Giving Head

Going down on your partner can be a fun, exciting, and connecting experience. But it can also present some challenges. 

In this stream, O.school founder Andrea Barrica and pleasure educator Luna Matatas give us tips on giving head to make it a more pleasurable experience for both giver and receiver. 

One of the most common challenges givers face is their mouth and jaws getting tired. To help with this, Barrica and Matatas suggest pacing yourself. Just like in a marathon, you want to conserve your stamina, so don’t start with a full-on sprint, so-to-speak. Instead, build up speed and intensity when you find a move that’s working. 

“Like, you have to kind of ration that tongue and draw energy for that,” says Barrica. 

At the end of the race, or as your partner is about to orgasm, you might want to speed things up. Or Barrica suggests you might want to stop at the edge of climax or take breaks. “It’s okay to take a break. It's okay to have a kiss break or a touch break,” she says.  

You can also mix it up with a toy or fingers. But as Matatas stated in her Going Down: What Not To Do stream, it’s important to communicate through the process to gauge what your partner is into. If they’re liking your moves, keep mixing it up. 

“Like, get creative, get into it,” says Matatas. “Like, see how much you can deliver to this yummy person who’s spread their legs for you. Like, that's beautiful.”

Video transcript

- So when our mouth and jaws are getting tired.

- Yeah.

- So, for me, I think the biggest advice is just, it's the the pacing right, like, it's a marathon, you don't come out of the gate of a marathon sprinting, right. So I think a lot of people lose stamina so like keeping that pace and like really building up and then when you have a move that's really working. Like, you have to kind of ration that tongue and draw energy for that. Like, for I would say the end of the race. And I know when I used to run, I would sprint the last mile. I think it's similar in this way. Stopping at the edge of climax, I absolutely think that's true, like coming back and forth and not, you know, it's okay to take a break. It's okay to have a kiss break or a touch break.

- It's also okay to bring in a pinch hitter.

- Oh, I mean a pinch hitter at the end. This is - someone will just pop off.

- Ya, they'll just pop off. Their heads gonna pop off and fall onto the floor. Like it...

- And it also helps your mouth not to get as tired. So you can mix it up. There's no shame in like doing this or putting this inside someone while you're doing something else. Like, get creative, get into it. Like, see how much you can deliver to this like yummy person that's spread their legs for you. Like, that's beautiful.

Giving Head

Date
Tue
Feb 13, 2018
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11:23 pm
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Calendar
Tuesday, February 13, 2018
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11:23 pm

If you're trying to up your head game, check out this tip from Andrea and Pleasure Pro Luna Matatas