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Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about gags! How to use safe words when you can’t talk, which gags work best in different situations, WHY would I want to try a gag?

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Today is gonna be a combination. The schedule was to talk about mouth play and gags, but I'm also gonna do a bit of an AMA, ask me anything just because this is the last time for, hey Chu. The last time for a bit. If you have questions, get them to me. Otherwise I am gonna sit and talk about gags, and you guys can appreciate that or not. Hey Dustin. So with that all being said, like I said, if you wanna know what's going on friend me on Facebook, follow me on Twitter, go to my website, sign up for my mailing list. But now we're going to move on and talk about gags and mouth play. So, I have a bunch of gags. I'm gonna just demo a bunch of gags. But first, I wanted to talk about what a gag is, and what it isn't, and why you would want to use a gag. Mickey says that I could try using YouTube Live, and that I could have a YouTube channel. Yes, that is one of the things that I am thinking about doing. Castaway says, "Everyone take August to work on this kinky bucket list." Yes. Whoa. There is a post, and I can't share it on Facebook, sorry, but if you go to my website, there's a post about sexual adventure bucket lists, and talking about going out and doing things that you're putting off until you're in better shape, or you know, you find somebody to do it with, or you, you know, whatever it is that people put sexy things off. I was calling for everybody to pick one thing off their sexy bucket list, and examine it. Decide why you haven't done it, what was it gonna take to do it, what would be the first steps to do it? How to easily move along and add some excitement to your life. Before I get going into gags, anybody have any questions? I have all kinds of things to demo. It doesn't have to be about gags. In fact, I know one of you just saw me talk about gags. I don't always talk about gags. Margaret says, "I have a few things for my bucket list, and one is making a small dungeon in my home." I do a lot of talking, actually, about making a small dungeon in your home, because you don't have to have a big dedicated space. You can have a little corner of your bedroom. You can have a certain scent, candles, yes. Anything. I like addressing the five senses, how it looks, how it smells, how it tastes. Okay, maybe not that one so much. Just, the sensations when you walk in. Lighting is super fun to play with. So I would love to hear, yes Margaret, any updates. Yes, Kaitlyn, the bucket list. I would love to hear any updates that you have, and how you can break that down, if it's a big thing and it's scaring you, how you break it down to make it small, bite-able chunks. Also, I have here - Kaitlyn says, "My bucket list is long." Excellent. Gonna have to start knocking some of those off. I do have a big, huge bucket of toys that's sitting here right off camera, sort of tempting me to talk about. Taking me off of the gags idea because I just did this long session last week, which is why I wasn't here. That was sensory deprivation, which was a lot of fun. So anyway. That's one of the things you can ask about tonight. Take advantage of my brain up here. Ask all the questions that you might need. Answers to bondage on a budget, new book idea for you, Mona darling. Yes, Mickey, bondage on a budget. I love pervertables so, bondage on a budget, pervertables, all of that is awesome. Yes, and Rachel there is our moderator. Thank you, thank you Rachel, for keeping things safe here on O.school. She also posted community guidelines for O.school. Basically, they boil down to "Don't be a jerk." It's pretty simple. Scarf play, whoa. Wrapped up in a dildo harness. Let's drop one harness, being gagged in my thing. Scarf play. Scarves are fun for bondage as well as gags. This is an awesome scarf that I found for like a buck or two at some thrift store. It is obviously some crazy vintage, and I like to think of the person who first bought this in I would guess probably the 70's. I wonder what they would think if they knew what I used it for. So scarves are awesome for play. Before we move into the scarves and the gags though, I do wanna remind you that you need to play safe, sane, and consensually, and even if somebody's got a gag in their mouth, they should be able to express their safe word to you. They should still be able to let you know if they're having problems. Problems breathing, they're just having second thoughts about what's going on. They have to have some way to communicate with you. If you have a gag in your mouth, and you can't talk, some people like to hold a bell or something in their hands. I also just, if you flash your hands at me like that, that is a sign that they need to be un-gagged so we can talk about what's going on. Somebody mentioned cat toys or crinkly toys that you can keep in your hand that you can squeeze to get somebody's attention. Just always make sure that whoever you're playing with has a way to communicate, or if you have a gag in your mouth that you have a way of communicating. I also want to talk about the fact that you think about gags as just being a way to silence somebody, and that is one way to play with gags, but gags are also a lot of fun because you can play with the mouth and all of the nerve endings. It's also a very sensual, warm place to play with. Mickey Allen says, "I have a special tap to use when I am gagged. Lots of ways." Yes, definitely. Shave and a haircut, da da da da da, da da, is a great way to communicate. There are lots of ways. Just make sure that you've communicated some kind of - yes, Castaway says, some kind of repeated gesture, just so that you know. You just never know what's gonna come up when you're playing. It could be physical, it could be mental. When you play, sometimes you'll have something come up that you won't even think about, and you'll just need, you know. Either the situation, or the smell, the activity, something brings something up. And that will make you want to get out of that space or talk about that space. So, why would you want to be gagged? Da da da. Forgot to finish that one. There are a lot of nerve endings in your mouth. It's why kissing is fun, it's why putting your mouth on genitals is fun for both ends of the party there. Castaway says, "I fired up one from the Wayback Machine." Curious. So, how do you feel when you are at the dentist, and the dentist is putting their hands in there? I mean personally, I get upset, and I don't like it, and I sort of want to bite. But there's also that feeling of submission. Maybe that's why I don't like it. Because vulnerability, because someone is playing with your mouth. So there are ways to invoke other sensations and other feelings playing with the mouth. And as I'm going through all of these gags, we can talk about the different feelings, because you know me and feelings, I like to talk about the different feelings and emotions that kink brings up. This will be a running conversation with the feelings. Do feel free to ask me anything, though. So, back to this lovely thing. I do wanna bring this up. This is These are safety scissors. Safety scissors are great for going in between skin and body parts and whatever you are binding somebody with. So if you are using scarves to play, you really need to have these, especially depending on what material they're made out of and how you struggle. If they get wet or covered with lube, the knot may tighten, and you're gonna need to get somebody out. These kinds of scissors are a must-have. They have like little tiny teeth to gnaw through stuff and that flat spot, and you can get them anywhere. Amazon has them. You can get them for less than 10 bucks. So if you are playing with something like the gag, the Wayback Machine, shave and a haircut, yes. Got it. Sorry. Things come out of my mouth, I just keep moving. So, this is a great gag. It is fun because it is easy, it's inexpensive, it's something that you can have around your house as a pervertable. You can even wear this out knowing that you're going to play with it later. Usually what I do if I'm gagging somebody, you can just wrap it around, and this one's nice and long, so you can wrap it around a couple of times and then tie it. And that can be fun 'cause it forces their mouth open a little bit, and forcing somebody's mouth open or having your mouth forced open is going to add to that sort of submissive, vulnerable feeling. The other thing that I like to do with scarves, especially long ones like that is just tie a knot in the middle. And depending on how far you wanna open somebody's mouth and how full you want their mouth, you can tie it a couple of times, make it bigger. You know, you could even tie something in there. This is just an awesome, simple gag. And if you're not into gags, and you wanna use it for something else, I do love scarves, now that I've tied a whole bunch of knots in it, because they are also great for bondage. This is also especially if you're gonna use scarves for bondage, make sure you have your safety scissors. So. This is awesome and literally the super, super easiest bondage. Fold it in half, whoop. And then take it here and fold that over. And you've got a little loop. You can put somebody's hands in there. Or you can have two loops- ah, this is hard to demo on yourself. Ding ding! I will try that again. Fold it in half, one loop. Fold it over so you get another. Trying to be too big on the pieces here. This makes a really nice little restraint. You can have it one on each, and then wrap that around. I hope that makes any sense to you. It looks like just a big scarf in front of the camera from here. But if you find long, silky scarves like this, lots of fun. Gags can go all kinds of places. This is a fun gag if you are playful, doing any kind of age play. It is pink and I don't know if you can see it, there's a giant jawbreaker in there. So it's candy, and it's something totally different feeling from the other one. This is much more playful, fun, not as versatile. Somebody sees this sitting around your house, they're gonna know what you're up to. It's not so bad, though. And now if somebody asks if it tastes good, I don't know, I've never actually opened this one, and I don't know. One of the things that I love though with gags, is I like using them for humiliation. Whoa. And I also love me a service bottom. So I have some fancy gags. This is actually upside down here. Doing. So this is a fancy gag. It's got a plastic silicon coated bar in there for people to bite on, wraps around the head, and it makes a lovely little tray for holding my iced tea in this weather. Oh my god, it's so hot. This is a fun gag because it is completely versatile. This comes off. Boing. And it can become a little mouth-led leash. So this one is awesome. I have a toilet bowl cleaner, a little duster, and I have a dick. Mickey Allen reminds me of a safety note, be careful with candy gags, as sugar produces more saliva and the gagged person must be able to swallow properly. Yes. Definitely. Thank you for bringing that up, Mickey. That also brings up the point, there are some things that I've seen used as gags. Playdough is one because it's non-toxic. But it just also chunks up and, depending on how much your submissive is crying, drooling, trying to talk, yeah. You just need to always be careful. Sometimes just the act of being gagged makes people drool, and they need to be able to swallow and breathe. Mickey is up here on Facebook now. There are some kinds of fabric to avoid. Are all fabrics fine? You know what, there are so many kinds of fabrics, and I prefer to stick to polyester silky things and keep my safety scissors. I think you just need to really, the first time you play with something, understand how it ties and how it unties after it's been tightened, and how easy it is to cut through. Part of that. I don't have any recommendations for things not to use other than sweater material, material that stretches a lot. Part of that is because it is not going to give. You're gonna be able to stretch it away, and the submissive is going to be able to spit it out. Also, any kind of sweater material that has pieces of, you know, flaking off. Anything that's letting go of- Sorry, reading and answering questions. Never my strong point. Anything that has pieces that come off. So if it's fuzzy and there's pieces, or if it's stringy and there's pieces, definitely don't put that in somebody's mouth. 'Cause you just don't wanna be sitting there taking their gag off, taking things out of their mouth because they're choking on some fuzz. Oh my god, I'm so sweaty. Not that you guys need to know this, but it's warm in Portland, and it's just not okay, and I'm like sticking to my chair. Margaret wants to know if there's a preferred gag to make one quiet. You know, for those that tend to be loud during play. So, that is actually a really great question because one of the things that people think gags are for is for silencing people. You see them in the movies, and somebody's got a piece of something in their mouth, and they can't. It's like, no, you can actually- Like, try it. You can talk right through that. You can make lots of noise. Most of the gags, like if somebody is really, really loud, I like something that's gonna cover their whole face. I don't have a hood here with me right now, but hoods are great to keep people quiet, because hoods go over, especially like a good leather hood. I've seen some. I'm gonna have to check it out. There was one I was looking at on Amazon that was like forty dollars or something for a leather hood. I'm like, "hmm" 'cause usually they're very expensive. But one thing that you can do is get the latex or spandex hoods that go over that can keep the gag in their mouth. I would suggest not this one in particular, because it's got the dildo, and that may not be what you're looking for, but this that goes around the mouth. The fuller their mouth is, or over the lips. If somebody's really, really noisy, a great way to keep them quiet is, Oh, it's coming to me. I've been like packing things up to go, and now I can never find any of them. Gah. Okay. So. I don't know where it is, but duct tape will not stick to people's skin. Because as soon as they start stretching their face and sweating, drooling, it starts coming off. But if you use packing wrap, which is basically saran wrap, I really wish I could find it to show you. It's a little short plastic, it's basically like saran wrap but it's like this long, and it's on a roller so you can put it on the person's face and then wrap it around their head, being careful to leave their nose open. Make sure that they don't have a head cold or something so they can breathe through their nose. And then wrap the duct tape over the top of that. If they can handle it, sometimes you may want to stick your panties or something in their mouth just so that their mouth is actually full, before doing that, and that will keep them quiet, It's a three-part process. Panties, packing wrap, and then duct tape. Let's see... Very, very funny. Castaway just posted a link to a little Christmas- Okay. Castaway says, "I believe Miss Mona's all-time favorite sentence is, 'One aspect I like to use this for is humiliation.'" It is. I love humiliation. Humiliation play is awesome. Yes, Rachel, posted. Rachel is our lovely mod this evening. If you are loving what we are sharing, tap the tip jar. We split payments 50-50 with our pleasure pros. There is a little tip jar down there by the tap window. Yes, I definitely appreciate your tips. It all goes to the puppy fund, which has not been growing very much lately. Dana up here says, "Restricted breathing terrifies me." Uh-huh. And Mickey asked, "That last toy used part of a face-chair play." Yes. This is a fun toy for all kinds of things. So, restricted breathing. Remember how I mentioned the dentist? And how playing with somebody's mouth can actually make them feel very vulnerable. It can be very sensual, and make you feel very exposed. Sensual if you're into that sort of thing. If you're not, it can be sort of a living hell. So not all of gags are here for restricting breathing, and they don't have to. This is my little dental gag. These little bad boys go behind your teeth. Weh. So basically, ah-hah. And then force it open. Maybe not all the way there. But this is a perfect example of a gag that really, really does not restrict breathing, does not restrict anything, in fact. It opens everything way, way up. This is fun for increasing that sense of vulnerability, that sense of submission. It is sort of mouth bondage. If you're ever getting your teeth cleaned and have somebody's hands in there, and you're like, this sucks now but it could be sort of sexy with the right person, this is the kind of gag you wanna use. This one is like a big scary one, but there are also fun gags that- Over here. They're called O-ring gags, and I don't have one with me. But an O-ring gag is basically a gag like this, but it doesn't have this part. There's nothing here. It just has this O-ring, and the O-ring goes in the mouth, behind the teeth, and holds the mouth open. And so once your mouth is held open, there's no breathing, there's no anything. There's just that holding the mouth open, so you can touch them or play with them, or stick things in their mouth. Whatever you have. Whatever they feel safe, you feel safe. This is great for forced eating. I have done more than my fair share. I can say that about a lot of things. Of forced golden showers, because that's a fantasy. Ah, whoop. Trying to read that comment there. I can't quite read all of your comment, but I see trust issues around mouth and definitely throat and choking. Having a gag in your mouth, or putting a gag in your submissive's mouth does not have to be any kind of breath play. It does not have to be a choking thing. It can definitely just be something that holds their mouth open. It doesn't even have to be that scary of a thing. Being a submissive and having like an O-ring gag that's just holding your mouth open, and then having your partner have full access to make out with you, to put their genitals in your mouth, or fingers, or just run their tongue around your mouth. That can be a lot of fun and very sensual, and it's not as scary as something like this. You know, or one of the gags that I use for humiliation. Let's see. Oh, and then here's one of my favorites. So cute. So, so cute. This is a cute little, it locks on, it's pink. How scary could it be, right? Little pacifier. I use this for any kind of age play. Well, not any kind of age play, 'cause not everybody who wants to do age play is interested in having a gag locked onto them. But it is a fun little something. If the baby keeps spitting their pacifier out, you can lock it in there. Is it safe? Great coincidence that you showed the Swiss Army knife gag tonight. Ah, there. Okay. Whoop. Facebook keeps re-connecting. What other gags do I have? Does anybody have any questions about what I've gone over so far? Gags are, and mouth play is, a super fun thing. It's super versatile, I don't know anything else that can be so versatile. Gags can take you from just sensual. Sometimes it's just a matter of taking off your dirty panties and sticking them in somebody's mouth or a little bit in their mouth, and forcing them to taste or smell you, and it's sort of that intimate humiliation a little bit, depending on how you feel about that. So it can just be very intimate. It doesn't need to be scary. Other gags, like the mouth one, is one that a lot of people think is very scary. I think this one is really scary-looking because it reminds people of the dentist, but actually it's a really sensual gag. Wah. You know, there's other gags. Ah. Like this, that can be very sensual. If you're wearing this, and your partner is sitting on your face, using it, and using you as a sex toy, basically. That is super sensual. It doesn't have to be scary in any way. Castaway, "I may have a brainstorm that is percolating in my head from a recent conversation on that very item." I am curious, Castaway. You have all kinds of brainstorms. Hey Carly. Castaway asked, "What types of games do you like to incorporate with gag play?" I'll say thanks. Thing with gags, it really, really, really depends because it can be anything. Really anything. One of my favorites is always because I like service, and that's why I show it off a lot, is having a service submissive wear the little drink gag. This one. Hold on, hold on. This one. The other one I like is because, as we have already pointed out, I do like humiliation. I like doing a little bit of - oops, upside down again. Do you guys remember the dog shaming, where they would like post pictures of these cute dogs wearing a little post-it note that says, "I eat dirty panties" or, "I jumped on the table and ate a whole entire steak." So this is a fun gag that I like to use, and then put little notes on here and do sort of slave shaming. Just fun like, it's a punishment thing. And it's great because they can't always see what it says on there. Castaway says, "It's the type of brainstorm that perhaps I'll get back to you in a written form in a few weeks." Yes, do that. Do that. Wah. As for games, what is the company that makes the tray gag? That is Scott Paul Designs. One of my favorite. They also make my favorite blindfold. Here, I'll post a link. Scott Paul Designs. He does a whole lot of really high-end, really amazing and creative kink equipment and toys. I love them, and have quite a few things from him. Does anybody else have any questions? I was gonna see, in fact. They have a whole link for gags, for that system, including a couple of different O-ring gags. These O-ring gags are awesome. He calls them the elliptical gags. They are awesome because you can switch it out. I mean, nothing sucks more than getting a gag and having it be too big or too small. The little ring for somebody's mouth, because people's mouths vary quite a bit. Also, if you have something like any kind of dental issues, or jaw issues, the ring gags and the gags that hold your mouth further open can be problematic. So they have a great little gag set that comes in three different sizes. Actually, I guess you buy each size separately, but there are three sizes so you can decide. You know, if somebody's got a little mouth. Whoop. Yes, that's what gave me the original idea. Castaway said, "When you described a few months back the idea for hosting the slave shaming sign where the slave would not be able to see what the message said. Thanks for being such a great muse." Aww, thanks. "I think I may have had a sexy dream about it a while back." You think you may. You'll have to write down that dream and send it to me. Does anybody have any other questions about gags or about anything? We have fifteen minutes left, and I would love to answer some questions from people. If you have any, or have I told you everything you need to know? Yay! Meanwhile, I'll see if I have any more gags. Got a puppy gag. Aww. Somebody bit my puppy gag. Whoops. Dana asks, "I thought the cock gag was meant to wear the other way. Cock inside the mouth." No, hold on, I'll show you again. This would actually be sort of dangerous even if you could deep-throat it, because to deep-throat it you have to actually close your throat down so you don't breathe. But you can swallow this, I've seen it happen many times. It's that end. That end that goes in your mouth. It's just a little ball. Something to hold into the mouth while the other end goes where have you. Does anybody else have any questions? "That gag comes in three sizes: small, medium, and slut." It's a unisex toy, by the way. It does. I think that's small. Let's see, what other gags do I have to show? Rachel says, "You mentioned Scott Paul Designs will switch out rings for you. Are there any other tips to adjusting the fit of gags to each person's mouth? No fun to buy a gag and realize it doesn't fit." The gags that Scott Paul Designs, they don't switch it out for you. It's a system that you buy. So basically, you can get different kinds of ball gags, or the O-ring, or whatever, and it snaps in. So that you can have one gag that is sometimes a ball gag, and sometimes an O-ring gag. The Scott Paul Designs systems are really awesome like that. "Any tips for buying gags?" I will say that one thing about gags is that it depends on what it is, the sensation that you're going after and the mental aspect that you are trying to invoke. If somebody has a lot of jaw issues, then I highly recommend going with something that's more of a bar, that is something that can just go in their mouth, that doesn't stretch their mouth open. This is pretty one-size-fits-all. You don't have to get a pink bone. There's lots of them that are just a black bar. That's not the name of it. Drawing a blank right now. Castaway asked, "Did Miss Mona engage in any gag play in her recent jaunt to the Bay Area? If not, follow-up question: what was your favorite session adventure on my trip?" Dun dun da da. Possibly, I saw my brat when I was down there. I have a brat who is constantly getting himself in trouble. We have a certain relationship. I think that if anybody else did these things to me, I would unofficially just end them. They call me Mistress Sid because I break my toys, and I'm mean to my toys. And he even gave me a little magnifying glass, like Sid from Toy Story. Which I think is awesome for small penis humiliation. Can't quite see that little penis. So I saw them, and they were a brat, and I always do things. We do a lot of pushing of each other's limits. We've known each other for a long time, and it's just the relationship that we have. It is a funishment, but they often take things a little further than they mean to, and end up apologizing to me, and sometimes I'm mean to them, and I don't apologize. But this time, they were a bit of a brat. I think last time I was down, I used the cattle prod on them. They were dressed like a pony, and I cattle prodded the pony. This time, they brought their diaper cover because they also do some diaper play, and gave me a lock. And this is an awesome lock. It's a timed lock, so you can set it for up to like 99 hours. And so I locked them into their diaper and put the diaper cover over it and set this for 13 hours. Not so bad. But 13 hours in one diaper when they've been having to drink a lot of water. They went home with a trash bag for their car. They're refusing to answer questions, but I think they ended up cutting the lock off and not making it the 13 hours. Which is a sad, sad thing, 'cause these are awesome locks. I think that might have been my favorite, although there was another one where a bunch of girlfriends and I beat somebody and I wrote "fuck the patriarchy" across his cane and whip marks on his ass. Yay. Ah, Facebook. Thank you very much. Rachel just reminded me to remind you. If you're feeling helped or healed or generous, please consider tapping that gift jar. We do split all of our tips 50-50 with the Pleasure Professionals, Getting Off, and O.school. And I really, really, really hope as we wind down this last episode of Kink With Mona, that you guys will continue to support O.school however it goes. Hey, Control Freak. And tip your Pleasure Professionals. If you can't tip, then please feel free to share on social media. If you're sharing something about me, please use the hashtag #KinkWithMona. Peg the patriarchy. Yes. Most definitely. Does anybody else have any questions? I will be doing a couple more of these once in a while. Probably not on schedule because I know myself, I like to say that I'm gonna do it every Monday on Facebook, but I won't because life will be busy, and it'll be Wednesday, and I'll be like "Oh damn, I forgot." That was one of the things that I liked about O.school, they put me on a schedule and I stuck to it for the most part. Rachel just posted all my links. If you're on Facebook, you already know my links. I also have a Fetlife group that I very rarely log into, truth be told. But that is where Castaway posts recaps for all the Kink With Monas, and I also have a lounge for women to go talk about kinky stuff, and sex stuff, and women's stuff in general. That is women-only. Trans women are women. Just throwing that out there. That is the Darling Propaganda Lounge, which was also just posted there. And also Twitter. I am MissMonaDarling on Twitter. I try to be fairly active. If you're going to reach out to me on social media, Twitter's generally a pretty good place. Hey Elsie. Elsie says, "Thank you for everything, we'll miss you." I will be back someplace. This is just a change. I'll be sad to see the regular Monday night conversation end, 'cause like I said, I did like that it put me on a schedule. Yay, thank you for the tip. Every time you tip, the little clitasaurus pops up. Unfortunately, it's just in text. I want a little like, clitasaurus, little ping. But that's just me, I'm weird. But yes, please, this is the end of the Monday night thing for right now. I will be around. I am always, always here for everybody. Reach out to me on Twitter, on Facebook. Send me an email. I will still answer questions. Margaret says, "Thank you for sharing your wisdom, magnificent Mona." Aww. "I found my way to BDSM through you here on O.school, and I will forever be a better person for it. You are a goddess." Aw, thank you. That's so sweet. I am really happy to have helped you found that. It's just play, like I always say. BDSM is just play for adults. Just because you grow up doesn't mean you have to stop playing cops and robbers and all those fun games that you used to play as a kid. And yes, check out my book. Rachel just posted a link to it. Kinky Sex Tips For Curious Girls. Part coloring book, part activity book, and lots and lots of fun. And lots and lots of information. Whew. So, I am gonna wrap it up and turn off Facebook, and finish up. Bye, Facebook. So. Yay, Mickey. I love the little clitasaurus. Whoops. There we go. Castaway asked, did I want to mention any Sub-Rosa news? "How about a Patreon brainstorm?" I saw another great place today. They like us, they like what we're doing, so I may actually have some exciting news. We have two places right now, and it looks like both of them are open to what we do, and in our budget, and meet a bunch of our stuff, so we may actually... I know I've said this before, but we may actually have a place. Elsie says, "Such a healing stream for me always." Thank you, Elsie. Bah. I will be back, this is just a change. It's not the end. It's just a change to Monday nights. Hey, Maya. It's just a change to our Monday nights. We will see how O.school moves forward. You know, the most important thing is to keep O.school afloat and to try to make it work however it's going to work. And always, let's hear it to keeping Portland weird. I am always keeping Portland weird. Do go ahead and sign up for my mailing list. Here, I even have a link. Ah, it's an ugly link. It's a big, big, ugly link. Whoops, and I lost you. Sign up for my mailing list. That is gonna be where you get updates for where I am going to be. And yes, Sub-Rosa is going to have a Patreon soon, and there are going to be some awesome, interesting things as rewards on there. So, yes. Maybe a place. Maybe a place. We'll see. It's just been such a long, hard, that I don't... Until I am keys in hand, sitting in the middle of it, drinking champagne and crying, I am not gonna believe it's happened. And that is fully my plan. To sit with the keys, with my business partner, in the middle of the place, drinking champagne and crying because it has been a long, hard struggle until now. It's gonna be a ton of work after we get it, but I'm good with the work. It's the waiting and the anticipation, and the being turned down from multiple places that's killing me. I am gonna wind down. Gonna go see a friend play some Celtic music at a pub. So I hope you guys are having a great night, and always remember, there is no right. There is only what's right for you. I will see you on the flip side. Aw, sniff sniff. Goodbye everybody.

Gags With Mistress Mona

Date
Tue
Jul 31, 2018
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3:00 pm
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Calendar
Tuesday, July 31, 2018
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3:00 pm

Mistress Mona loves to talk about kink in an approachable, shame free environment. In this episode, we will be talking about gags! How to use safe words when you can’t talk, which gags work best in different situations, WHY would I want to try a gag?