook group or anywhere. So if you have any questions, please feel free to reach out. Mechy says can we have another stream for G-spot stimulation through the anus? I was gonna have another stream about G-spot stimulation in all the ways that you can stimulate the G-spot. I think that more people definitely need to learn about the G-spot and the way the clit actually looks, et cetera et cetera. Yeah, Sharon Peter does lube-based shows. I think, there's a couple of people. Duh duh duh, yes. And there is the link for all of my stuff that our lovely Chu posted for me. Darlingpropaganda.com, my Facebook group that is women only, sorry boys. But like I said, you'll thank me later. And then also my book, Kinky Sex Tips for Curious Girls, that is... That is a book that I wrote and designed. It's a color book, it's an activity book. It's an approachable guide to kink and BDSM, and I heard a rumor it's going to be available through Good Vibrations soon! Castaway says I think you mentioned that you might end up bookending the show with one on ruined orgasms. I'm sure any additional questions about this episode could be folded into that one. Indeed. Indeed. Next week though, we're going to be talking about impact play. I promised someone, and next week, hopefully they can make it. I am going to log into my Facebook group, see how that worked. If you're a lady and you would, or female identified, and would like to join the Facebook group, let me know. Love to have you. Are there any other questions? If not, I am gonna go get my nails done. Yay! So, dun dun dun. I'm gonna give you just a couple seconds. That was a fast, fast conversation. Oh yes! I have a new podcast. It finally went live. I was on Bedroom Candy which is actually sort of a big, nice podcast. Being all fancy. And I talked about exploring kink, like I do. So go check that out. Thank you so much for stopping by. Please feel free to send me any questions you have, and I will talk to you guys next week. I'll talk to you guys soon, and you guys next week. I love this like two thing, God I hope this works out. Take care.