- Welcome, welcome to secrets of the vibrator whisperer. My name is Sharin Peter and I work for Excitement Adult Stores. We are a really awesome, inclusive chain in Central Pennsylvania. So like, Harrisburg, York, Lancaster, Redding-ish area. We don't have a store in Lancaster but we serve a lot of people there, so. But yeah, I'm the resident, kinda sex educator and marketing manager. And I am super excited to bring you a topic that I don't see a lot of people talking about tonight, which is guybrators. So, yeah. I'd love to know out there if anybody is watching that has a penis and has tried a vibrator on any of your genitalia. Let me know, I'd love to hear that. You can say somethin' in the chats, you can on O.school, you can say somethin' on Facebook, I'm watchin' that chat as well. So, yeah, I'd love to hear from you guys. So, give me just a sec, I'm just gettin' my toys organized because I've gotta lot good stuff to show you tonight. So, sorry I missed last week. Hi Meme, thanks for joining. Sorry I missed last week, I've been goin' through a rollercoaster of stuff with personal things. Got a roommate who has had a lot of medical challenges recently following a surgery and I'm kind of her primary care person, so. But she's on the mend, we're gettin' there. One of these days we're actually gonna do a livestream about it because she had a prophylactic or preventive double mastectomy. And we'll talk all about body image and what that process is like and expectation versus reality of a double mastectomy and how that effects your sex life. So, I'm super excited to go over that at some point in the future. Chu says, my partner's watching with me, he identifies as a guy, awesome, and we've tried vibrators together. Awesome, yes! So, there's definitely room for vibrators in partner play. And room for vibrators in solo masturbation if you have a penis. But a lot of penis owners don't think about that or maybe they do think about it because they do think about dicks a lot, so I hear. But a lot of penis owners are not turning to vibrators in most cases for masturbation. They're strokers. And there's just not a lot on the market, too. You know, there's thousands of different styles, tens of thousands, hundreds of thousands, different styles of vibrators for those with a clitoris or vulva or vagina. But not nearly as many for those that have a penis, so. And my term guybrator tonight, just a disclaimer here, I'm not trying to gender the toys, we're super inclusive on O.school and the reality is a vibrator is not gendered at all. The term guybrator is just fun because it kinda throws people off and make you think, oh maybe it's not what I thought it's for. So that's really where I'm using the guybrator term. But, yeah, you know, we love chatting about pleasure for all types of bodies whether you are identified as male, female, non-binary, fluid, and no matter what genitalia you might have because there are some women with penises and some men with vaginas, right? So, yeah, we love talking about all that stuff. But tonight we're gonna be talking about vibration for penises. But at the heart of vibration and the vibrator as a tool, a vibrator is not, you know, it's not male or female. A vibrator is just a piece of technology that's designed to stimulate nerves. So, it may come in like a pink color or a flowery shape or something, you know, cutesy, but that doesn't necessarily mean that it's only for those with a vulva. And now, we were seeing more and more toys coming in all sorts of colors and shapes and interesting designs. You know, technology is really moving quickly when it comes to toys. Hey Mecky, thanks for joinin'. Hi Chanel, glad to see everybody. So, thanks for joining. Jeannie says, I've used my vibrator on him. That's awesome Jeannie, I love that. I'll definitely talk about some ways that you can try the vibrator. But it's all about knowing where to put it, right? And what feels good and it's a lot of experimentation because for a lot of penis owners they've never tried a vibrator to orgasm. They might've tried to see how it felt but just gave up and went back to their hands or their stroker or their partner. But for those that haven't used it as a solo tool to orgasm, it's pretty unique for that sort of sensation. Now I will say that I personally don't own a penis so I'm speaking in terms of those that I know that do own a penis and have tried these. As well as, industry knowledge from other trainers and people that have come out to teach us about toys and the ways that they're used by their customers. So, yeah. If you have questions, feel free to pop in here and give us those, we're happy to connect with ya there. Feel free to ask on Facebook, I'm watching both at the same time. So thanks everybody for bein' here, watchin'. Okay so, the first thing I kinda wanna chat about is the, you know what, I have... Let me pull out before I jump in further. Let me pull out a dildo of some sort so that we have somethin' to work with in terms of shape. Shape, shape, shape, shape. Okay so this is just a really generic pegging probe. This is made of all silicone from Calexotics. Now this can be used as a toy for those with a penis to receive. Pegging is, typically, well the definition is a vulva owner female is pegging a male. It's often like, a straight couple is doing this but not always, like there's so many variations. But yeah, pegging generally refers to a woman fucking a guy with a, you know, a strap-on device. So, this is just a probe but if we imagine some balls down here, I got my little squeezey boob. So we'll give it some balls, got some big balls compared to the probe right? But we'll use this to help talk about, you know, the different parts of the anatomy that we're getting at with toys. But some interesting things to remember are that anatomy is very similar between vulvas or vaginas and penises. There actually isn't a whole lot that's crazy different. Yes, one is more external than the other but when you start to realize the uniqueness of the external versus internal you realize they're actually a lot the same. So here's some charts, I use these charts from Duckie Dolittle, she's designed some amazing things. I use them as teaching tools here. So this is the anatomy of a penis and scrotum, all that. So, you can see we have the scrotal sack and balls here. This is the perineum where the fingers are pushing up in. Here's the rectum and the anus and then the shaft and the head or the corona of the penis. So the things that are similar are that the, if we're looking at labia, so in labia, these labia here are actually the same sort of tissues that make up the balls, and under them, that's the same sort of skin that makes up the balls, is the outer labia. Under them is the 3D clitoris, which I think might've just fell behind my table here, so we're not gonna go diggin' for it. But it's more of like a shape that's like a wishbone but it has four legs instead of two. But it hides behind that skin and those swell and make up essentially the shaft of the penis, they swell in the labia. So, if you can think about how great a vibrator feels on labia, then you can think about how great a vibrator would feel on the shaft of a penis right? The other thing is, so the clitoris is the head of, or I'm sorry, the glands of the clitoris which is just the little man in the boat, you know the little tip that is covered by a clitoral hood. That's really the same thing as the corona of the penis, the head of the penis and the foreskin, the foreskin is the hood, the clitoral hood, okay? So, if you're someone that has a vulva and you love the feeling of vibration on the glands of the clit or around it or on the hood, hey guess what? That can feel fantastic for penis owners, too, around the corona and the glands of the penis. The most sensitive part of the penis is, can anyone guess? I'll ask the chatroom and see if anybody knows where the most sensitive part of the penis is. So this is the place that has the most nerve endings on the penis and it's a certain spot. So see if you can name it in either the Facebook chat or www.O.school chat. Which, if you're on Facebook, you can watch us there, too. And then I'll tell you guys in a minute. But that's definitely a key to what we're gonna talk about. Now, vibration also feels fantastic in the anal canal or outside the anus against the perineum pressing up towards the prostate. Those sort of rumbly vibrations that can hit against the prostate up here, those carry over really well. And then, externally, there's tons of nerve endings there on the anus, so that little, you know, all around the little pucker there is full of nerve endings and a vibrator with some good lube can feel fantastic. So, I have two answers here. It says Mecky on Facebook commented the apex. Forgive me Mecky, I'm not exactly sure what the apex refers to, it might be a more clinical term than one I use regularly. Jeannie comments, the frenulum over on O.school. And the frenulum is what I call it or what I know it as. And correct Jeannie, it is the frenulum, good job. So the frenulum is where the head of the penis, the glands, meet the shaft on the under side. It often makes like a little heart shape, like the point of the heart it comes to a point right there. And that point is really where it is most sensitive. So that's a key for vibrator usage on guys, on penis owners. So definitely something to keep in mind. Now, what I was saying back here is pressing up on the perineum, pushing against the prostate, now if you have a deep rumbly vibe, like think those awesome, excuse me, massage wands, like for example, might as well jump into it, right? So this is a massage wand from Cloud 9. It is their Health and Wellness Massager Kit and it gives nice, deep, rumbly vibrations. These larger size wands typically are gonna be on the deep rumbly side and that's gonna feel best on the prostate because you wanna penetrate through the skin. Not necessarily, you can penetrate through the anus but you want the vibrations to rumble and climb up through the skin to reach the prostate, right? What's cool about this kit, for not talking about prostate, it actually comes with a stroker cap. So this cap fits on the head of the wand and it's got an open hole here with little nubby bits and that can be used as a stroker on a penis, on the shaft. So that would carry the vibrations all along the shaft of the penis as well. And that has another little nubby head here and that one can feel really great on pretty much any body part, so. It says on the back, I hate that it's gendered here, but it says, massage tip for her. Yeah well, you know what, it can be for anybody. Any bodies, any kind, all of those are good things. But this is a super fun toy. This is not the strongest of wand massagers so if you're lookin' for a wand massager this is awesome because it's a great price point right around 60 dollars and it comes with two heads that fit any type of wands. So even if you choose to upgrade your wand to something else later, you could keep those heads. Now, those are single partner use only or fluid bonded partner use. I would not share those with multiple partners just because they're slightly porous and contract some bacteria. But they would be safe as long as you wash them and keep them clean for your own bacteria, if you will. Okay so, we talked about perineum and pushing up against the prostate. The other thing you're pushing against here in this anatomy is the base of the penis. So there is like part of that muscle and shaft extends along and behind the balls. You can actually reach in and feel it with fingers and massaging that can feel amazing. That's a little awesome handjob tip or blowjob tip even. But massaging that base behind the balls is pressing up against the prostate and it's also like massaging the penis from within the body, so it's really pretty cool. Yeah, and then coming up through the rectum here, like I said, the outside nerve endings can feel great, deeper can feel great as well but the majority of the nerve endings are being concentrated here on the anus. And so, you can use toys that go inside or you can use toys that stay outside. I know a lot of penis owners are not crazy keen about things that go inside. Guess what, it doesn't make you gay and there's nothin' wrong with being gay. But it doesn't make you, you know, just because you like anal stimulation just means that you've got nerve endings there that are responding positively to that. So that's awesome and that's what it's all about. Okay. I've got toys for you. Oh where should we start? Let's start, let's go back to that frenulum and then I have some toys that are for stimulating the shaft and the frenulum, we'll talk about those. I've got a couple that are like pumps or stroker more traditional styles. And then I've got some anal toys to show you, prostate toys. And one or two surprises at the end. So yeah, if you have any questions feel free to ask, that's what I'm here. I'm happy to help and give you guys lots of ideas and tips. Choke says, proud of you, tuned in from the Catholic Hospital. That's fantastic, that's my roommate folks. We checked her into the hospital today, she's doin' alright, hopefully. Gettin' some more fluids and antibiotics but, okay so, let's go traditional. One of the most traditional toys is gonna be a stroker. Now this is not an open stroker, it's still sealed and I don't really wanna open it so that we can still sell it. But, there are strokers sold with a vibrator. This has a little bullet vibe that sits on top and then on this end is a cap that you unscrew. And this is a tight mouth vibrator. So it's gonna have like a tongue, lips kind of look to it that can be used as a stroker. So if this is the penis I have it would be used kinda up and down and you hold onto the outside plastic shell. And then the bullet vibe is gonna vibrate the outside plastic shell along the shaft of the penis. It's made of a super squishy material, it feels fantastic. It's very fleshlike, lifelike feel. A little bit of lube goes a long way with these and highly recommend. Also recommend keeping them nice and clean. You can wash 'em out easily. Water based lube works best and you wanna air dry the product. But yeah, it has a little vibrator. And this is only 23.99, so this is really a great entry level toy to discover whether or not you like vibration. And even if you don't like vibration this still works well as a masturbation sleeve without using the bullet on it. And every penis owner that I've talked to that had never tried a masturbation sleeve before tried it and went, whoa, I've been missing out. Okay so, don't knock it till you try it, if you haven't yet. And this is a nice way to try the vibration at a decent price point. And guess what, if you don't love the bullet, you pop it out and you can use as a bullet in other places. Whether it's massaging your neck or with a partner, on nipples, all sorts of fun things. Other types of strokers that get a little bit more complex. So this is one of the higher end items that we carry. It's called the Zolo Zeppelin. This Zeppelin looks super sleek, right? It looks like a, I don't know, a bomb or something in my hand. Oh, Meme you were asking the name of the toy. That last toy is the Vulcan plus Vibration Tight Mouth Stroker. It's made by Topco Sales. Here I'm gonna get closer to you. Vulcan plus Vibration Tight Mouth Stroker made by Topco Sales. And yeah, they make decent, quality products at really affordable prices, right around that, you know, 15 to 20 dollar range for most of their items. This is made by Zolo. Zolo has some great stroker toys as well that are really affordable. Including their Pocket Pool little stroker sleeves that are disposable and that's awesome. Especially if you're taken somethin' on the go. It comes in a little plastic ball that kinda looks like a pool ball. So, anyway, this is their Zolo Zeppelin. It is a rechargeable toy I believe, nope I'm wrong, it's batteries. So it takes four triple a batteries here at the end. And this thing is interesting. I'm not totally convinced it's your best bet. It has a nice cap to keep things nice and clean. It feels super sleek with a nice like coating to it that's almost velvety. And it's got, you know, a nice little hollow here. When I turn it on, see if you can see, it's spinning, it's really hard to see with the light here. But it's spinning on the outside. So there's a little plastic sleeve in there and then it is spinning little nubby bits out around it. It has a little bit of a loud noise, it's got like little firm balls that are ringing around the shaft. And you can stroke in and out of it like this. So, this is our demo model by the way, we're not selling this that I'm putting my fingers in. Thing that I don't love about it, you can kinda stop the motor easily with enough pressure. So you have to be just the right size for this to be pleasurable. So I wouldn't necessarily recommend it and that's why I wanted to show it to you because it depends on your body and if you're not the right, perfect fit, it's a pretty expensive investment. So definitely like check measurements on things and don't be afraid to buy from a company where you can use an exchange policy if it's not right for you. With our company, Excitement and I'm not trying to be a sales pitch on O.school crazy, you know, a ton here but we do offer an exchange policy. Our online store, shop.iloveexcitement.com has an exchange policy and our in store has a 15 day exchange policy. So if you get somethin' that's not right for you, you can bring it back to us and we'll let you exchange it. We never resell it, we discard it and give you a chance to try something that's better. Because sometimes you just don't know until you get the toy home and put it against your body, right? Another traditional stroker but that has a few more dynamic features is this PDX Elite. It is a vaginal stroker, it has a screw off cap. It comes with a suction cup so you can mount it to like, the shower wall and you know use it as a fuck toy in the shower. So it's got little pussy lips, it's nice and squishy. And it is a vibration and suction toy I believe, if I can get it goin' here. So this one has little chambers all throughout that inflate with air and so it swells in against the penis and then it also has a little bit of a vibration feel against it. But it's gonna swell for stroking to make it a little bit tighter. I think it's not charged, it's having a hard time. Anyway, PDX Elite and it gives you the ability to kinda snap it, suction cup against the wall. So, this one's alright. You can recharge it here and you know, it is waterproof and all that good stuff. It's definitely got a much more plush sleeve that would feel really good. And it's very comparable to a Flesh Light in terms of size and shape and the features inside. But it has that extra inflatable airbag feature basically. Who knew that your dick toy needs an airbag, right? Anyway yeah, so that's a fun option. Let's get to one that's more intense. So this is the Calexotics Optimum Series Automatic Smart Pump. Very similar shape to the Zeppelin but it's clear because I know a lot of penis owners like to see how big their dick is getting, right? It comes with a clear, super squishy, soft sleeve. It comes in a plastic bag when you first get it. It's got a tiny little hole for insertion but that stretches quite a bit. And then it has some texture all along the inside you can see there. So that's gonna go right here in the top of this and then this is a pump, it's gonna automatically remove the air pressure and make it tighter and draw the shaft up into the toy. So this one doesn't, I don't think it vibrates so much as it just draws the shaft up but it does it automatically and it does it in patterns. Like, you know, it goesand holds or it You know, it does different patterns along the way and that can be really great for an exercise, training program, et cetera if you wanna think of it like that for enhancing blood flow. Which, is not gonna make your penis grow bigger than it already can but it can maximize the ability of it to grow as large as it can get. So, the more you use it, the more you use suction with pumps and things, the greater expanse you can get. It stretches the tissues and allows more blood to flow into it and it to swell larger. So, yeah, that's what's awesome about a pump. And this one is new on the market, super popular, rechargeable, and yeah. It almost has like a magnifying effect, too. So like, as it's drawn up inside, the penis looks bigger inside this pump which is kind of awesome. So again, that is the Calexotics. Let me get that back in there. Calexotics Optimum Series. And for us it runs around 99 dollars but it's really impressive. I've seen a demo from a sales rep and really loved the thing, just thought it was awesome. Okay, so other strokers. Here are some fun ones that I think you're gonna know. Here we go. So, Hot Octopuss is a brand that coined the term guybrator. Hot Octopuss was invented by a guy in England and he would, basically steal the bullets of his girlfriends toys and use them. He put 'em in like a sock contraption and would use them as a stroker along the shaft of the penis just under the frenulum. He realized that that frenulum feels amazing with great vibration. So, he's like, there's so many toys out there. Right there, the frenulum. There's so many toys out there that feel fantastic on vulva's but not many options for the dudes, for the penises. So, this was one of his goals, was to create items that provide vibration pleasure and that's really where he coined the term guybrator. So, yeah. Their first one was the Hot Octopuss Pulse, it looked very much like this. It had a plastic back I believe. But it's evolved, this is the third generation of their Hot Octopuss Pulse. But as you can imagine, the shaft comes in here and it strokes up and down. Now this is flared so it can fit lots of different sizes. Statistically, it's built to fit 95% of penis sizes so it should fit most bodies. It's really quite flexible and yet firm still so that it can be comfortable and wrap around properly. So the trick of this thing is that it's not a typical vibrator, it's actually pretty unique technology. They worked with a, I think, Finnish or Swedish, I don't remember which, team that was developing these medical devices to help with like, ED, Erectile Dysfunction patients that were trying to conceive and these devices that have very similar technology were found to have significant effect on their ability to get hard and or ejaculate whether or not their hard. So, it's a pulsing plate technology, which is where the term pulse comes from. It's not just vibration, it's actually oscillation. So, vibration is like a little tiny motor swinging around and oscillation is like something that moves back and forth. It's kinda hard to describe, I'm not the best mechanical engineer here for ya. But this little plate right here, basically bounces up and down, it flutters up and down. Yeah, so I'll show ya. Alright Meme, you're asking the link on the site for your store. No problem, it is shop.iloveexcitement.com. And, here we go, get it goin' here. So, their previous models, if you don't have pressure against it, it is significantly louder. But, I think if I open this up you can actually see it flutter and move. See it movin'? Anyway, I think that's pretty cool. I mean it really definitely has some vibration there. There we go. It's good and quiet when you have nice fullness against it. So, they're working on improving the toys and making them quieter. They have new generations coming out soon. But the powerful vibration here, it's deep and rumbly, like this feels equivalent to one of those Magic Wand massage wands. They're very intense vibration, very deep and rumbly and that's what can feel really awesome on the frenulum. Where as some of the bullet styles can feel more high-pitched, buzzy, tingly, and in not always a great way. That's very similar for those that have a clitoris. Some people really don't like those super high-pitch, buzzy vibrators, I'm one of those people. I would much prefer deep, rumble, I don't care how loud it is. But, you know, they're workin' on some different options. Now this one does come with a remote which is pretty cool and you can use it whether your flaccid or hard. If you're flaccid you set this on a bed and then you can kinda just lay things in and stroke back and forth lightly. If you're hard, you can also set it on the bed or you can use a hand to stroke against it, you know? So, lots of options. If you press too hard, it does stop. That's actually safety feature to keep the toy from breaking because it is, the disk that moves with it can be broken if it were to keep going without stopping. So a little too much pressure it will stop but you can still get plenty of pressure without it stopping so you don't have to worry about that. It's not a bad feature. So that is the Hot Octopuss Pulse. Now, Hot Octopuss has come out with two other toys recently that I'm super excited to show you. And by the way, I am not paid by them or anything so don't think that that's happening here. I just am really excited about these toys because there aren't enough toys for dudes or for penises. You know, we need more toys for penises because pleasures for everyone not just for those with a vulva or a vagina. So this is called the Pocket Pulse and this is a little different than the other one. They're both made by Hot Octopuss. This one loops over on top and is a little more hands free because of that. This one's kinda heavy so it would fall off. But with this, it could be used along with penetration. So, if you're sliding it kinda towards the base there would still be some tip on the length of most penises for penetration. And it's going to give vibration all along here but also some back here on the backside closer to the balls. So, it can feel really good for the partner and for against the balls that are kinda hangin' out behind. So, again, super strong vibration here on that sort of plate area. And it's not crazy loud, this one's a lot quieter than the others. But that's stroking right up on the frenulum, right here at the tip is where the majority of the pleasure's gonna be. You can also press down on this to close it tighter to make for a better seal on different sizes and yet it still flexes open for larger sizes, too. So, again, it should fit 95% of the penises in the world. So, this is definitely awesome, they make really quality stuff, their batteries last crazy long, like four hours or something, depending on the setting you're usin' 'em at. They're rechargeable and they put them through the paces with their testing. They're making really nice, high quality toys from Hot Octopuss. Oh by the way, here is the box for that. That is the Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse. I'll get closer, by Hot Octopuss. And all of their packaging is designed to look like trendy, London, high streets of London kinda deal. But yeah, they're the ones that coined that guybrator term. And it says they're founded on the principle that simple vibrations are not sufficient in order to adequately stimulate a man. The Pocket Pulse guybrator is a powerful male stimulator that houses two large vibration motors which in tandem deliver the necessary deep and intense oscillations required to effectively stimulate men. Lightweight and flexible, can be used from flaccid and once erect, can be enjoyed completely hands free. That one runs right around $100, 110 or so. I mean that's pretty equivalent to high end female toys or clitoral toys, vaginal toys. So, that's really a nice, quality product and it comes with a warranty and all the good stuff. So, definitely recommend. Now this one is the Atom Plus. So this is also by Hot Octopuss but we're gonna change styles just a little bit. This is a cock ring. It's one of the first cock rings though that is designed to stimulate the standard area on top of the shaft and along the shaft but also the perineum. So, in terms of a high end, rechargeable vibrator. I'm gonna show Facebook this one first. So you can see the diagram of how it is placed on the body, there ya go. So, you can see that it sits over shaft and balls. Here's the device. So, it's pretty large for a cock ring. But that means that it has a great battery and it has really strong vibrations. It's got a little nub here to grind against for the partner and for the partner to get vibrations. You feed the balls through first, one at a time, you put it on while flaccid. And then you bend up and over and feed the shaft through like that. So, kind of hard for me to explain here. But it's got strong vibration here on the perineum with a little like ridge that kinda goes up between where the balls separate and hits that perineal ridge and that elongated part of the shaft that comes under. So it's gonna stimulate perfectly this area right here. And then it basically sits like, if I can get the angle right for ya, like this on the balls and shaft. And you can see how it's perfectly, anatomically designed to hit that perineum but also to hit up against anyone grinding against it. So, nice strong controls are on the sides of it so you don't have to like hunt around on the front and back for it. Nope, let's get it on here. One, two, three, four, yeah. Nice and quiet but super strong vibration. Like it's also wand level intensity here and it'll last ya a good long while. So this is a really nice cock ring option. Yeah, it also helps things look nice and proud and strong if it's over the cock it's gonna help like hold things tight and it kinda works like a pushup bra, for a penis. So, that's pretty awesome. Make sense? Awesome. So that is the Atom Plus by Hot Octopuss. That one runs at a $100 as well. Come on, oops I'm pressing the wrong button that would be why it wouldn't turn off. Ah there it is. Okay, cool. What do we feel like next? I got a couple of prostate toys. So, the prostate toys typically are very similar to g-spot toys in that they have a curve at the top. They're curving over to hit the prostate. So, if the prostate toys are going up inside the anus and curving towards the prostate to rock against it, knock against it from behind here, right? So that's the purpose of a prostate toy is to curve up. So anytime you're inserting a prostate toy, you want that curve to face the penis or the belly button, right? Okay so, the company Blush, one of my favorite companies, makes a toy called Spark. And these are really awesome toys. Now anything that's going in the butt needs to have a flared base or something that's going to keep it from getting sucked up into the butt because it is a vacuum and you don't wanna end up in the hospital along with my roommate Choke right now because you stuck something in your butt that you shouldn't, so. This is the Spark Ignition PRB 2 Plug. So it is bulbous, it has a little curve. It's not that huge, I know it looks really big but it's not a whole lot bigger than like a thumb. And it does have a vibrator bullet that can go up in the center inside. And it has a nice t-shaped base to keep it from coming out. Now what's really unique about this toy is the pattern that's on it. It looks like it's textured doesn't it? But that is not a texture, actually. It is a screen printed pattern on this silicone toy, how cool, right? It looks very masculine, so for those that want something that's on the more masculine side, this is great choice. It definitely does not feel like, you know, a girly vibe. Again, vibrators are not gendered. Vibrators are just devices to stimulate nerves and everybody's got nerves to stimulate. But some people need to feel a little more gender affirmed in their toys and that's okay. So, this is a great option for those that do wanna feel that or do want that experience. It's very affordable, it's right around 40 bucks and that includes the big super charge bullet and the plug, sleeve. Okay, so here's a unique one. This is the Anal Fantasy Ultimate P-spot Milker. This thing does this So it rocks back and forth, it does have vibration as well but it's gonna rock right against the prostate and actually like, milk it with that rocking motion. So, it's definitely unique compared to other prostate toys. The other thing that's great about these Pipe Dream anal toys, Anal Fantasy, anything that's Anal Fantasy brand, it comes with a black glove to help you play cleanly. And it comes with some water based lube and some powder. It does come with
an anal ease tube. I don't recommend using those. If you're using anal ease it means you can't feel if something hurts and if something hurts and you don't know you might be having skin tear issues, right? So, that just means you need to slow down, communicate more, and let the receiving partner set the pace, and you need to add more lubricant if you're having pain. So, for anal play, this thing is gonna go, this part is gonna sit outside the body and press up against the perineum. So if this is my penis, this is gonna go in behind and press up, sorry right behind the balls, you see right behind the balls in that perineum area. And then this is gonna rock toward the prostate. So let me see if I can get it goin here. It can go faster but not a ton. It's not meant to be like crazy intense but you can see how it just gently rocks. And then there's vibration here that'll be on the outside against that perineum. So again, we're looking at a toy that's gonna go up here and then rock. See how it's gonna pinch against that prostate? Now this is not quite lifesize but you get the idea, right? So, kinda cool, it's definitely unique technology that we haven't seen a whole lot of. And even when you hold it pretty tight it still continues to rock. So, I've been impressed with that. And it's waterproof and it's rechargeable and all the fun things. So, definitely excited about awesome things like that. What're we doin' out there? Y'all are quiet. What have you liked so far? What have you seen that you're interested in? Not to sayin' you have to buy, just like what looks cool, you know? I'm not here to make a sales pitch, I would love if you buy but it doesn't like benefit me, I don't get the commission off of it. I just wanna show you cool toys 'cause I'm passionate about awesome toys, right? So yeah, that's what we're here to do. Here's a real basic prostate massager. This is made by Dr. Joel and the Calexotics brand. It's hard ABS plastic kind of in a dark slate gray. Notice how all these toys are like dark gray or dark blue, definitely have a coloring challenge when it comes to gendering toys. Jeannie says, rocker looks like it might be good for a g-spot. Yeah Jeannie, I think that's a solid possibility. So here's the trick with p-spot and g-spot toys, they often are very similar and have very similar, you know, pleasure capacity because of the way that they're shaped with that curving action. Meme says, I like that cock ring. Yeah, I really do like the cock ring too Meme. It's like, seriously, on my list. And actually here's an interesting point that I have been thinking about. So, I am a big bodied person, obviously. I have a partner that is a big bodied person as well and sometimes skin can get in the way and skin can kinda hang around and it makes it a little harder to access the parts that we want to. What I love about this, is it's so large that it would easily kinda push skin back and do that push-up bra effect to give me easier access to his dick. So, that would be pretty awesome and hello it makes your dick look bigger when things get pushed back and you get that push-up bra effect, right? So, I think that's pretty cool, it would definitely, yeah, help hold some of that skin back for a larger body. It does stretch some, in fact, what's cool about this, a lot of cock rings like this that have vibrators in both sides, when they stretch they got a cord here that's gonna break. This one's actually built with a coil technology so it doesn't break when you stretch it wider, which is pretty cool. So yeah, that's the Adam Plus by Hot Octopuss. Sorry, this perineum massager. So normally I'd be like, oh I don't know if I'm cool with that goin' in a butt because it doesn't have a what? A flared base. However, it does with a retrieval string. And it has a pretty solid notch on there that's holding it on and you can take a pretty good grip of that handle that has grooves on it. So, I think you wouldn't lose this too terribly. But the longer length is awesome for the ability to reach and get in where you wanna get in if you're using it solo. Okay, lots of equipment. Oh, I've shown this one before. This was a favorite from one of my other mods in a different stream. But I love the Bendie Power Probe when it comes to anal play. This is great for any type of body. It is made by Calexotics, it's all silicone, and it's got some serious power to it. It's battery operated but it really is quite strong. And this thing is super flexible. So you can totally bend it into the shape that you want based on how you wanna use it. And then, it also has a nice thick handle to help you keep hold of it. It works kinda like anal beads which as the anus goes around each of these beads, it stimulates the feeling of orgasm where the muscle is expanding and contracting quickly. So that's what the design of anal beads is all about. Again, they're super soft, very easy to clean, keep clean, nonporous, waterproof, all the good stuff, and takes batteries. And it's pretty affordable, I think right around 40 dollars or so, yeah 35. And so yeah, Bendie Power Probe is a great, universal, all bodies kinda tool. And it could be used in lots of different ways, vaginally or all sorts of things, just be sure to clean that silicone really well if you're gonna use it or throw a condom on it, so. And then finally, something very similar looking but that is quite a bit smaller. This is what's called the Dark Rod. And this is made by Master Series, it's a vibrating, beaded, silicone sound. Okay so, I don't know if we've talked much about sounding before, urethral sounding. But sounding is massaging the penis or the genitals from inside of the urethra. Some people go, oh no, nope, nope, not for me. And that's okay, not everybody likes foot rubs either. But, some people are like, oh, that's a totally new way to touch myself that feels really amazing. So, don't knock until you try it but this vibrates in addition to the beads and gives lots of awesome stimulation. It's also coated entirely in silicone so you can get it really sterile and clean which is very important for any toy going into the urethra because the propensity for urinary tract infections is very high if there's any bacteria on your toys. So be sure to like bleach this silicone with a bleach and water solution in between usage or before you use it. But yeah, vibration can help navigate things down the urethra much more easily and this can feel really awesome with the right kinda try. So, you can see on the back here, there's a diagram of a dildo with the urethral sound going down it. But yeah, it only has one speed of vibration so it's not like super versatile but it's not bad and runs right around 30 bucks. So yeah, for somebody that wants to try something different this is totally a way to get there and see what ya like. Lots of lubricant and let gravity drop it down in. Don't force it or press too hard because there is a little sphincter right at the tip of the penis. So right here is, you can see, the urethra runs through the center and there's a little bigger opening at the head and then there's a small sphincter here that helps keep pee from leaking out essentially in addition to the sphincters from the bladder up higher. But anyway, so yeah, that is what I have for you in terms of penis toys. I don't think I have anything else here next to me. Any questions I can answer for anybody? Anything you learned new? I'd love to hear about it. If you have questions about other toys, I'm here to answer those too so feel free to ask away. Yeah, I just tried to show you somethin' a little different tonight than what we typically do and kinda open your mind to the different options for those in the world with penises. So, love to hear if you are gonna try any or want to learn more about anything. If you have an idea for next week, what stream would you like to hear me chat about with toys? I would love to hear that. I would love to do a stream based on a topic that you're asking for. So yeah, hit me up. You can send me a message at sharinpeter.com, you can message an idea here in the chat, I'm gonna stay tuned here for a few more minutes and you can also find me at iloveexcitement.com or our Facebook page, Facebook.com/iloveexcitement that's the store that I work for. So, awesome, thank you so much. I'm just gonna chill here with you guys and let's see what happens. Oh Jeannie has a good question, how to open minds for toy resistant types. Great question, Jeannie. So yeah, there are a lot of articles you can google on this if you wanna read more about it but there's a lot of like stigma around sex, period. Whether you're using toys or not. And there's also a lot of stigma around the fact that culture teaches us our body should be able to pleasure each other without any external help. And we should be able to have orgasms from penis in the vagina sex all the time, every time, and we should always be able to get a hard dick, and we should always be aroused and ready to go when the partner is and all of that's a lot of bullshit. It really is. You know, it's just that these cultural values or cultural norms have been taught to us about pleasure and they're just not true. So, the toy resistant types are still holding onto those cultural norms. And that can be a very hard thing to break, I'm not gonna lie to you. But when you start to open their minds to things that are pleasurable for you or that you'd like to try or are interested in then that can help to break the barriers. So, one of my favorite ways, this is just a stupid simple communication trick, is to say, I have an idea and then you say what you wanna try. And you talk about it, talk about it. You know, like, who woulda thought, talk about it. But seriously, like, talk about the fears or anxieties around a toy if someone is toy resistant. Often times it's gonna be things like, well I'm worried that you're not gonna need me anymore. Does any vibrator, does any toy replace human contact? Does this thing whisper sweet nothings into your ear? Well, I could think of one toy that does but that's a whole 'nother story. But seriously, this does not replace human contact, right? This is not a relationship in a toy and there's so much to be said for human touch. So, just because you wanna add a toy in for extra sensation, extra nerve stimulation, awesome, that's great! Would someone judge you for wanting to get an electric toothbrush instead of using the old school style one? Or would someone judge you for wanting to use a dishwasher because it gives you more time with each other? No! So, toys are just a tool. They are not the end all be all. They are not gonna replace human touch. And the thought that they are going to take away from a relationship is insecurity about their own performance. So, reassuring a partner how much they mean to you, what all the things that they do that you love, is awesome and then also assuring them that like, a toy is a way to connect more, to show them what you like and to build that trust because it takes trust to ask for what you want. So yeah, it's kind of a large topic maybe I should stream on that next. Thank you Jeannie I appreciate that, I hope I answered that for you a little bit. If you wanna give any more details or contact me offline, I'd be happy to talk further. Chu yeah, thank you, folks can shop for items featured at shop.iloveexcitement.com. If you are feeling like you enjoyed tonight's stream or you learned something, we do have a tip jar here at O.school. We split our tips 50/50 between the O.school staff and the pleasure professionals like myself. The payment for these type of streams, it's free to people, so you're watching this free and if you appreciate that, we appreciate you. And if you're able and feeling generous tonight we would appreciate a tip. If not, that's okay too, this is why it's free and we're just so glad that you're here and tuning in each week. I will be back next Monday night perhaps to cover things about opening minds for toy resistant types, I think that might be a good topic. So, I'll see what I can do on researching that. I should be back next Monday night, there's a chance I'm gonna change my stream to a different day of the week and time just 'cause I got some things shifting in my own schedule that might require my attention Monday nights. Hang in there, I will be definitely streaming regularly for you again, even if I have to take a short break for a little while. Thank you everyone, thanks for tuning in. Now go back www.O.school and go watch the other streams tonight, let's see who is on next. It looks like it is, in an hour we have Black Sex Geek who is talking about pleasure from within and through the skin with Black Sex Geek. And she's a new streamer with us and the description is, trauma changes ones relationship with skin, in this stream let's talk about reclaiming the confidence and the trust with our skin. With reclaiming our confidence in trust there's the liberation with touch that invites pleasure from our skin. So yeah, definitely go check that out and that should be awesome. Thank you Jeannie, thank you all, thank you Chu for moderating, you're awesome. Have a wonderful rest of your week. Go out and pleasure some penises. Pleasure you're own genitalia, whatever they may be. Have some fun, thank you so much. Oh, this is the very first stream from Black Sex Geek. Yay, let's all tune in that's in an hour from now. So come back here in an hour and let's support Black Sex Geek because she's awesome and I'm super excited for you all to meet her and hear from her. Awesome, thank you all for coming to O.school, see ya later. Bye bye.