Feel the rhythm!, feel the rhyme! get on up, because it's clitoris time! When it comes to clitoral stimulation and pleasuring your partner, sometimes it’s best to keep things simple and rhythmic.
In this stream, sex educator, coach, and write Gigi Engle explains how to keep the rhythm.
If you’re going for clitoral orgasm, Engle suggests keeping your movements and pressure consistent. If you want to be fancy about it, make sure your partner is into it by communicating throughout the process and/or listening for nonverbal cues, like moaning or curling toes. Otherwise, it can get a lil’ messy.
“I've had people who have done the alphabet technique on my clitoris and their letters end up being too big and they're kinda doing the K,” says Engle. “Like here's my clitoris, and they're like, the K is here, and the L is here. And I'm like, uh, I have my clitoris right here …”
Often, using your tongue to make simple rhythmic circles or horizontal and vertical strokes, can do the trick. To reiterate, it’s all about communication and asking your partner what turns them on. Experimenting and being open to new methods can be the best way to find the rhythm and motions that work for you and your partner.