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Spanking is a consensual and fun way to engage in roleplay. In erotic spanking, spanking isn’t used as a real punishment, but as an enjoyable part of sex.
In a spanking roleplay, one person will often take the dominant role as the spanker, while the other person will often take the submissive role as the spankee. When done right, spanking is a kind of “impact play” that can be enjoyed by all parties involved. However, it’s important to take consent seriously when you engage in this kind of roleplay, because spanking is still a form of hitting.
There are few different ways to include spanking in your sexual play. Sometimes people prefer to receive light taps on their buttocks, while other times people prefer to receive a hit that’s hard enough to leave a handprint. No one way is correct — you should do only what is consensually agreed upon between adults.
When you’re figuring out how to engage safely in spanking, you and your partner should discuss how hard the spanking should be, how long it should last, where exactly on the body they like to be spanked, and what verbal cues can be given to stop the spanking immediately. Once you’ve communicated your needs, let the spanking begin!